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[People's life] What is this operation, Suning Square to see

What is this operation? Suning Square saw… Thank you for your concern about Shanghai public bicycle, the vehicle has been arranged to handle the staff, I wish you a happy life… Isn't it called a public bike… Thank you for your concern about Shanghai public bicycle, the vehicle has been arranged to handle the staff, I wish you a happy life… Bike Alone… It's taken private… This kind of paralysis should be arrested for larceny… Very, very… Saw a green one on Qianma Street the other day. … I don't know how much is missing… You should wait, wait for cyclists to come and drive… There's a story… I never know how to deal with such a dead person, it seems not to deal with, otherwise, the forum will not often have such a thing the people's hospital registration system, mobile phone booking registration actually no weekend registration service ah? … Doctors take weekends off… I think so… There's something you haven't studied… Hang with my Changzhou… Did not try the name: Yang Fan, Shangxing town people (which village do not know) primary school in Dongsheng primary school, after the transfer to the south gate Street primary school often play together, the relationship is very good, and then I transfer to the field after, he lost contact with 15 years, recently always think of him, but bitter no contact information. Hope to know him on the rise of the old brothers to help. Thank you very much! … The most important thing is the age or the number of years did not say… Think again, please contact the police station for you. … Yeah, I went to South Gate Elementary, too. … I also contacted a classmate who had a good relationship with me many years ago and asked me to borrow some money and borrow a mobile phone. Ha ha ha… Too many people called this name want to ask: the phone of Shanghai Library can not get through, the children's reader's card when the children read primary school, and later upgraded to adult reader's card, and now it is not used, how to return the deposit… The library is now in the renovation of it, a few days ago to see the public number said to take the card holder's ID card directly to the Lili study in the old stadium to return the deposit… I've had one too, for years, I forgot how much the deposit was… The old stadium Lili study retreated quickly, just a few days ago… I have one at home. Try it when you're free. Thank you. Okay, thank you… Take your ID card to the Lili study of the old stadium, you can return it to do a new one, the machine is very convenient, but also free of deposit… Just got back from processing, really fast… Back to $80… Then I'll return it tomorrow… The original quality of the ID card with the reader's card seems that not everyone has it. Accidentally saw two vertical parking rental Spaces, he wants to occupy two… Is it possible he rented them all? Find out… Car rental space No fixed parking space… It's hard to say… They rent it on a first-come, first-served basis… Car rental space is not fixed? The magic… My family rented two parking Spaces, and I always parked two Spaces… Northern Jiangsu Wow… Heheh… Other areas black, many local quality is not good… Sue A, as we all know, behaves like many Anhui p during rush hour, especially from 5:00 PM to 6:00 PM: 00, Licheng Boyang new village community gate is often blocked, vehicle access is difficult, and into the community vehicles are blocked the intersection is more likely to affect the direct vehicle driving, there are often vehicles parked at the entrance of the community gate, please traffic police, urban management busy to the scene to see, processing, it is recommended to set up no parking frame, speed bumps, sidewalk (to the opposite bus station), etc. To ensure the normal entry and exit of vehicles, pedestrian safety! … Arrange immediately… It's a day off… It is estimated that they are busy and old, and may use the May Day holiday to check the field! @Traffic police @Chengguan the 6th day, waiting for good news… @Chengguan big silver, when to come to the scene to see it, the residents of the community are willing to pay the night shift fee you

People to middle age these three things do not do, otherwise bitter is their own

Middle age is a turning point in one's life stage, and it is also a stage where wisdom and maturity coexist. At this stage, people should reflect on their past, sum up experience and plan for the future. There are three things, after middle age, we should be careful to avoid self-inflicted consequences. First, do not overreach, feet firmly hidden in the heart. Middle-aged people should be well aware of their own abilities and limitations, and not blindly pursue illusory goals while neglecting the immediate work and responsibilities. Many middle-aged people are eager to make a breakthrough in their career, but neglect their family and physical health, which will be more than worth the loss, and eventually leave regrets. For example, Mr. Li pursued career success in middle age, worked overtime every day, and paid little attention to his family, resulting in estranged family relations and damaged physical health. This is a typical case of overreaching, so middle-aged people should know how to cherish everything in front of them, down to earth, and do not get lost in the illusory distance. When people reach middle age, they must find their own rhythm and continue to live well in accordance with their own rhythm in order to go further. Second, give up the good teacher, hollow as grain practice in the line. In middle age, many people have more or less achievements, at this time, we should maintain a humble attitude, do not be self-righteous, do not blindly give people advice, but should constantly improve their own cultivation and quality in humility. For example, when Ms. Zhang became a senior executive in her middle age, she often decided the direction of the company based on her own experience and opinions, ignoring the advice of others in her team. Such behavior is likely to lead to a decline in team morale, so that individuals in the company can not play their own advantages, and ultimately will inevitably weaken the cohesion of the entire team. Middle-aged people should give up this kind of attitude of being good to others and be vain, which can not only increase their own wisdom, but also improve the effectiveness and cohesion of the team. In middle age, one of the most valuable qualities is to understand that there is something to be done and something to be done. There are things that need to be done as a team, don't be individual heroism. When you need a team effort and you need to listen to the opinions of individuals in the team, don't act arbitrarily, or you may be isolated. Third, do not be "soft hearted" and help the poor with edges and corners. Middle-aged people tend to be kind and kind, but sometimes being too kind can lead to problems. When facing difficulties and crises, middle-aged people should remain resolute and firm, and not be blinded by their own kindness. For example, in middle age, Mr. Wang encountered difficulties in borrowing money from a relative. Although he knew that the relative was not a person he could trust, he lent it to him out of kindness, which eventually led to financial losses and the breakdown of interpersonal relationships. This is the negative impact of "gentleness of heart", middle-aged people in the face of difficulties and crises, should know how to maintain a certain degree of rationality and calm, rather than being affected by their own kindness. Middle age is a very important stage in life, we should bear in mind the three advice of aiming high, giving up good advice to teachers, and not "soft hearted". Only by staying grounded and confident, while remaining resolute and firm, can we live a more leisurely and happy life after middle age. If you have the three problems mentioned above, often do those three things intentionally or unintentionally, I hope you can quit after middle age, otherwise the pain is yourself.

Going deep into Shanxi, it can even take more than 100 days

In the singing of Shanxi Zuoquan folk song "Peach Blossom, Red Apricot and White Flowers", Jiang Jianbo, a scholar of cultural travel and master's tutor of Shanxi University of Finance and Economics, visited Shanghai Library (East Hall) to share his new book "Shanxi on the Earth", and told about this calm and heavy province through multiple groups of human geography dialogues. He said that the warm and traditional Shanxi people, the open and enterprising Shanghai people, different Chinese people are working together to build the same Chinese dream. "The steadiness of Shanxi and the exuberance of Shanghai constitute China's past, present and future." At the sharing meeting on November 11, Jiang Jianbo mentioned, "Shanxi on the earth is built on the four-dimensional overall space of 'heaven - earth - God - man'. If we take a more grand position and look from Shanxi in the mountains and rivers to Shanghai in the East China Sea, a space with similar connections will be presented to us." And this is 4100 years ago, Hedong salt pond (located in Yuncheng, Shanxi Province), the two ancestors Shun, Yu led the ministers to sing the song, meaning the pursuit of light, the revival of China. For example, on the human and divine level, the City God Temple in Shanghai is dedicated to Huo Guang, whose ancestor was named after his founding at the foot of Huoshan Mountain in Shanxi Province. Songjiang Tang Jing Building in Shanghai and Wutai Foguang Temple in Shanxi are both powerful witnesses of the Sinicization of Buddhism. Shanghai Tower and Yingxian Wooden Tower both use the "double sleeve" building structure. "Shanxi on the Earth" is described in 28 representative geographical coordinates, including Huanghe Jinshan Grand Canyon, Hedong Yanchi, Wutai Mountain, Yingxian Wooden Tower, Xinghua Village, and so on, which is called "Shanxi Museum on paper" by readers. The book describes in detail the structure of this wooden peak tower in Ying County: entering the first floor, you can see a circle of outer columns and a circle of inner columns, and the octagonal plane of the tower is divided into a corridor for believers to walk and worship (outer slot) and the tower ventricle for enshrines the solemn Buddha statue (inner slot). Inside the center of the tower, in addition to the two north and south walls, the other six walls are painted with six large Buddhas with circular arches 趺坐. Together with the 11-meter-high sitting Buddha in the center, they form the layout of the past seven Buddhas. Looking around, it is also seen that the inner groove and the outer groove are closely connected through the longitudinal and transverse structures such as beams and square beams, forming a double sleeve structure with strong rigidity. Modern architecture calls this mode "tube in tube". In Jiang Jianbo's view, to understand Shanxi, just skimming a few places, is far from enough, "go deep into Shanxi, and even spend more than 100 days." He suggested to the reader that the plan could be based on the four counties in Shanxi during the Han Dynasty. In Yanmen County, Xinzhou, Shuozhou and Datong, you can enjoy the most splendid ancient Buddhist art in Shanxi. In Taiyuan County of Jinzhong, the provincial capital and its vicinity gather rich museum resources and Jinshang ancient town style; Hedong County in the south of Shanxi Province, which is equivalent to Linfen City and Yuncheng City, is an important area where Yao, Shun and Yu created rituals and music, so many ancestral temples were left, including the tomb of Emperor Shun and the Temple of Guan Di. Finally, Shangdang County in the southeast of Jin retains a large number of relatively complete local architectural groups, and the "Golden Triangle of ancient architecture" composed of Gaoping City, Lingchuan County and Zezhou County is worth appreciating. Book reviewer, Shanxi Radio and television editor Xu Wensheng also came to the scene that day. He commented: "This book is also a good book for the world to re-understand Shanxi and China. In the formation and trend of freedom and unity, individuality and commonality, Shanxi has gradually formed the values of "stability as the root, people-oriented, Shou as the principle, and harmony as the purpose" at the beginning of the farming civilization, and it is deeply rooted in the soul and genes of the people, and has an influence to this day. In the view of Qin Chang, the host of the scene, from Shanxi on the Loess Plateau to the Oriental pearl Shanghai, in the face of the great clash of cultures, it is because the Chinese nation's basic adherence to the "ritual and music order", the fundamental confidence and strong sense of belonging to thousands of years of excellent traditional culture, so that we can again and again internalize foreign thoughts and cultures into elements that meet our own development requirements. In order to achieve the stable operation of society, "This is the most exciting sentiment of this lecture."

The way of loyalty and forgiveness, the Dharma of Kongmen's practice

Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live? The way of loyalty and forgiveness, the Dharma of Kongmen's practice Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live?

Parents and children are a kind of fate

After watching the hit movie "Hello, Li Huanying", I don't know what the Chinese name means, but the English Hi, mom! The connotation is clear at a glance.Of course, there are no ups and downs in the film, magnificent scenes, are real life trifles, and even some trivial.But these seemingly trivial things reveal a real mother who is probably close to everyone's own mother.After watching it, my first feeling was that it was too real, and my mother should have come this way.Such a film easily resonates with everyone, but also causes everyone to reflect.The child wants to raise and the parent is not there, such tragedy and sadness are imagined and interpreted at the end of the film, living in the moment and getting along well with parents is really a very happy thing!The taste of the world is Qinghuan, family happiness is reunion.Every parent wants their child to be beautiful and their daughter to be beautiful, but almost all parents accept their child unconditionally, no matter what the child becomes.Parents love their children, forever, forever, even if the parents to the age of need to take care of children, but the thought of children, or the first thought is to take care of…Parents and children are a kind of difficult to give up the family, but also a kind of eternal fate.

Where eyes and feet cannot reach, words can

I feel that I have not read for a long time, the kind of happiness that is full of books in the afternoon sun, holding my carefully selected books, has been lost for a long time.Often listen to, reading is the lowest cost of cultivating their own vision and pattern of the way, it is not.Life is too short, so short that we can only experience a limited magnificent or as plain as we can see.In the book, you can feel different situations and life experiences.After a certain page turn, a certain line just hit itself, "Ah, I think the same as the author."Even if the author and never face, even if the plot and characters in the book are fictional, touching and feeling are always there.In the experience of others to know and reflect on their own at the same time, but also may be able to get a friend, a reminder,A mentor who can offer another way of looking at things. Why did you suddenly think of reading,Probably because I recently followed up the study progress of my newly enrolled junior teacher,When you suddenly find that you have to teach your little brother from scratch, you don't know where to start.Because I don't know what my little brother might know and what he might not know.Advance communication is really needed.However, why can young tutors accurately prejudge the appropriate teaching plan?Then explain the explanation in simple and clear language that the younger brother can understand.It's a really powerful skill to be able to understand where someone is and how they need it,Improve each other's work efficiency.I guess this is because the rich teaching experience of primary and secondary school tutors is indispensable.I believe that the young mentor also remembers the feelings of each stage from his student days,Read a lot of books, professional and non-professional,Then switch your posture to the level of the object you need to communicate with.To think and understand the other person's situation from their point of view,Then the best solution is given.I have to sigh that reading more is really a necessary thing. On the basis of the previous' there is Yan Ruyu in the book, there is gold House in the book ',There should be. There's a better, gentler version of yourself in the book.Attached is also very gentle teacher Luo Xiang a paragraph, and you share encouragement.I also hope that I can also strive to become a gentle person.

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