To a confused young friend

Writing this article is a bit of a cliche, but I think it should be written.

The reason is that a small fellow of mine, I went to college that year, he was born, the generation is also younger than me, today wechat chat with me a few words, said that I want to talk with me all night long, very earnest, has been looking at me as a role model, which makes me very ashamed, but as his elder, I also want to talk with him. He said he was confused and had no direction and didn't know what to do. I talked with him for a few words, and later told him that I would write an article, not only him, but also my children: nephews, nephews, sons and children of relatives and friends can see that it is not good to walk during the epidemic, and if you can listen to it, you may be able to take less detours, if you can do so, it is best.

I talked to him about the solidification of class and the inheritance of genes, which is also reasonable. The environment of growth is different, people have family design growth routes and life planning. As a child from the countryside, there is no planning, but there are still some feelings. The rural origin is a kind of wealth for me, and I have a strong ability to fight against the fight when I grow up, but it may also be a hindering to some extent - the innate lack of vision and height.

Because of my rural background, I cultivated a simple character, but I was also very late in my education. At that time, the only thing I did when I went to school was to fight hogweed and play with a group of children. I spent a carefree childhood, without desire or desire, without worry or fear, without fear or constraint.

The family does not expect you to be able to test out, my childhood ideal is to be a worker, because the parents' vision and the surrounding environment is so, when a worker is very fascinating! Cousin was admitted to the secondary school, became the glory of the village, relatives and friends one by one please eat, because this account will be transferred out. I often say that I can read a doctor, completely by mistake, never thought about it, never tree ambition, as a model to encourage later learning is very far-fetched, because there is no concept, no one at home to guide, but no one will give you a plan for life, the highest education is my old lady, junior high school graduation, she saw me at that time to read a doctor is very difficult, while working at school, Also told me that we can't do it, don't read crazy, she was afraid that I could not bear the pressure crazy.

Now many farmers go to work in the city, even buy a house in the city, marry a wife and children, but the circle of life is still these people, contact with these farmers, the hoe was originally placed in the yard, now it is carried to the upstairs, the vision and realm is difficult to have a big improvement, affect the next generation, it is difficult to have a big breakthrough, because I am also a farmer, so it may also be on the cap. But there's nothing wrong with what I said.

One of my old leaders, in his early thirties to the department level, once told me that the height of people's thinking is not enough experience and experience is difficult to have a big promotion, by reading thinking is not useless, but will not be of great use, I think it is very reasonable.

When I was in college, children from the countryside wanted to go to the city after graduation, children from the city wanted to go to the big city after graduation, children from the big city wanted to go to the provincial capital, children from the provincial capital wanted to go to Beijing, and children from Beijing wanted to go abroad. Another example is dreaming, you never dream of things you have not seen, the ideal is the same, jump to reach more realistic.

Having said all this, what I want to express is the importance of enlightenment. I graduated from college into the factory, and then laid off, and then a series of postgraduate entrance examination, employment, resignation, doctoral examination, employment, resignation, employment, temporary post, resignation, employment, enterprises have done, career has done, private enterprises have done, central enterprises have done, every step is almost not premeditated, basically because of helplessness by the progress of the majority. Imagine, I graduated from the undergraduate into the factory did not lay off, the unit barely maintained 20 years did not close down, up to now the probability that I may be just a laid-off worker! Running around for a living! Because of these experiences, there may also be more communication with the younger generation, how to take detours.

What I say is not necessarily true, it varies from person to person, from time to time, from event to event, from place to place.

First of all, it's hard to be lonely. School is a hard job, the first time I entered the university campus, full of excitement, after a period of time full of anger, several times in and out, and now back to the university campus, full of envy, mentality has changed. Young people, take this time to read as much as possible, miscellaneous books, professional books can be, as long as you want to read, but don't play games. When I was a child, there was no book to read at home, the university had a book and time did not cherish, read a lot of miscellaneous books: Chinese medicine, painting, Go to see a lot, later also useful, we did not have a computer network mobile phone, TV every Friday and six nights to open, usually do not have to see, now looking back on it is just good, our generation is very solid basic skills, because you in addition to reading is not too good place, even we did not get a diploma, now are technical authorities, That's the foundation, plus the hard work after graduation.

Now science and technology is developed, especially the application of computers, which is also not good, the good is very efficient, commercial software calculation is very convenient, you do not need to understand the meaning of the equations can also calculate the number! The bad thing is that the concept is generally not clear, the sci article written a bunch of formulas, they do not understand, it is just a form, because the real calculation is handed over to commercial software! At that time, we had to program our own calculations, test several levels of partial differential equations, and answer the physical meaning of each item, and now it is difficult for young people to answer it, and what I want to say is the importance of basic skills, and the basis for analogy is this.

Reading to go to school as far as possible on the head, read a doctor, postdoctoral, don't ask me why, as long as I believe that I will not harm you on it, because I go to school off and on, eat very thanks. In the system, to develop, age is also a barrier, this is not to say more, you really can survive the future will be grateful to me.

What is the purpose of reading? I don't know! Everyone is different, but I want to at least learn to distinguish ability, analytical ability, which requires a professional but also to learn logic, whether it is liberal arts or science, to understand logic, do not understand logic is unclear, easy to believe, as for technical skills are relatively studious, college graduation time is in the early 1980s, when there are warlocks said can change water into oil, I said nonsense, Hydrogen and oxygen are burned to produce water, the hydroelectricity process hydrogen and oxygen, it takes a huge amount of energy to open the hydrogen and oxygen bond, water can burn, produce what? Where does the energy to break the hydrogen - oxygen bond come from? This is the basic logic, reasonable is reasonable, reasonable is legal, most of them.

To set up long-term and near-term goals, this is not imaginary, only come to realize that you will be in the future. For example, if you choose the North Star at night, you will not lose your way, if you want to choose a very close light, walk may be confused, but you can not always overreach, recent goals must also have - find yourself, casually, as long as it can help you, such as writing an article, watching a movie with friends, you can, because the recent goals continue to produce a sense of accomplishment, which is also needed.

This society is cruel! This is what you must realize, you only have the value of being used, you will be valuable, that is, you have to be useful! No one will pity you, no one will actively consider your interests! Unless you're valuable. Don't always think about the leader, one stage you are the leader of the person - because this time he needs you; Another stage may not be - his needs change! The world's martial arts only fast not broken, the world's talent is only capable, in any unit do not be dispensable people, dispensable the final result is nothing!

And, very important, how to deal with the tasks sent by the leader at work! A task, which no one has done before, is given to you, and you will choose between two emotions, for sure! The first is resentment, who will not do, let me do, leadership is really not something, see my black eyes, so you will certainly do well, and will not grow. The other is to seize the opportunity, who will not do, the leader gave me, is an opportunity, it is equivalent to the unit to open your salary to let you learn things, do well, you master the technology that others will not, you won the opportunity, even if you did not do well, you also learn things, salary bonus did not affect - mentality is very important!

Write here is already midnight, scattered, later think of in finishing it, hope to be useful to young people, do not want to rely on the old - because I have not been old, just like encouraging you to study hard, I am like this!

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