Middle age is a turning point in one's life stage, and it is also a stage where wisdom and maturity coexist.
At this stage, people should reflect on their past, sum up experience and plan for the future.
There are three things, after middle age, we should be careful to avoid self-inflicted consequences.
First, do not overreach, feet firmly hidden in the heart.
Middle-aged people should be well aware of their own abilities and limitations, and not blindly pursue illusory goals while neglecting the immediate work and responsibilities.
Many middle-aged people are eager to make a breakthrough in their career, but neglect their family and physical health, which will be more than worth the loss, and eventually leave regrets.
For example, Mr. Li pursued career success in middle age, worked overtime every day, and paid little attention to his family, resulting in estranged family relations and damaged physical health.
This is a typical case of overreaching, so middle-aged people should know how to cherish everything in front of them, down to earth, and do not get lost in the illusory distance.
When people reach middle age, they must find their own rhythm and continue to live well in accordance with their own rhythm in order to go further.
Second, give up the good teacher, hollow as grain practice in the line.
In middle age, many people have more or less achievements, at this time, we should maintain a humble attitude, do not be self-righteous, do not blindly give people advice, but should constantly improve their own cultivation and quality in humility.
For example, when Ms. Zhang became a senior executive in her middle age, she often decided the direction of the company based on her own experience and opinions, ignoring the advice of others in her team.
Such behavior is likely to lead to a decline in team morale, so that individuals in the company can not play their own advantages, and ultimately will inevitably weaken the cohesion of the entire team.
Middle-aged people should give up this kind of attitude of being good to others and be vain, which can not only increase their own wisdom, but also improve the effectiveness and cohesion of the team.
In middle age, one of the most valuable qualities is to understand that there is something to be done and something to be done.
There are things that need to be done as a team, don't be individual heroism.
When you need a team effort and you need to listen to the opinions of individuals in the team, don't act arbitrarily, or you may be isolated.
Third, do not be "soft hearted" and help the poor with edges and corners.
Middle-aged people tend to be kind and kind, but sometimes being too kind can lead to problems.
When facing difficulties and crises, middle-aged people should remain resolute and firm, and not be blinded by their own kindness.
For example, in middle age, Mr. Wang encountered difficulties in borrowing money from a relative. Although he knew that the relative was not a person he could trust, he lent it to him out of kindness, which eventually led to financial losses and the breakdown of interpersonal relationships.
This is the negative impact of "gentleness of heart", middle-aged people in the face of difficulties and crises, should know how to maintain a certain degree of rationality and calm, rather than being affected by their own kindness.
Middle age is a very important stage in life, we should bear in mind the three advice of aiming high, giving up good advice to teachers, and not "soft hearted".
Only by staying grounded and confident, while remaining resolute and firm, can we live a more leisurely and happy life after middle age.
If you have the three problems mentioned above, often do those three things intentionally or unintentionally, I hope you can quit after middle age, otherwise the pain is yourself.