My friend Han Tang is a teacher in another city. Like me, he is also a chemistry teacher.
Seven years ago, the school arranged for me to travel to Hunan to attend the training of a new course, and we happened to be assigned to the same room. During the training break, he asked me to give an expert lecture on the production and application of micro-lessons to teachers in his school. I am not an expert, I refused his request for lectures, but I told them how I do micro-lessons, how to use micro-lessons.
After dinner, we teachers from all over the country chatted in the training hall and the topic of blind date came up.
Han teacher is already the father of two children, but talking about the story of blind dates in the past, still brooding.
He went to Shanghai East China Normal University directly under the Ministry of Education for a master's degree. Three years later, he went to Hangzhou to teach. At that time, he was 27 years old and just joined the staff. Every time he called home, the family urged him to hurry up and find a girlfriend, saying that his classmates and children would play soy sauce.
So he searched online for matchmaking conferences and signed up for one.
That afternoon, he put on a straight suit, smoothed out his beard, cleaned up, and saw in the mirror a version of himself at the peak of his appearance. At 2:30, he arrived at a commercial center by the West Lake, where the organizer had hired the teahouse.
There are six people sitting at a table, three men and three women sitting opposite each other, each person has a business card, on which they can fill in their age, occupation, interests, annual salary, desired love object and so on. Every 8 minutes, the boys stand up, go to another table, and then exchange business cards with the girls at this table until they have exchanged all the girls who are interested in the table. Some look directly back, and some will talk with him a few words. "Teacher, you are a graduate of East China Normal University ah, master ah, quite impressive!" "Teacher, do you have real estate in Hangzhou?" A series of problems, etc., my friend saw the girl on the opposite side, and had a little affection for several, but more felt that the three views were incompatible, and the character might not be suitable. Did not see the girl who made him fall in love, but became a good friend with a boy who led the seat, rich second generation Liu Fuhrer, is the executive director of a company, has been 40 years old. Later, that director Liu also lent him 500,000 yuan for the down payment of the house.
Under the constant urging of his family, he participated in several blind dates, and actually saw several girls who chatted with him for the first time in another teahouse. One girl saw him, smiled at each other, and looked down at her mobile phone in shame.
On the eighth or ninth blind date, he vowed that no matter how much his family forced him, this would be the last one. That day, he fell in love with a girl, unexpectedly, the girl also fell in love with him. In the last list released by the host, he and the girl successfully held hands. Two people also got two movie tickets, went to the West Lake side of the Wulin to see a movie "to our youth", it turns out that their business cards are written like to watch movies, the organizer is really very hard.
Originally thought that the fate of thousands of miles to meet, who knows later to go out to visit the West Lake, Leifeng Tower and other attractions, the other side with their own several sisters, eat and drink all by the teacher responsible for Han. Just be happy. It doesn't matter. However, the girl and one of her friends accidentally said something that he heard into his heart. The friend said that he still remembers very clearly, one of the girl's sisters said, "If I get married in the future, the bride price is not 800,000, don't think about it," the girl said, how little ah. When my friend heard this, his heart sank, he only had a monthly salary of 10,000, only a year of work, where there was so much money, and when he looked at the girls, he was disgusted with the heart of the gold digger. Thus, the blind date of this story is over.
That Spring Festival, he went back to his hometown in Jiangxi, accidentally learned that junior high school classmates, that is, his junior high school crush on three years of female students, in Ganzhou do civil servants, is also a blind date many times without satisfaction, so the two people chatted several times, determined the love relationship, the original, the girl, Huixia also have a good impression on him, but two people are ignorant. Unexpectedly, after graduating from junior high school, did not meet for 12 years, and now lovers will eventually become spouses.
Readers, if you are reading this essay, you may have attended many blind date parties. I want to say, marriage is not a play, please must think twice, can not because of the suffocating urge at home just walk into marriage. Must carefully select, and their own outlook on life, world view, values of the people who match, the ancients cloud, marriage should be a match, marriage is actually a cooperation, unequal marriage is not destined to be very happy.
What is between the advent of love, straight teach life and death, do you believe? At least from what I've seen of the world, it's really too few. But I'm not a wet blanket, I'm just suggesting you think it through.