Don't talk about specific people, just the marriage. It will be. One is devoted to scientific research, the other is devoted to logistics at home. High education does not mean a good character fish, shrimp, shrimp, eight turtle relatives. It's not like a family doesn't go into the same house. I have seen similar marriages, can only say from the human couple. How can it be, don't be naive? Marriage depends on the combination of the human soul and the communication between the heart and the heart. For example, do you guarantee that the perspective of graduate students will be consistent with the perspective of junior high school students? Or the other way around are Lu Xun and Zhu An happy? People with different views are difficult to get along with. There is a big difference between a graduate student and a junior high school student. The key to a happy marriage is emotional stability is not the academic degree this is very reasonable, there is such a pair around, female junior high school graduates can earn money and long white, male graduate students graduate from a university as a teacher, because the male is relatively idle so have time to educate the child very well, excellent student level of the Chinese Academy of Sciences many academicians' wife, very ordinary, Education is not high can not say that education is only one aspect of knowledge, values, pattern will affect it. Yang Chaoyue is also very difficult to graduate from junior high school, women look good, inner empty, a long time is also very boring shoes are not suitable only feet know for themselves is good I know a pair, male doctor, female junior high school mixed society. Do not know how they are mixed together, only know that after marriage, the woman to the child as a threat, all kinds of work, the man's family is holding the death. It's about a man and a woman, so much for a high degree in other things, maybe even lower EQ
With the arrival of the Mid-Autumn Festival and National Day this year, Shenzhen Fuxian Lake National Tourism Resort has become a popular destination for tourists inside and outside the province with its unique geographical landform, warm climate, beautiful natural beauty and profound cultural heritage. During the festival, there is an endless stream of tourists here, and parent-child families are particularly noticeable. In the Red Beach area, the children dig and dig on the sand, digging out different sizes, different depths of sand pits; Or use a variety of molds to "carve" out of the desired shape; Children with rich imagination simply do not have any tools, and build up the "castle" in their minds by hand. Some parents quietly enjoy the beautiful scenery of the lake and the sky, feel the comfort brought by the breeze; Some are using mobile phones to shoot beautiful scenery to share with friends; Some stay beside the children to do "technical guidance"; Some accompany the children to walk on the beach, and the whole beach presents a harmonious picture of both fun and getting what they need. In the Fuwan Bay Wetland Park, there are families who sit by the lake with parasol to enjoy thousands of acres of glass, families who look for various colors and shapes of sand and stone in the lake, families who play in the lake and laugh, families who walk on the sightseeing plank road, giving people a kind of quiet and quiet, warm and harmonious feeling. Chengjiang Fossil Land World Natural Heritage Museum In this special holiday, children and parents explore the mysteries of fossils, experience the charm of natural history, and spend an unforgettable time. The science and Technology Experience museum allows children to understand the formation process and protection significance of fossils in hands-on operation; DIY activities allow children to master knowledge and skills in play, improve their thinking ability, hands-on ability. The natural ecological experience activities let the children get close to nature and cultivate their environmental awareness. Each exhibition hall through the use of VR, AR, OLED flexible screen and other high-tech interactive exhibition methods, not only let the vast number of young people understand the origin of paleontology, the mystery of animal species and biodiversity knowledge, full of science education significance, but also closely related to the theme of natural ecology and environmental protection. Through the exhibition, we will stimulate young people's interest in science and the spirit of exploration, while advocating that we care about nature and cherish the biodiversity of the earth. In addition, through the promotion of parent-child interaction activities, the development of family parent-child relationship has also been enhanced, so that parents and children have established a deeper relationship in the activity. Parents and children from all over the world said they benefited a lot from the trip. They not only learned a lot about fossils and animal species, but also made many new friends and spent a very meaningful holiday. Source: Chengjiang Fossil Museum ↓¤Praise Fuxian Lake - Wow home Shenzhen 1 road beautiful scenery forever. It is not enough, Shenzhen should also increase the development and protection of the three Lakes tourism, start the most beautiful business card of the three Lakes, increase infrastructure supporting facilities, and crack down on illegal activities affecting Shenzhen's tourism business card.
Gao Hong Kong Government Offices Authority, the end of the year is coming again, please pay the remaining money as early as possible according to the contract! Subject matter: District Gaogang Technical Room decoration Project Location: Gaogang District Completion Time: 2019.4.20 Settlement time: 2020.11.7 Payment method: 4:3:3 Contract balance payment time: 2021.4.20 It is supposed to pay the balance of 2021.4.20, but a year after a year, this project is still not made! What a rush to ruin the construction unit! In the course of several consultations with the leaders of the Bureau, the reply was that there was no financial provision, so we should go through the legal process directly. Do not know whether the delay of payment of project funds is illegal and disciplinary? Or is he praised for saving the country money? It's the Spring Festival again, and it's a pass! Enterprise unpaid wages is illegal, enterprise owes materials to be sued, enterprise owes taxes to be pursued, enterprise wants money to be civilized, enterprise litigation and offend! Aych! Business is too hard! Hopefully next year the company will be alive to ask for the project money? … It's hard to get money without some blood. You have to be honest. … Government agencies should take the lead in honesty and law-abiding, if so, it will affect the credibility of the government! … By "legal process," you mean a lawsuit… I have also done some small work, the project money is really difficult to obtain, only 40% after the completion of the project, and then the payment is delayed again and again, and the Government is also playing a lazy game. You also know that the New Year is coming, but the result is that you do not know how to do things. What do you let other people's leaders say about you? ! … The hotel is open today, but it's running a little late… The year is over, the shift is over, it's time to deal with things… There should be less financial pressure this year, and some expenses do not need to be paid.
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Reminder: In the case of declining income, buy second-hand housing to pay special attention to the height of the annual property costs and the quality of the house. To avoid the pothole property company, to avoid the general property quality of the community, we discuss, in addition to the lake Yuetian outside, how many Tiankeng community? Lake Yue Tianjing community before buying boast 5 star service, property charges a word, expensive! The cost of housing is high and the quality of service is low. More than one hundred square meters, two years to about 10,000 yuan of property fees (including parking management fees and expensive public energy allocation), not only did not see someone door to collect garbage, Guanlan someone threw in the downstairs garbage bin was actually thrown back to the ten floors of the upstairs by the property company, surprised, out of anger! The public greening of the new community has been divided, each snatching its own grassland site, and the services are not up to five-star standards. The large electronic billboard in the community uses the owner's public share of electricity to do intermediary advertising, right? The fountain has no water to spray, the swimming pool has no water to swim, and this rainy day there is water everywhere. Seriously, I'm not even gonna get a 2-star placement. The door guard is a retiree. Do I protect him or does he protect me? The latex paint on the staircase walls is peeling, and the quality of the community is completely disproportionate to the high property charge ratio. Worst of all, the service is really bad, posing first! As a superficial article, the housekeeper often punched the card in the circle of friends! Propaganda has become the usual way to deceive people. This kind of community, the Wolf in sheep's clothing, the most terrible. While bragging about how good they are, while oppressing the owner of the house that bought it, you did not buy before it was a face, you bought its house, it is another face, its face changed quickly. It is recommended that you must polish your eyes before buying a second-hand house, you not only buy a property of general quality, but also buy a property service that can not be replaced, and the community with high property fees and low service can not be touched. There are a few Tiankeng property, lake Yue Tianjing number first? Brainstorm, we come to ridicule the high fees in Shanghai, poor service, low cost of property service companies there are a few? … For me, no illegal property is a good property! … Set up a owners' committee, fire them… Lake Yue Tianjing community inside the illegal buildings are also a lot, as long as the illegal construction does not affect others, the general people will not report… I can bear everything else, the most intolerable is the violation of the rules! … If the property company continues in this way, it will suffer losses sooner or later on the issue of collecting property fees. No payment… It's true that Country Garden's property management is very responsible. … I feel that I am right, from this person's point of view, you can see the real problem of Country Garden, which is the typical thinking of the melon eaters who are deceived by Country Garden's propaganda. … And the problem of Country Garden is that before you buy it is a face, after buying it is another face, when facing you is a face, behind the pit, it is another face, you bought the Country Garden house, you will be subject to its gas, this is the outside people can not understand, so the sea has such an idea is not strange. What you see is appearances. It's propaganda. This property has poor service, high fees, deceptive… Orange memory did not see this post… The industry committee was set up and the property chain, the owner is more trouble, after the establishment of the second phase of the industry committee did a big thing, cancel the original ground parking space in the community (free) so that the car is all parked underground garage (pay rent and management fees) to create wealth for the property company, change the so-called people and cars distribution, the original design is not people and cars distribution. What will be the result of checking whether the EIC has accepted any benefits from the property? … @Orange Memory… Country Garden property fee is not too expensive, the north property is very good, the south has not lived, do not comment… It's all broken… The beautiful name gives you a good property is actually put you clean… He's never lived in a Country Garden Estate. What the hell does he know… It's true that bragging about yourself is generally purposeful. Wouldn't it be nice to split people and cars? Now the new residential areas are all the main people and cars, compared to indiscriminate parking, people and cars are not fragrant? It doesn't make sense to spray it with this. … Country Garden will also use this owner's tone to create a false "word of mouth". The infamous Country Garden is known for its clever tricks. … People and vehicles shunt well, it brings high property costs, so much money to the property every year, all work for the property, or like the kind of low property costs of the community. … To find a reason to collect more money, to find a reason to collect money for you, some properties are directly flagrant electricity theft. … Shanghai property can only look good… You this matter, I say a few words, I guess you are not happy, after all, it involves your interests! 1. Free parking on public roads is unfair to owners without cars; 2, cancel the road public parking space, all into the underground garage. Objectively improve the environment of the community, of course, is beneficial to developers and properties! … When it comes to property, China Resources property is good. There are some drawbacks, but overall it's good. The last time we set up a trade committee, the owners were not active. … Owners do not actively participate in the establishment of the property committee, indicating that we do not feel the existence of property services, indicating that the property is silent and the service is in place. If everyone wants to set up a property committee, the property is too rubbish… From the beginning of the capital verification of the house, it has the illusion of buying a noble community, and the underground garage of the resettlement house does not have so much water! Lake Yue ground is too slippery, five star charge, a few star service? … Lake Yue Tianjing, a property company made into a resistance to the community, the community originally had a lot of free direct drinking water, and now the direct drinking water device downstairs is gone, the direct water was dismantled! South of the Country Garden property is very expensive, Lake Yue multi-storey 2 more than a square, even if a day is not living 2 more than a flat… Rob the money… Country Garden property knife is too fast, superimposed per square property fee of more than 2 pieces, equal to pay a rent every year, live in Country Garden Lake Yue Tianjing, about equal to rent in the urban old community… Every month, there are public electricity and water charges, and these costs seem to be how much the property itself is how much, it is said that the owner is shared, but who knows whether they that account is right. … And from what I've seen on TV, cancers like Wallwishers may have corrupted other units. Like using public power to intimidate disobedient property owners. … This cancer, it feels like it will be uprooted one day. So whoever was involved, consciously or not, was involved. Don't have a good time driving now. … Country Garden is out of money… These people are all working together… Community property committees all have the same interests… Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, it is that capital exploits you, buying a house pits your hard-earned money, property earns your living expenses for a lifetime) and I am the fish. Country Garden is closing down, what can he ask for? Overcome it… Country Garden's biggest pit, is the property, bought a house also long-term rent, north of how many country garden villa auction check is owed 80,000, there is a debt of more than 100,000… Property on both sides of the money, facade room electricity and street lighting fees are a fool's account… The property tax is not as good as renting, but also save the principal and eat interest… Is not the industry committee can re-select the property, Country Garden is the proud son of heaven alone… Country Garden property fee, I have not paid, learn from others, completely put rotten want to go to Hengdian World Studios to play, have been to the Baozi? To gain experience, it is best to see the actors who are filming, such as Ren Jialun… Search the Internet… Summer vacation. It was okay. Nice. It's big. Can't play all day… Hengdian has more than a dozen scenic spots composed of wechat small program medical insurance how not to pay… Good to pay for it. What's your tip? … No information yet… I have trouble with… I asked the health insurance bureau, said you can't pay in advance, only the current month's… It's just not good this month… 12345 said to check in a few days. System issues… You can check to see if it's all paid. In addition, it seems that it is not possible to pay in advance recently.
Sanitary city with such a dirty underground garage… Song Du bar… 500. Get ready. I'll show you some… If you take Shanghai Yida Garden compared with this, you can only count as a child, do not believe yourself to see… Where is this… I've been to see IDA. It's cooler than this neighborhood… It's not… I think it's Garfung's… No, the neighborhood has a nice name, but it's just not what it is… I will take you to see a community five times dirtier than this, the name is very tall, please prepare your 500 yuan do not play on… Any two old neighborhoods would be dirtier… Overlooking the lake… The parking lot in the basement, you may not have made it to the location… It's already good. Go to the basement of Changzhou shopping mall. It's dirty and smelly. Mosquitoes fly around, garbage is not cleaned up, and feces are everywhere. This is Sunny Paris… Is that dirty? It's not normal to be a little gray. I thought you had trash lying around… Bay Bridge… The underground garage of our community is washed with water every month. … There is no dirtiest, only dirtier…. The question is, do you mean what you say? … Dare you bet big… The English mansion… Yanshan Meilin… West Side Garden? High-speed rail station lost ID card, please have a good Samaritan found… To help you… Are you sure you lost it at the high speed train station? Just go to the information desk and ask, wait 1-2 weeks, and then go to replace it if there is no one. … Oh, thank you, you went out today and saw two people wearing archaeological vests, asking about the discovery of an ancient kiln, which is not yet confirmed… From the looks of the picture, at least two violations. … If you don't wear a helmet and you turn left, you don't use your turn signal. 1. Not wearing a helmet 2. Carrying passengers 3. Driving in the wrong direction 4 Yellow card need to pay insurance Have a driver's license, I do not know if… Wearing a vest with traffic immunity. You got a problem with that? … I don't know whose grave we're digging up. … It's legal to wear a vest, huh… I know… Where exactly… Where did you see… Come on, this yellow card is for a battery car… Dig a little bit here. I drilled a few holes in the family's newly renovated house and I did a terrible job of finding my home, and I burned my switch, and now I'm not answering my phone. Don't look for trash like this when you're sewing your new house. Let's see what we can say about this job. … Now consumption everywhere is a pit, hide the first day, hide but fifteen, can only say that the market climate is falling… I'm going to do my own sewing. You must earn what you can earn… Have taken shelter… When you want to collect money, it is better to say than to sing, say that there is a problem to contact her, the result is paid, the phone either says that it is busy for a few days, and after a few days, you simply do not answer the phone, you can see the quality of their work, itself is introduced by a friend, this kind of mobile workers without physical stores, we should take as a warning, especially during the renovation period, the money can not be settled all at once. … If the project is not completed and accepted, the balance must not be settled… White is glass glue, not sealant… It's good… The United States seam is actually to pay (**) tax, three years after the full crack. … Or please people, rookies and old birds or there is a gap, but also a technical life… The whole house customization is the biggest pit, all the density board, the scene splicing, shaky, a mess. … Thank you, lightning… I know… Have avoided the pit Shanghai east beachhead behind the public river every day someone in the net fishing to ask this someone manage? … Is there anyone who will put it every day… … Do not catch fish in the land of rice? … Who cares. … Can't control… It's not the fish pond in your castle… Wild river fish, why not catch? … No one cares… Some people really have nothing to do with hanging up high, a mouth, a keyboard. Why is the Yangtze River closed to fishing? … As long as the water pollution is less, the fish can not catch the bus station next to the Changzhou high-speed railway station, when is the last bus to Shanghai? … The next bus butler… Last flight 6:20 PM… Thank you, everyone. It's 18:20 on 12306. … Will you go to Changzhou tomorrow
A few days ago, cleaning, find out a doctor's card of a hospital of traditional Chinese medicine, only to remember that the balance of one or two hundred yuan has not been used up, as if this kind of doctor's card has not been used up, can it be returned? … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … How do you know how much balance is in it? Shouldn't you be at the hospital? … It's expired. … Where can I deposit money on this card… Can be returned should, I am not used in Xi 'an to come back to return. … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … It's a smart thing to do, you know? Haha… I'm out of my depth… Haha, rabbit Shanghai Zhongguancun development is good ah, behind the city of happiness, there is also a fountain light show on the other side of the Canal Park, the light show is very beautiful, light and shadow changes, water dance flying, feeling that the effect of spending money is quite lively, there are a lot of people, just don't know if it is every night? Or just a few days a week? Does anyone know? It feels good to take a walk there at night and look at the light show. Where is the location? Every night? … The house could go up a bit… Pretty… Stop dreaming. It'll keep falling… The South River commercial complex has been planned on the east side of the North garden of Happiness City. … Friday to Sunday, north of the north garden of the Happy city… I heard that houses in the north of the city fell even more. … There are many exhaust gases in industrial parks, and the prices of second-hand houses and dismantled houses in industrial parks have fallen, and many of them have to rot in their hands. Well, I'll tell my friend not to take the house north of town. … If you bought it in the first half of the year, it's not a problem to lose 100,000… The river next to it stinks. It spoils the view… Fell 5500 a square meter 2 hand room… At this rate of population decline, at this rate of economic decline, the house price of 3,500 is not necessarily affordable… Long named happy city, so later more and more happy. … It's only $5,000 over there now… The green door by the fountain is a failure. The whole park is so beautiful. It's better to put something like a green ghost door than nothing at all… Houses are not for speculation, they are for living, and those who say that they have fallen and risen are not interesting. … The strength of the choice of Yanshan New District, it is said that the Yanshan New District school district is not so good, ordinary families, you can buy the transition of the happy city, marry a wife always buy a house, and then you can change to improve the type. There is no denying that Happiness City is currently the center of Zhongguancun, the east is attached to the South Normal University primary School, the west is attached to the South Normal University Middle School, both front and back are parks. The middle street is a busy street, nothing wrong with that. Up and down, you are not investing, there is no need to get too entangled. … Ask your friend to buy Yanshan New District, which is 2-3 million. … Light night landscape beautification floating bright! … Pay the loan… Could it?
Middle age is a turning point in one's life stage, and it is also a stage where wisdom and maturity coexist. At this stage, people should reflect on their past, sum up experience and plan for the future. There are three things, after middle age, we should be careful to avoid self-inflicted consequences. First, do not overreach, feet firmly hidden in the heart. Middle-aged people should be well aware of their own abilities and limitations, and not blindly pursue illusory goals while neglecting the immediate work and responsibilities. Many middle-aged people are eager to make a breakthrough in their career, but neglect their family and physical health, which will be more than worth the loss, and eventually leave regrets. For example, Mr. Li pursued career success in middle age, worked overtime every day, and paid little attention to his family, resulting in estranged family relations and damaged physical health. This is a typical case of overreaching, so middle-aged people should know how to cherish everything in front of them, down to earth, and do not get lost in the illusory distance. When people reach middle age, they must find their own rhythm and continue to live well in accordance with their own rhythm in order to go further. Second, give up the good teacher, hollow as grain practice in the line. In middle age, many people have more or less achievements, at this time, we should maintain a humble attitude, do not be self-righteous, do not blindly give people advice, but should constantly improve their own cultivation and quality in humility. For example, when Ms. Zhang became a senior executive in her middle age, she often decided the direction of the company based on her own experience and opinions, ignoring the advice of others in her team. Such behavior is likely to lead to a decline in team morale, so that individuals in the company can not play their own advantages, and ultimately will inevitably weaken the cohesion of the entire team. Middle-aged people should give up this kind of attitude of being good to others and be vain, which can not only increase their own wisdom, but also improve the effectiveness and cohesion of the team. In middle age, one of the most valuable qualities is to understand that there is something to be done and something to be done. There are things that need to be done as a team, don't be individual heroism. When you need a team effort and you need to listen to the opinions of individuals in the team, don't act arbitrarily, or you may be isolated. Third, do not be "soft hearted" and help the poor with edges and corners. Middle-aged people tend to be kind and kind, but sometimes being too kind can lead to problems. When facing difficulties and crises, middle-aged people should remain resolute and firm, and not be blinded by their own kindness. For example, in middle age, Mr. Wang encountered difficulties in borrowing money from a relative. Although he knew that the relative was not a person he could trust, he lent it to him out of kindness, which eventually led to financial losses and the breakdown of interpersonal relationships. This is the negative impact of "gentleness of heart", middle-aged people in the face of difficulties and crises, should know how to maintain a certain degree of rationality and calm, rather than being affected by their own kindness. Middle age is a very important stage in life, we should bear in mind the three advice of aiming high, giving up good advice to teachers, and not "soft hearted". Only by staying grounded and confident, while remaining resolute and firm, can we live a more leisurely and happy life after middle age. If you have the three problems mentioned above, often do those three things intentionally or unintentionally, I hope you can quit after middle age, otherwise the pain is yourself.
In the singing of Shanxi Zuoquan folk song "Peach Blossom, Red Apricot and White Flowers", Jiang Jianbo, a scholar of cultural travel and master's tutor of Shanxi University of Finance and Economics, visited Shanghai Library (East Hall) to share his new book "Shanxi on the Earth", and told about this calm and heavy province through multiple groups of human geography dialogues. He said that the warm and traditional Shanxi people, the open and enterprising Shanghai people, different Chinese people are working together to build the same Chinese dream. "The steadiness of Shanxi and the exuberance of Shanghai constitute China's past, present and future." At the sharing meeting on November 11, Jiang Jianbo mentioned, "Shanxi on the earth is built on the four-dimensional overall space of 'heaven - earth - God - man'. If we take a more grand position and look from Shanxi in the mountains and rivers to Shanghai in the East China Sea, a space with similar connections will be presented to us." And this is 4100 years ago, Hedong salt pond (located in Yuncheng, Shanxi Province), the two ancestors Shun, Yu led the ministers to sing the song, meaning the pursuit of light, the revival of China. For example, on the human and divine level, the City God Temple in Shanghai is dedicated to Huo Guang, whose ancestor was named after his founding at the foot of Huoshan Mountain in Shanxi Province. Songjiang Tang Jing Building in Shanghai and Wutai Foguang Temple in Shanxi are both powerful witnesses of the Sinicization of Buddhism. Shanghai Tower and Yingxian Wooden Tower both use the "double sleeve" building structure. "Shanxi on the Earth" is described in 28 representative geographical coordinates, including Huanghe Jinshan Grand Canyon, Hedong Yanchi, Wutai Mountain, Yingxian Wooden Tower, Xinghua Village, and so on, which is called "Shanxi Museum on paper" by readers. The book describes in detail the structure of this wooden peak tower in Ying County: entering the first floor, you can see a circle of outer columns and a circle of inner columns, and the octagonal plane of the tower is divided into a corridor for believers to walk and worship (outer slot) and the tower ventricle for enshrines the solemn Buddha statue (inner slot). Inside the center of the tower, in addition to the two north and south walls, the other six walls are painted with six large Buddhas with circular arches 趺坐. Together with the 11-meter-high sitting Buddha in the center, they form the layout of the past seven Buddhas. Looking around, it is also seen that the inner groove and the outer groove are closely connected through the longitudinal and transverse structures such as beams and square beams, forming a double sleeve structure with strong rigidity. Modern architecture calls this mode "tube in tube". In Jiang Jianbo's view, to understand Shanxi, just skimming a few places, is far from enough, "go deep into Shanxi, and even spend more than 100 days." He suggested to the reader that the plan could be based on the four counties in Shanxi during the Han Dynasty. In Yanmen County, Xinzhou, Shuozhou and Datong, you can enjoy the most splendid ancient Buddhist art in Shanxi. In Taiyuan County of Jinzhong, the provincial capital and its vicinity gather rich museum resources and Jinshang ancient town style; Hedong County in the south of Shanxi Province, which is equivalent to Linfen City and Yuncheng City, is an important area where Yao, Shun and Yu created rituals and music, so many ancestral temples were left, including the tomb of Emperor Shun and the Temple of Guan Di. Finally, Shangdang County in the southeast of Jin retains a large number of relatively complete local architectural groups, and the "Golden Triangle of ancient architecture" composed of Gaoping City, Lingchuan County and Zezhou County is worth appreciating. Book reviewer, Shanxi Radio and television editor Xu Wensheng also came to the scene that day. He commented: "This book is also a good book for the world to re-understand Shanxi and China. In the formation and trend of freedom and unity, individuality and commonality, Shanxi has gradually formed the values of "stability as the root, people-oriented, Shou as the principle, and harmony as the purpose" at the beginning of the farming civilization, and it is deeply rooted in the soul and genes of the people, and has an influence to this day. In the view of Qin Chang, the host of the scene, from Shanxi on the Loess Plateau to the Oriental pearl Shanghai, in the face of the great clash of cultures, it is because the Chinese nation's basic adherence to the "ritual and music order", the fundamental confidence and strong sense of belonging to thousands of years of excellent traditional culture, so that we can again and again internalize foreign thoughts and cultures into elements that meet our own development requirements. In order to achieve the stable operation of society, "This is the most exciting sentiment of this lecture."
"After the eaves of elm willows, in front of the peaches and plums. Like-like to the remote village 墟里 smoke." Those idyllic poems engraved in memory are the concentration and echo of ancient farming civilization. But it's only been a year or two since the idyllic drama began to emerge. Following the phenomenon of the pastoral healing drama "To the windy place" starring Liu Yifei at the beginning of the year triggered the longing of the whole network of social animals, iQiyi's new drama "Field Cultivation" continued to sing pastoral songs, with the novel setting of "holographic game + farming" to attract attention, the market share of Yunhe was as high as 16.7%, the total number of plays of the series has broken 500 million, leading the October network drama market. Netizens called "farming text into reality, addictive." Golden fields of rice and wheat, white clouds and birds, trees and trees, the house is simple, the countryside as a utopia of urban people's hearts, as if a tried-and-tested medicine. But how long will this wind last? Can "Pastoral Healing" really be a new genre? In the 1980s and 1990s, most of the rural dramas were based on heavy literary works, with a strong reality background, and the characters and protagonists were deeply portrayed, such as "Fence · Woman and Dog", "Snowstorm Tonight", "Peasant" and "Foreign Sister", etc., focusing on the differences between urban and rural areas. After entering the 21st century, the country drama also has a new look, "rural love" and "Liu Laogen" such light comedy began to be born. In recent years, the main theme of rural revitalization plays are many, such as "Mountain and sea situation", "Flower mountain Township" and "Daughter of mountains", writing various stories between grassroots cadres and native villagers for the construction of the countryside, the focus is on the collision of ideas of different groups, where the countryside is revitalized with survival resilience. In the past, the audience group of local dramas has always been relatively fixed, mainly audiences with rural life experience or curiosity about rural life, overlapping types of audiences such as comedies, period dramas, etc., or original fans, on the whole, are circular, which is somewhat inconsistent with the current young market. After all these years of rapid urbanization, the "discourse" of the countryside is somewhat diminished. Today, the classic IP "Rural love" has been broadcast to the 15th, and the parents are still short and scattered, and the Northeast rural fireworks are unconsciously affecting the audience's cognition of the countryside. For example, Chen Xiao and Li Qin's "The Road to Life", although Lu Yao's "Life" as the base, but also because of the black and thin Liu Qiaozhen, the image of rural people is too rigid, and urban dramas often used to sharpen the conflict of rural people "clown", are with subjective bias of art processing. But the appearance of "pastoral healing drama", whether from the audience or the interpretation of the countryside, has made people have a new look. There is a strange phenomenon in the drama market: when you see a more mature blockbuster, there are probably some similar works before it, which is a kind of undercurrent like momentum. Before the emergence of the circle level work "Go to the Place with wind", in 2022, Youku's "Small Forest of Two people" and iQiyi's "He Jiajia's Peach Blossom Source" are all taking the route of pastoral healing dramas, but "Small Forest" takes the male and female main love as the main line, and is more inclined to sweet pet dramas. The "He Jiajia" starring is a small transparent show business, although the quality of the series is not bad, in Douban can get 7.9 high scores, but there is not much water when broadcast. "To the place with wind" can be said to be beyond the shortcomings of the previous pastoral drama - starring Liu Yifei, Li now has its own flow discussion degree, but also jumped out of the main man and woman "to fall in love in another place" plot limitations. The group picture depicts success, integrates the propositions of young people returning home to start a business and survive, and truly explores the value and significance of pastoral utopia. For the young people who are rushing around the city grid at present, the emotional resonance and value of "Wind" are undoubtedly incomparable.
Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live? The way of loyalty and forgiveness, the Dharma of Kongmen's practice Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live?
Since the concept of "meta-universe" "landed" in the Chinese thought circle in 2021, it has become a new opportunity to trigger theoretical thinking. A variety of cutting-edge questions have been asked about this "event," focusing on the trendy terms and abbreviations repeatedly used in tech hardware; On the other hand, many questions focus on humanistic reflection and future assumptions, which are connected with metaphysics or ontology, ethics, philosophy of science and technology, law, political science, aesthetics, art, etc., and the investigation has two tendencies of optimism and pessimism. The urge to ask questions is natural, but there is also a lot of suspicion. On the first, much of the discourse is simply about rephrasing established things; The second, and much more involved, is the unstandardized "possible" question of scientific fact, to which one has all the answers, even if the answers are contradictory. We focus on the latter kind of problems because they are better reflected in the mental boundaries presented by imagining future prospects. Our approach is to attempt a philosophical "meta-question" mapping of these questions. In other words, it is to re-examine and evaluate the "ways or attitudes" in which the humanities and social sciences have raised various possible questions over the past year or so; At the ideological level, what theoretical structure leads them to believe that "a problem exists (or does not exist)" in the meta-universe phenomenon. The "drawing" method is a kind of "ideological geography" treatment, that is, the "problems" of different positions and field backgrounds have different "conceptual geography", which contains the plural "meta-problems" of different distribution. The reason why it is necessary to draw such an original problem is that the meta-universe is the "place to go" that has yet to be drawn. It has the potential to give us exactly what it has not yet given us, and that is why it is possible. Based on the various "meta-questions", we can see which are true questions and which are merely repetitions and branches of the original question. This paper attempts to start from five perspectives, which relate to five positions on the meta-universe, respectively, from the typical propositions put forward by some scholars in the past year or so: first, the converging free world of extended mediaism and its conception; Second, the fractured imagination based on postmodern difference theory; Third, the equal demand and capital criticism of the meta-universe; Fourth, the ultimate significance of the meta-universe to human beings from the perspective of existence; Fifth, the fantasy of the new person based on the virtualization of the body. In each case, we will generalize with one or more "meta-problems" that contain contradictions, thereby revealing the limits of how the mind can deal with the phenomena of the meta-universe. For such a new concept of the meta-universe, this may also be a new way to summarize and evaluate. The same Utopia: extension and suppression Since the space of the meta-universe is virtual, and information resides in matter and transmits the meaning understood by the mind, it is natural that the meta-universe should be equated with the information medium. This is why many communication scholars pay special attention to it, and their position can be named "extended mediaism". This theory is based on McLuhan's classic definition: the medium is an extension of man. They are trying to make the medium universal, to accommodate (and even replace, replace, and reconstruct) the entire real world, and the meta-universe is exactly what they need for this infinite medium. Their argument can be summarized as follows: First, media is the expression of human social relations, even the relationship itself; If relationships reach infinity, the medium is everywhere; Since the meta-universe is a cosmic medium, it (necessarily or possibly) gives the medium the greatest extension. Second, when this extension reaches infinity, since the connection between the medium and human thought and activity is at its strongest, then the meta-universe becomes an indispensable infinite medium for contact with reality; Because reality and the media are so closely related, reality itself is the only omnipresent medium. For example, some scholars confidently predicted the media vision represented by the meta-universe: "The future media will no longer be (or mainly not) a series of fixed 'entities', the new media form is a' network 'woven and weighted by algorithms, is a complex system", is "the highest form of' human relationship connection 'in the real world". So the future will be the "era of context," the era of "always on," where "almost everything you do offline is done online." Here the "intermediation" of the media itself is emphasized, although all the affairs are handled online, the difference between it and the offline is still obvious. However, he also argued that the iteration of media will evolve into an era of "everything is media", and media will shift from "a tool for conveying information" to "a link of relationships", even a cup of coffee is a medium for conveying information. Leaving aside the fact that coffee seems to convey information without the iteration of a medium, here he seems to extend the medium to all actual beings as long as they can serve as a contact medium for social relations. However, the contradiction lies in the fact that the medium is only the carrier and "online" system of the information of the existence (the existence), why has it become the existence itself? The answer seems to lie in the metaverse itself, which as an information medium or "open source platform" has been extended into the "form" of the universe itself, the objectified data model. In a sense, this is a modern "algorithmic" version of ancient Platonism. In the meta-universe, "the virtual and the real are highly interoperable." The meta-universe "through the upgrading of immersion, participation, sustainability and other characteristics", with the help of "many independent tools, platforms, infrastructure, and collaborative agreements between various subjects", the boundary between virtual and real is completely eliminated, and unified into an infinite, organic "ecological level complex system".
It has been more than a year since I moved my home from childhood to adulthood. The main reason why I want to write something for it now is that I dare not rely on my memory to carry all the people and things worth remembering for me. I do not know which day the relatively clear picture existing in my mind will be gradually blurred by the consultation of life trifles. My childhood is so precious and worth a lifetime to recall ah, but when this period of time has no carrier to cling to, I am not sure whether it can firmly exist in my mind, so I must find a place to seal this time that can never go back, if the clue to open the memory has been erased, then I can only remember the results when it is forever entrusted to big data. The village where I live is quite large, both in terms of population and area. It is not rich, at least in my entire primary school, most of the families are farming to support the family, I like this life, the whole childhood lived a simple and happy. My home is in the east side of the village, the east side of the house and the southwest side of the river, the river is sometimes no water, and when I was young, the most dislike is that the river is full of water, after lunch to go to school by the south side of the Hutong river, a lot of boys swimming in the river, the chance of meeting their classmates is almost 100%. I still remember that it was very difficult to walk that distance of less than 500 meters, when the river suddenly came out of the classmates to call you a nickname that was simply to make you ashamed. In order to avoid this embarrassment, I often go around a lot of wrong roads, looking forward to the weather becoming cold, looking forward to the river becoming dry, and looking forward to growing up quickly… I hope I hope I get what I want. The ditches without water became battlefields for my brother's generation, who dug out all kinds of strange holes and piled up all kinds of "hills". That's definitely our paradise. The east side of the river used to be a good piece of forest, every summer evening, we will take a flashlight, carry a bottle to find the insects called Jincicada, adults and children the whole family out, the flashlight in the forest, and now it is difficult to see the lively at that time. Before I went to junior high school, I often went to the forest to herd sheep after school, I have always been timid, others drove the sheep past, after a while, I directly rushed home, and every time I was trying to make these sheep together, must always be in my line of sight, for fear of being stolen, there is always a team of sheep I keep gathering and scattering. At that time, I was actually very young, so small that I was not a sheep's opponent, and I would be dragged along by a rope, and I could not tell who was walking who. At that time, I didn't think too much about it, I felt that it was my own thing, adults were busy enough, what they did was more tired, but I thought that what I could do was already very easy. There are many college students in my hutong, and the neighborhood is quite harmonious. Before going to school, after dinner, I would follow my neighbor's brothers and sisters and friends of the same age to play hide-and-seek, corn stalk chopping, wheat stalk chopping, which strict to drill, which black to hide, while drilling into the seam while afraid of something inside. There are many children in the two big uncle's family in front of my home, and there are rubber bands, glass balls, hacky bags, and shuttlecock in his home. At that time, we earned enough envy. And there was a smell in his kitchen that was like burning a certain kind of wood, which I really liked to smell, but I don't even know what it was. After primary school began the morning reading class, every day at about six o 'clock, the hutong began to hear early people Shouting with their own class to go to school, the door banged, I still remember my mother recalled that at that time, I felt that the whole hutong was hopeful. I grew up is definitely a good girl in the village, after school to cook, take younger brother, sheep this is not arranged. But occasionally forget to bring the key, but do not know where the parents go to do farm work is the most testing me, I once answered on a paper "please use the basis of… Judge… "Such a question, answer: I judged the direction of the wheel print at the door of my mother to do farm work in which field. The first time I looked at the big Red Cross on the paper was not sad, because it made me more firmly believe that everyone did not know this way, even the teacher did not know. But it worked so well that at one point it gave me the illusion that I had the talent to be a detective. My primary school is in the Middle East of the village, in fact, it is closer to my home than my classmates in the west of the village, but my legs were too short at that time, and I always felt that the school was far away from home. I envy my classmates who live near the school, envy them to sleep for a long time, and I can go home next class. But grandpa's home is next to the school, will go to grandpa's home to drink water after class, go to grandpa's home to eat steamed bread after school, long body that time is always hungry, hungry after school can not insist on going back to their own home. The earliest school has several table tennis tables, of course, for us that is more like a "stage", we sing their childhood and ignorance on the stage, in the stage to grab a place on the stage, from the stomach up to the tiptoe can sit on, change more than height ah. We can step on a flower bed in the grass can not grow out, can pull the flower bed on both sides of the Longjava tree naked, but also the door on the new glass "accidentally" smashed. The more you don't let the close place the more curious, lying on the window peeking at the office, eavesdropping on the teachers under the door, secretly going to the teacher's toilet, curious about everything that can't be approached, and even feel that the teacher's toilet is fragrant! In the summer, we "sell water" in the classroom, you give me a notebook paper or a lead in an automatic pen, I let you drink a drink of water, good relationship can drink two. Their complete homework is not needed, but the various colors and types of homework paper earned by "selling water" are stapled into a small, rare, which is probably the so-called sense of achievement. In winter, one of us squatted in a dustpan and let another classmate pull the ski. Yesterday was fighting, today can be hard enough to let you drink more water friendship. To say long love, it has to mention the school gate to sell snacks, first at the school gate, then there is a commissary, and then her commissary became a supermarket, when I was in she, I left she is still in. She was a very powerful proprietress, with a loud voice, more than enough to handle us terrible children. The village is now in ruins, and everything that once existed there seems to have never existed. I still do not dare to look at the house I have lived for more than 20 years after it was pushed to the appearance, there are some things we must admit, that is change, everything is in constant motion, when a thing has completely lost its original appearance, you are used to seeing and accepting its later appearance, then who will care about the past, and why care about the past. So I don't want to see it, I think at least these years it is still the same as before. After all, there is a brick, a tile, a grass and a tree have made up the first 20 years of my life, and I even feel very sorry that I can not get married from that house, and how can I accept its broken and messy now.
Originally wanted to stay up late, a little pressure, good state at night, code word fastOn second thought, it's too old to make chiliTo think again, the two children in the brush learning machine, after a pair of beautiful big eyes as I have to wasteLet's just clean up and finish the story and get up earlyAhh…New Year's Eve summoned great courage, basking in a family happinessSister's, sure enough, show love, die fastThe next day, the first day of the New Year, my handsome boy to chat with me, said to two placesSuddenly tears in my eyes, though it's nothingI eat and drink are easy to say, the key baby I bring bad how to doHow am I supposed to be responsible for a kid with a familyAhh…I promised that someone would take care of the baby and I would take care of the code wordI began a happy day with the baby, playing ah, with the baby to play ah, happyThe point is I don't want to move forwardBut there is a daily reading and writing work self-demanding progress of the peopleAlready in early overtime modeI'm stressed out and I'm constantly criticizing myselfI thought I'd read a book first, sleepyCode word, it's been half a daySister's, one to 10 o 'clock is super good, clear mind, code words, like I am a geniusAnd then no and then, sleepEarly to bed and early to rise makes you healthy
It is reflected in several aspects: 1, influenced by various literature, film and television works, people with a little level think of themselves very high, and feel that their soul is still interesting, so the soft requirements for the other side are relatively high. 2, but in a society with a hierarchical system of resources, in fact, the combination is more to look at the resources behind, so in the end, it is necessary to look at the background, look at the origin, look at the conditions, so those who say interesting souls in the mouth, when introducing themselves is these copper smelly goods, they will compare their prices.For example, "excellent", as if it is very aspirant and pursued, is actually a ranking under some standard, suggesting some kind of pride in this bovine force and other slag. A child once used excellent to a foreigner was scolded by me, what qualifications do you have to evaluate each other excellent, you are not his mentor, you can only say amazing, interesting and other equal subjective opinions. So on, the so-called spiritual label, seemingly unique pride, is actually the inferiority of hierarchical thinking. 3, so the final combination is actually mostly people who meet the material conditions, and the proportion of spiritual satisfaction is very small. If you do not realize that you are actually a material person, the other person's spirit is not satisfied, the soul is not interesting enough, and you can not accept it for a while, then leave. Or spiritual fit, and the material conditions can not meet the so-called spiritual pursuit, or can not bear, leave. Therefore, often those who do not regard themselves as high and the spiritual pursuit is not high can live on. 4, and then the successful lesson of these people who live a "happy" life is, don't think too much, don't ask too much, just about. Finally, people who "sublimate" in advance of the spirit are not willing to hang on the wall haha. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but this is not something to be proud of, whether you are a man or a woman, material or detached, under a certain level, just labor dividends, is a reproductive donkey, is the fuel of economic development, this is a matter that needs to fight together, rather than complacent victory. So, in the first place, there was no need to communicate.