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New starting point, children, we refuel together

Tomorrow will start a new job, I have been longing for this career since childhood, junior high school will have the opportunity to go to the teacher, I do not know why to 24 years old to do it, and to this migrant children's school - a school. I went there last week, and the principal was very enthusiastic and looking forward to my joining. In fact, I have been working as an office worker before, and I have been working hard to develop foreign trade. The result is that ,,,,,, suddenly seems to have changed my life goal. Although there are not many children, the sight of their shabby classrooms shows that their learning environment may really not be as good as that of children in the city, and the government does not provide schools with anything except the cost of books. These children seem not to be taken very seriously in a foreign land, perhaps even forgotten. I talked to the principal about the treatment, very indifferent, perhaps not as much as the salary of the previous work, but it is still able to maintain their daily necessities consumption, and it is much more meaningful than what they did before. After weighing a lot of things, after a week of agonizing, I decided to go to school to teach! I do not have much teaching experience, but I am slowly confident that when can we bring these children to be as versatile as our children in Yuyao City, and give play to their strengths, it will be great! More gas! Can I join can go to the talent online to see, there are in recruitment, now do not know, but the treatment may be you will not be satisfied, but I think the people who go there must first have love, I do not want a point of salary Good, come on! ~~~ The principal is certainly welcome, you go to contact it yo, are the people's teachers ah, you want to go can contact me to help you ask me also want to teach ah, I can go to what, I said he is not ah… Tell me about it, tooIf life is only like the first sight, what is the west wind sad painting fan? Leisurely change is the reason people, but the reason people can change. Lishan language strike clear night half, night rain ring end do not complain. What a thin brocade, wings and branches of the day wish. Beautiful dreams and beautiful poems, are met but not sought, often in the most unexpected moment of love do not have to die, fragrance floating just, ruthless is not necessarily a decision, as long as you remember, when you first saw each other's smile….. Congratulations on whether you were early or late, whether you walked fast or slow, whether you twisted your foot or twisted your back, whether you stood waiting for someone or someone was waiting for you. Life in variables will have adventures in variables. It is like a play, after you sing, I appear, the sorrow of the past life may be written off to the future, and the new drama of life is thundering again. In addition to water or water I can not water once again congratulate you congratulate me what congratulations you took the champion ah, this is expected when the young spirit, the initial moved and dream, gradually fade under the infiltration of time; The intimacy at first sight, the promise of eternal vows, only a dim figure remains. You are like the gold armor God, draped in the horizon of the clouds in the story fixed into eternal memory, guess the gorgeous beginning, and who saw the end that has long been doomed? At first sight, stunning. Suddenly look back, once the sea, has already changed the world. When the art young people wrote in the very beginning of that second, some things have been doomed to the old

Of these two kinds of neighbors, which one would you rather be friends with

A friend sent me a picture, teasing his neighbor's parking to save time, every time he dives in, the parking space is left on the road outside, because his parking space is on the side of the fire hydrant, can only get in from another floor, the neighbor's parking space is in front of him, every time he drives out, he has to hit an extra punch to get out. There was even a time when the back of the car was so far out that it could only get out on the side of the hydrant, causing it to scrape into the corner of the hydrant and scratch a piece. Sometimes I meet that neighbor, and that neighbor occasionally says hello, and my friend really doesn't want to talk to him. Do not know, another neighbor's parking space is similar to him, people can park straight, he lamented if the two neighbors change places. It's gotten even worse. The neighbor changed his car, and he's got more tailbacks than the old driver, and now he's got to be more careful in and out of the parking space. My friend is currently driving a car is not big, want to change the ideal L7, afraid to buy a big car access more difficult, some distress, the photo is elongated, in fact, not so wide, he tangled should not talk to him politely say this problem… Better not say… These two parking Spaces have an impact?? To get into his head without regard to his absents, this kind of rubbed off on him, is it not dependent on others, the rear of their own car left outside the building owner's friend parking space should be in the photo position right against his car, not the one behind it. However, the road is also very wide, it is said that it does not affect his car ah, the main photo is elongated, so the photo position is not so wide from the opposite side, it is suggested that the car is not against him or against himself. The design of this parking space is also level, parking out of the car, have to 3 directions or even above can be balanced, driving it. Promise can not, accommodate. Can't get used to it yet. Not yet. Stay away. Does everyone who drives think they're awesome? How come I never dare to park the scooter sideways? These two parking space design is really strange what silly bo a parking space this.. It's the driving technique. No matter how narrow the road is, two cars can stagger. That's a wide road, and he could have easily driven out even if the butt of his car was halfway in the opposite lane. The central idea of this post is to talk about the quality of the problem, not can not open into then I think you this friend is also quite no quality. Why do you complain about others when you have a problem with your driving skills? Send it to others without typing the code. Just pretend I didn't reply. It can't be deleted. Really helpless, is not the code? There is no monitoring why not communicate, or find property coordination. Maybe he can't stop talking about the uncoded text your friend sent you. I'm not talking about your hairnet. I'm talking about the Internet. It's worse. Are you that friend of yours? Now the new cars are so powerful that they park themselves in and out without requiring you to operate a space like yours that's not a trivial matter

[Leisure and entertainment] Fuxian Lake family tour! A beautiful scenery of Shenzhen during the Mid-Autumn Festival and National Day ~

With the arrival of the Mid-Autumn Festival and National Day this year, Shenzhen Fuxian Lake National Tourism Resort has become a popular destination for tourists inside and outside the province with its unique geographical landform, warm climate, beautiful natural beauty and profound cultural heritage. During the festival, there is an endless stream of tourists here, and parent-child families are particularly noticeable. In the Red Beach area, the children dig and dig on the sand, digging out different sizes, different depths of sand pits; Or use a variety of molds to "carve" out of the desired shape; Children with rich imagination simply do not have any tools, and build up the "castle" in their minds by hand. Some parents quietly enjoy the beautiful scenery of the lake and the sky, feel the comfort brought by the breeze; Some are using mobile phones to shoot beautiful scenery to share with friends; Some stay beside the children to do "technical guidance"; Some accompany the children to walk on the beach, and the whole beach presents a harmonious picture of both fun and getting what they need. In the Fuwan Bay Wetland Park, there are families who sit by the lake with parasol to enjoy thousands of acres of glass, families who look for various colors and shapes of sand and stone in the lake, families who play in the lake and laugh, families who walk on the sightseeing plank road, giving people a kind of quiet and quiet, warm and harmonious feeling. Chengjiang Fossil Land World Natural Heritage Museum In this special holiday, children and parents explore the mysteries of fossils, experience the charm of natural history, and spend an unforgettable time. The science and Technology Experience museum allows children to understand the formation process and protection significance of fossils in hands-on operation; DIY activities allow children to master knowledge and skills in play, improve their thinking ability, hands-on ability. The natural ecological experience activities let the children get close to nature and cultivate their environmental awareness. Each exhibition hall through the use of VR, AR, OLED flexible screen and other high-tech interactive exhibition methods, not only let the vast number of young people understand the origin of paleontology, the mystery of animal species and biodiversity knowledge, full of science education significance, but also closely related to the theme of natural ecology and environmental protection. Through the exhibition, we will stimulate young people's interest in science and the spirit of exploration, while advocating that we care about nature and cherish the biodiversity of the earth. In addition, through the promotion of parent-child interaction activities, the development of family parent-child relationship has also been enhanced, so that parents and children have established a deeper relationship in the activity. Parents and children from all over the world said they benefited a lot from the trip. They not only learned a lot about fossils and animal species, but also made many new friends and spent a very meaningful holiday. Source: Chengjiang Fossil Museum ↓¤Praise Fuxian Lake - Wow home Shenzhen 1 road beautiful scenery forever. It is not enough, Shenzhen should also increase the development and protection of the three Lakes tourism, start the most beautiful business card of the three Lakes, increase infrastructure supporting facilities, and crack down on illegal activities affecting Shenzhen's tourism business card.

[Qinzhou Culture] After 80, an old shit Buddha remembers a Qinzhou man

Memory will always disappear irreversibly, but people are often near death, will feel the importance of memory, want to catch but can not catch. That's when inheritance is important. Those who say they will not have children cannot possibly know what inheritance means. A few years after their death, few people will remember that at that time, they really never existed. In those days, there was not as good a way to save images as there is now, and it is very difficult to find any images now. Who else remembers the arcade that built the road? The Internet cafe in Sanyan Square? The little gate store? A blue sky model of One road? The comic book king of Little Garden? There's very little left. When we're old, what are we going to brag to our grandchildren about our toys? Hope that there are audio and video resources in that era, all show it, blow each other off the cow, I first come to the kindergarten behind the home, at that time have not heard of any children abducted, because it is very close to home, so they are walking. Before the gate above the teacher's dormitory, the big iron door has not been painted, there is a swimming pool, 1 yuan a time. There is a cement elephant slide, often go to play, will climb the fairy peach tree to pick fruit to eat when the two children and the insurance company between the folk music road is still only a mud road, has not hardened, and few people build houses there, the roadside is a small ditch and a small forest, unfortunately there are no photos. When the real small door next to the shop, selling toys, selling food, at that time the universe knight, dragon fighter, four-wheel drive are bought in the real small back door is a silk factory, there is a pond, now this stationery shop used to sell pig's foot powder, to breakfast when the boss will pull things to the back door to sell, pig's foot powder soup is only 5 cents a student now do not know how, Exam often cheat black man, proud little fox, simple and honest little monk, beautiful and hard co-exist Hua sister, want you small garden comic king is every day after school must punch the place, now also can not find photos of the rest of the toy is not much… The coexistence of happiness and pain, desire fairy want to die Baisha Street intersection rent bookstore is often to and now sell salt roast chicken is also a bookstore I can find these ┎ 〇 useless, 100 years later or no one remember you, not the problem of inheritance ┎ 〇 main floor toys a lot, comic books a lot, envy, Before we can only dig a hole in the mud ┎ 〇 she slowly forgot ┎ 〇 these things are rich people's children have, I was the first to play SONY machine, 3 yuan an hour is a luxury, then go to Internet cafes and play arcade, Internet cafes only 5-8 cents an hour, then slowly rose ┎ 〇 arcade 1 yuan 6 cards, dinosaur fast play, Xunya, electric fine, metal slug can play two clocks, two md next to the MD is 1 yuan a clock, small and fire brigade door in the middle of the snack shop PS is 1 piece 5 a clock, Internet cafe is to the university, high school did not play ┎ 〇 GP a lot of attractions, ┎ 〇 GP important, making people miss ┎ 〇 It seems that we know ┎ 〇 〇 you are? Are you also in Class 6 and 4? ┎○ When did two children start to have? ┎○ Blue sky model, I bought a lot of planes and tanks to fight, to see others four-wheel drive games, to see the boss in the first road stadium to do the earliest flying hand. I don't know why it stopped. ┎ 〇 I have casebook and CD ┎ 〇 My song is not very old. It's about more time. In the past, Jinwan that location is a hill, there is a Hangzhou Xiaolongbao, every time to eat Xiaolongbao have to walk that long stairs. Xinhua bookstore is located in the middle of the small cavalry is a video hall, when I was a child once. Video hall and ice skating rink, pool hall, game hall equal status, young people at that time the most entertainment choices are these few. Opposite is the trade union shop, that is, the location of Xiesheng, there was a fire in the 1990s, personally saw someone afraid of waiting for rescue to jump down from the upstairs, a jump after landing. The basketball court by the Union pond is also the first place to play football, and there is a bumper car playground next to it. Dongfeng Market is also from the earliest wall weed land, brick by brick to see it built up. From the earliest greenhouse vegetable wholesale, the ground is mud, and every night I see people sleeping there to guard vegetables. The area of Qinzhou Bay Square used to be a passenger station, and the area of Seg was originally a wet market with a game room. It's owned by a bearded northerner who goes to 97 sometimes. In the evening, the lights were on, and the road to the second bridge began to open air ktv street. I can't remember if it's $1 or $50 for a song. Beer is 3 yuan a bottle. It doesn't take more than 100 a night for a couple of people. Year after year that location is the waste land, and then the beauty village package down to do the night market, fire for many years, when the roast chicken feet only 1 yuan, 10 pieces of a hand, pig whip is 2.5, and the beauty village features 5 pieces or 10 pieces of passion juice. The demolition of the residential building was not very smooth, there was a nail household there for a long time, and then it was dug deep on the surrounding ground before it was settled. Too many of these memories… ┎ 〇 Xinxing Road women's post is what age ┎ 〇 I 85 years, go to kindergarten when two children have existed for many years ┎ 〇 mou these are high school to drink the university street loudspeakers often put the song ┎ 〇 comic king Lao Po suddenly don't do, a great deal of trouble ah ┎ 〇 that Qinzhou has as high as? ┎○ I play arcade is not very deep, play boxing emperor more, behind are going to Internet cafes, then Xiesheng second floor arcade, very expensive, 1 yuan a coin, but the machine is very new, go to the Golden Bay Hotel and red Sun international trade rotten end building in the middle of the arcade shop, ┎ 〇 There is no amount of ┎ I am ten years older than you ┎ 〇 Hong Mei Wei Bing ┎ 〇 The computer is very empty ┎ 〇 GP found, two children 83 years of establishment, the original second nursery ┎ 〇 no use, 100 years later, no one remember you, not the problem of inheritance found, two children 83 years of establishment, the original second nursery ┎ 〇 no use, 100 years later no one remember you, Is not the issue of inheritance ┎○ primary school graduation photo seems to have a girl called Zhang Lili, there is a boy called Shi Chaozhe, others are too vague, can not see, some people may not know ┎○ Daolang, Shuimuanhua, through kill all ages ah. The Little Tigers are good, too. ┎○ Zhang Lili do not remember, Shi Chaozhe name is very familiar. I remember Pan Yinyuan, Wu Ting, Zhang Ronghua, Liu Jiasen, Yang Huahuan (can't identify which one), Bi Bin, Su Feifei, Mousetail (name I can't remember), Teng Cheng ┎○ There were a lot of small cinemas back then, you know. ┎ 〇 ┎ 〇 main toys, a lot of comic books, envy, we could only dig a hole in the mud ┎ remember the department remember, but a stable to the photo, but ┎ 〇 GP has been in the countryside, there is no opportunity to go to school in the city ┎ 〇 miss ┎ 〇 GP reply is a kind of virtue rural people, not so much memory, some only farm work, the cow at home… . ┎○ The iconic game Hall on Baisha Street, Bookie Hall No, bad reviews! ┎ 〇 There was a row of electronic games hall on the road before, a lot of rotten children grab video game card ┎ 〇 My department to construction Road science and technology bureau opposite only double shop arcade play, sometimes to the former trend front line, Baisha Street a often go to ┎ 〇 we with kindergarten, with primary school, with junior high school. High school do not know you are still in a ┎ 〇 There are ┎ 〇 GP in the 1980s the same track, the same area, but did not know ┎ 〇 GP full of miss, time passed really fast. ┎ 〇 It seems that yesterday in the king of comic book reading, sleep all changed ┎ 〇 When a person began to nostalgia, it is his sexual decline. Lord, more and more not hard ┎○ few men do not need sexual ability ┎○ How much is Jin? I used to play games with 1 mosquito 4 coins 1 mosquito 4 coins to follow a tail

Yesterday was a holiday. On August 13, I took a day off and went to Hong early

Yesterday was a holiday, August 13 this day, specially took a day off, went to Hongfa early to buy food, bought food, go back to clean up, oh, feel that cooking is too early, ran out for a nap two clocks, wow, comfortable ah, the whole person is spirit, came out to eat the eldest son cooked noodles, not bad… Then bask in my craft, after eating to see the scenery of the river, can also, finally take the child out to do homework, and finally can lie flat. ┎○ The master of the house is very diligent, see your stove will know, hot days with this stove so hot, you can bear. ┎ 〇 no way, poor at home ┎ 〇 no way, poor at home ┎ 〇 GP wear socks in hot days? ┎○ Cotton shoes without socks?The Mid-Autumn Festival and National Day are coming, Qinzhou Real Madrid Square Friendship market fans invite you to double festival carnival, a variety of folk non cultural heritage performances, special food activities are wonderful, and the net red giant strawberry bear parachute, real doll machine, code King, die King, watermelon big stomach King and various big show special activities can be on-site participation. Beautiful moments always make people can't help picking up mobile phones to take photos and record, for this reason, Qinzhou 360 joined hands with Friendship City · Fan set to carry out online fan set tide play mobile phone photography sharing activities, double day punch Real Madrid Square Friendship City · Fan set, have the opportunity to win beautiful prizes. Content form: All kinds of market card pictures, food or fun sharing can participate in the crowd: as long as there is a mobile phone, everyone can participate in the participation method: download Qinzhou 360 mobile client: Verndialect cat APP, in today's Qinzhou section to publish pictures (no less than 30 text, no less than 5 pictures), the title with the # punch friendly market powder set # can participate in participation time: September 29 10:00 am to October 6 10:00 PM Prize setting: First prize 2 (Midea oven); Second prize 3 (hair dryer), third prize 10 (strawberry bear doll) Award method: selected by the organizer to receive the award time and place: October 9-15, Qinbei Real Madrid Square Friendship market Fanji Investment Department network reference pictures, subject to the actual scene ┎○ when can you sign up! ┎ 〇 There is finally an activity ┎ 〇 mobile phone can use the popular activity is good ┎ 〇 GP is very good, support!! ┎ 〇 GP finally opened ┎ 〇 GP I will go to ┎ 〇 GP is a virtue ┎ 〇 GP is a virtue ┎ 〇 Real Madrid square is doing well now it ┎ 〇 GP went to see, is the most beautiful nightlife square in Qinzhou ┎ 〇 when the road is also developed, the middle of the space, nothing to play the head has been a few times, there is food and play, There is also ┎ 〇 GP

[Brainstorming] We discuss, similar to the lake Yue Tianjing, the property fee price is high and the quality is poor, in Taizhou to buy second-hand housing need to avoid the pit of the community which several

Reminder: In the case of declining income, buy second-hand housing to pay special attention to the height of the annual property costs and the quality of the house. To avoid the pothole property company, to avoid the general property quality of the community, we discuss, in addition to the lake Yuetian outside, how many Tiankeng community? Lake Yue Tianjing community before buying boast 5 star service, property charges a word, expensive! The cost of housing is high and the quality of service is low. More than one hundred square meters, two years to about 10,000 yuan of property fees (including parking management fees and expensive public energy allocation), not only did not see someone door to collect garbage, Guanlan someone threw in the downstairs garbage bin was actually thrown back to the ten floors of the upstairs by the property company, surprised, out of anger! The public greening of the new community has been divided, each snatching its own grassland site, and the services are not up to five-star standards. The large electronic billboard in the community uses the owner's public share of electricity to do intermediary advertising, right? The fountain has no water to spray, the swimming pool has no water to swim, and this rainy day there is water everywhere. Seriously, I'm not even gonna get a 2-star placement. The door guard is a retiree. Do I protect him or does he protect me? The latex paint on the staircase walls is peeling, and the quality of the community is completely disproportionate to the high property charge ratio. Worst of all, the service is really bad, posing first! As a superficial article, the housekeeper often punched the card in the circle of friends! Propaganda has become the usual way to deceive people. This kind of community, the Wolf in sheep's clothing, the most terrible. While bragging about how good they are, while oppressing the owner of the house that bought it, you did not buy before it was a face, you bought its house, it is another face, its face changed quickly. It is recommended that you must polish your eyes before buying a second-hand house, you not only buy a property of general quality, but also buy a property service that can not be replaced, and the community with high property fees and low service can not be touched. There are a few Tiankeng property, lake Yue Tianjing number first? Brainstorm, we come to ridicule the high fees in Shanghai, poor service, low cost of property service companies there are a few? … For me, no illegal property is a good property! … Set up a owners' committee, fire them… Lake Yue Tianjing community inside the illegal buildings are also a lot, as long as the illegal construction does not affect others, the general people will not report… I can bear everything else, the most intolerable is the violation of the rules! … If the property company continues in this way, it will suffer losses sooner or later on the issue of collecting property fees. No payment… It's true that Country Garden's property management is very responsible. … I feel that I am right, from this person's point of view, you can see the real problem of Country Garden, which is the typical thinking of the melon eaters who are deceived by Country Garden's propaganda. … And the problem of Country Garden is that before you buy it is a face, after buying it is another face, when facing you is a face, behind the pit, it is another face, you bought the Country Garden house, you will be subject to its gas, this is the outside people can not understand, so the sea has such an idea is not strange. What you see is appearances. It's propaganda. This property has poor service, high fees, deceptive… Orange memory did not see this post… The industry committee was set up and the property chain, the owner is more trouble, after the establishment of the second phase of the industry committee did a big thing, cancel the original ground parking space in the community (free) so that the car is all parked underground garage (pay rent and management fees) to create wealth for the property company, change the so-called people and cars distribution, the original design is not people and cars distribution. What will be the result of checking whether the EIC has accepted any benefits from the property? … @Orange Memory… Country Garden property fee is not too expensive, the north property is very good, the south has not lived, do not comment… It's all broken… The beautiful name gives you a good property is actually put you clean… He's never lived in a Country Garden Estate. What the hell does he know… It's true that bragging about yourself is generally purposeful. Wouldn't it be nice to split people and cars? Now the new residential areas are all the main people and cars, compared to indiscriminate parking, people and cars are not fragrant? It doesn't make sense to spray it with this. … Country Garden will also use this owner's tone to create a false "word of mouth". The infamous Country Garden is known for its clever tricks. … People and vehicles shunt well, it brings high property costs, so much money to the property every year, all work for the property, or like the kind of low property costs of the community. … To find a reason to collect more money, to find a reason to collect money for you, some properties are directly flagrant electricity theft. … Shanghai property can only look good… You this matter, I say a few words, I guess you are not happy, after all, it involves your interests! 1. Free parking on public roads is unfair to owners without cars; 2, cancel the road public parking space, all into the underground garage. Objectively improve the environment of the community, of course, is beneficial to developers and properties! … When it comes to property, China Resources property is good. There are some drawbacks, but overall it's good. The last time we set up a trade committee, the owners were not active. … Owners do not actively participate in the establishment of the property committee, indicating that we do not feel the existence of property services, indicating that the property is silent and the service is in place. If everyone wants to set up a property committee, the property is too rubbish… From the beginning of the capital verification of the house, it has the illusion of buying a noble community, and the underground garage of the resettlement house does not have so much water! Lake Yue ground is too slippery, five star charge, a few star service? … Lake Yue Tianjing, a property company made into a resistance to the community, the community originally had a lot of free direct drinking water, and now the direct drinking water device downstairs is gone, the direct water was dismantled! South of the Country Garden property is very expensive, Lake Yue multi-storey 2 more than a square, even if a day is not living 2 more than a flat… Rob the money… Country Garden property knife is too fast, superimposed per square property fee of more than 2 pieces, equal to pay a rent every year, live in Country Garden Lake Yue Tianjing, about equal to rent in the urban old community… Every month, there are public electricity and water charges, and these costs seem to be how much the property itself is how much, it is said that the owner is shared, but who knows whether they that account is right. … And from what I've seen on TV, cancers like Wallwishers may have corrupted other units. Like using public power to intimidate disobedient property owners. … This cancer, it feels like it will be uprooted one day. So whoever was involved, consciously or not, was involved. Don't have a good time driving now. … Country Garden is out of money… These people are all working together… Community property committees all have the same interests… Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, it is that capital exploits you, buying a house pits your hard-earned money, property earns your living expenses for a lifetime) and I am the fish. Country Garden is closing down, what can he ask for? Overcome it… Country Garden's biggest pit, is the property, bought a house also long-term rent, north of how many country garden villa auction check is owed 80,000, there is a debt of more than 100,000… Property on both sides of the money, facade room electricity and street lighting fees are a fool's account… The property tax is not as good as renting, but also save the principal and eat interest… Is not the industry committee can re-select the property, Country Garden is the proud son of heaven alone… Country Garden property fee, I have not paid, learn from others, completely put rotten want to go to Hengdian World Studios to play, have been to the Baozi? To gain experience, it is best to see the actors who are filming, such as Ren Jialun… Search the Internet… Summer vacation. It was okay. Nice. It's big. Can't play all day… Hengdian has more than a dozen scenic spots composed of wechat small program medical insurance how not to pay… Good to pay for it. What's your tip? … No information yet… I have trouble with… I asked the health insurance bureau, said you can't pay in advance, only the current month's… It's just not good this month… 12345 said to check in a few days. System issues… You can check to see if it's all paid. In addition, it seems that it is not possible to pay in advance recently.

[Netizens break the news] What is the situation, an ordinary pen to sell 15, there are points ah? Is Chenguang going upscale now?

What's going on? … This is a zebra pen… Import duty Rising prices… I didn't pay for it, and now I'm in tears… It's a Japanese zebra brand… 123456… It's too expensive… This pen looks ordinary, in fact, it is a limited edition, its function is to hold the "pen". Rich people… Taking the flower route? … 123456… This is a zebra, isn't it? A Japanese brand… It works well… Easy to write, it has nothing to do with morning light… 1111… To you, a drop in the bucket! … All right… Prices are soaring… Students buy more… Willing to fight, willing to suffer… That's probably the price after all the taxes plus the brand premium… Gold pen… High price, good quality… 123456… It's not Morninglight. You bought it imported. Good for you! Or a limited edition… 111111… This one's gonna be nice… There are more expensive… Go to Pinduoduo and buy cheap… High-end pen… Greetings… 123456… I'll just see how big the red envelope is… Nowadays, many students use this brand to say that drip is more smooth and continuous ink… Stationery bought online is very cheap… Yeah, and you can write it when you drop it, but not when you drop it in the morning. 66666666666… 15 not expensive, stationery shop big dozens of special recently a printed with "picking up gold and moral integrity" Jinqi was sent to the property center of Jiangyan Magnolia Garden district the original property project security Wu Hanzhu Wu Hanzhu, 59 years old, he came to Magnolia Garden district property project department a year ago to do an ordinary security. He is hard-working, honest and trustworthy, although the monthly salary is not high, but has been relying on hard work with his hands. Because of the nature of the work, he picked up keys, ID cards, bank cards, etc., it is a common thing, each time, he will be the first time to the property center, or with colleagues to post a notice, trying to find the owner. This time to pick up the cash, it was a recent night, he as usual, holding a flashlight began to patrol. When he checked a trash can downstairs, he found a brand new shoebox on the floor. He thought it was carelessly discarded garbage, and did not think much about it, so he picked up the shoe box and prepared to throw it into the trash can. However, when he picked it up, he felt heavy and subconsciously opened it - there were several hundreds of dollars in the shoebox! Wu Hanzhu immediately realized that this may be the owner threw the wrong. Without thinking, he immediately ran to the property center of the community with the shoebox, explained the situation to Manager Zhang, and locked the shoebox in the office file cabinet. After monitoring, a search, finally found the owner. Turns out an owner of building 6 threw it away by mistake. The owner saw Wu Hanzhu, very excited, he firmly grasped Wu Hanzhu's hand, his mouth kept saying: "Master Wu, thank you so much, I really did not think that the money can be recovered…" Wu Hanzhu did not count how much money, the owner told him that there were 56,000 yuan in the shoebox. In the face of the owner's cash thanks, Wu Hanzhu refused on the spot. "I feel good that I have found the owner and returned the money," he said. In order to repay Wu Hanzhu's kindness, the owner of the property to the community Henglian sent a bright flag "collect gold, noble character" to express gratitude to Wu Hanzhu. Wu Hanzhu a month's salary is less than 2000 yuan, which is equivalent to his 3 years of salary he calmly told reporters "foreign wealth is not rich, no money we earn, can not earn without work." It can be said that Wu Hanzhu interprets the beauty of grassroots workers with practical actions. … To be a regular… The so-called moral character seems to be seen more in these people with low incomes. … This kind of move can only be said to be very rare in this world now, not to mention 50,000 or 60,000 yuan, it is estimated that 100 yuan fell on the ground, the people who found it will be pocketed and few people will return it… How else would it be news? News news? It's only when things are rare that they become news.

[Shanghai News today] Progress of Dongfeng Viaduct

The pier covers an area that is not wide, it can also be, the bridge part on the ground is a little long on both sides, I do not know if there is a big truck accidentally up, will it turn over? Dongfeng Road can still get on the truck? … Speed, beautiful, Shanghai's main road elevated line… The city of the former Hailing District Housing Bureau of tofu slag wave road Dongfeng North Road completely one-time express road repaired oh. … No guards, all three electric wheels… Big trucks must be prohibited on the urban elevated, not the southern suburbs of the city, big trucks at will… Electric car because there is no photo penalty can not be punished, big truck you on the urban elevated try, electronic surveillance shot directly revoke the driver's license, deduct points will learn to drive the car… This pier looks like it won't tip over. The one that won't tip over is a single pile… No wonder he's as slow as a turtle! It was originally repaired by Daiichi. Dashi is the vampire of Hailing! … The few number looked at the picture, the sewer network has been done ah, began to level the ground, soon, such as the ground level should be poured with the elevated road asphalt. The next step is to install street lights and soundproof guardrail… It's still too slow. It's just another day! The sidewalk at the intersection of Dongfeng Road and Xujiaqiao Road has begun to be paved with bricks. … It's a double trick, and it's dark. Good for you. … I hope we will stop procrastinating and speed up the progress to ensure that the traffic will open to traffic by the end of December! Several kilometers of elevated repair for more than 2 years, Dongfeng North Road on both sides of the shops are basically in the transfer! … The shadow of Wuxi elevated rollover is really still in, Shanghai will not turn it… It's a single pile. You don't know how to learn… Not just a single pile, but a roll-up truck… Now there is no problem in carrying dozens of tons of carts… Rollover, I said the width of the two sides of the suspension is a little too wide, there is no pillar under the suspension… It's not a divided thing, it's unguarded, so many people and time, it's not certain that one day the brain is dizzy, driving a heavy cargo up, can't intercept the first time, unless the height limit is 2.5 meters you are just nonsense… If you have this idea, you'd better not go out and live in buildings. What if a woman who just got her driver's license hits you with the brake instead of the accelerator. And don't live in tall buildings, in case of an earthquake. The first feeling here is very much like the grass River where I lived as a child and the rice River before the transformation, even the color of the river is like, the indigenous people are still there, Guanqian Street connects to the ancient block, just like Pozi Street South Hailing Road connects to Hanxi Street Handong Street, but Shanghai is not as big as Pingjiang Road historical block. Looking back at our transformation, if Po Zi Street has not been transformed into the current Causeway Bay model building remains unchanged, Xinhua Bookstore, the first grocery store, Fuchun Overseas Chinese, these old shops have not moved away, and if the residents near Daohe Caohe have not all moved, they should not be like this dilemma now. Suzhou ceiling is actually Pingjiang Road. … I do! … It is true that Now the Handong + Hanxi north section of Caohewan should be protected and regulated well, and the profound lessons of Daohewan (Wuxiang - Hanxi South section) should be deeply learned. Regulation, governance, why are these words used in this kind of thing, as if there is some crime in it… Shantang Street… The surrounding river with the grass River as the center can completely create a tourism classic larger than the Qinhuai River in Nanjing. South to Nanguan River, north to Tongyang River, west to workers' new village west Zha River, east to Zhibao Park around the Daohe bend as the center. Grass River around the classical as the center, cruise, cross-strait consumption food shopping, see the ancient city of Hailing. Workers' new village west of the river and then through the gate south into the city river, the use of yachts, speedboats, motorboats, quick tour of the beauty of modern urban construction in Shanghai. It's a shame that such a good resource… Shantang Street is an Internet celebrity, indeed. The cinema in Guanqian Street still retains the building of the 1980s, think about our people's stereo cinema in Pozi Street before, it is really sad, Pozi Street has been destroyed… Nice photo! … Guanqian Street… Other things do not say, the Fengcheng River is strictly blocked by trees, driving can not enjoy the beauty, the vision is not open. Down on foot, the scenery is not shocking… Shanghai before the rice River Bay does feel more fun and lively than now, a lot of all kinds of small shops on both sides, remember to buy video game machine farming tools, fishing tools and so on are here to buy, but the house is a little broken small, but those broken small shops give people a sense of fireworks, modern construction of a variety of residential big box scenic spots no longer see such a landscape. Borrow a video from somewhere else! Your device does not support video tags. … Suzhou Ancient city conservation is a model Shanghai can compare… The appearance of such strange buildings as the Old street and Daohewan in Shanghai is mainly because some officials who were in charge of the government in southern Jiangsu at that time had a group of companies specializing in making ancient buildings. You will understand the following story. … Can't you not talk about it? … Shanghai Daohe ancient block is a model of spending a lot of money, tearing down genuine and fake antiques, and completely forcing and commercializing a good historical block. … People are now too much, has been promoted, I just say two words that is a cover-up… You are a bit like the closed door street in Suzhou… Fengcheng River scenery is not only blocked by the big trees on the east road, but also local Jintong Rose Garden residence, local Jintong Mei Garden residence, local Haicheng apartment, local Jinyu Garden and other local residential developers have invaded the area of scenic spots that could have been bigger and better and the city's open line of sight has been destroyed.

When consumers are commoditized

Like Kafka, Freud has become part of our thought - our common property, so to speak. We are familiar with concepts such as the unconscious, id, ego and superego. George Herbert Mead, the philosopher, sociologist, and psychologist who contributed so much to our thinking about identity, did not use these terms, but ultimately he had the same thing in mind when he spoke of the "Lord and I" and the "guest and I." The "Lord I" is the result of my thinking, the thing that I really am, the real thing. But I am divided, because in addition to this internal "Lord me," there is an external "guest me," that is, the beliefs of the people around me about me, about me, about what I really am. Our life is a struggle for peaceful coexistence between "the Lord" and "the guest". Mead says that an individual's identity is determined through interaction with other individuals. There are many different "guest selves," and the task of the "Lord's self" is to synthesize them into a coherent self-image. In "fluid" or "transient" modernity, identity in its current form is related to such interactions, but more complex. Nowadays, each person has not only multiple "guest selves", but also multiple "Lord selves". You are particularly concerned about this phenomenon. Today, identity is a matter of negotiation. It does flow. We are not born with an established identity that will never change. Plus, we can be multiple people at the same time. When chatting on social networking platforms, you can choose a specific identity in the conversation, and then choose another identity in the next conversation. You can change your identity at any time, and different identities come and go. The interaction between the "I" and the "superego," or the "Lord" and the "guest" is part of our daily work. Freud laid the foundation for our understanding of this interaction. In the context of criticizing today's rampant consumerism, you've discussed the idea of identity as a fashion accessory. You say that the consumer society makes it difficult to be happy because it depends on our unhappiness. In this context, the word "unhappy" is too big. But every marketing manager will insist that his product will satisfy consumers. If that were true, we wouldn't have a consumer economy. If the need is really met, there is no reason to iterate on the product. The left in 1968 called this the "horror of consumerism." What is the difference between consumption and consumerism? Consumption is a characteristic of the individual; consumerism is a characteristic of society. In a consumerist society, the ability to want, desire, and desire something is removed from the individual. It is materialized, which means that it becomes a force outside the individual. It is difficult, or almost impossible, to resist this force, because everyone is subject to it. The desire to satisfy all the needs created by business becomes an addiction that binds society together as a whole. To understand this, one needs to look at history. At the end of the 19th century, many artisans lost their workshops and fell into poverty. But the new factory owners, whose actions had led to the development, again found it difficult to find enough workers. As long as there is bread to eat every day, they will not be willing to submit to the discipline demanded by the factory. The pioneers of the modern market economy feared craftsmen. The bogeyman feared in today's consumer economy is the traditional consumer, because the traditional consumer is satisfied with the product she/he buys. Rather, in contrast to previous forms of consumption, consumerism associated happiness with an increase in the number of desires rather than the satisfaction of needs. This growth requires the constant and rapid use of new things to satisfy these desires. Although the consumerist society claims that satisfying the consumer is its goal, in fact the satisfied consumer is its greatest threat, because it can only continue to thrive if its members are not satisfied. The main goal of marketing is not to create new goods, but to create new demand. That's why products that were the latest in style and advertised as objects of desire a moment ago can suddenly be derided as "obsolete." Children as young as five years old are trained by the consumer society to be "dissatisfied consumers." On Sundays, they will go shopping with their parents in a world full of interesting, exciting and tempting goods. When they get tired of it, they throw it away. Markets include not only goods, but also consumers. As you say, they are also commodified, which brings us back to the question of identity. Consumerist culture is characterized by the pressure to be someone else, to acquire traits that are in demand in the marketplace. Today, you have to market yourself, you have to think of yourself as a commodity, as a product that attracts customers. Members of a mature consumerist society are themselves consumer goods. Paradoxically, this compulsion - which forces you to emulate the "deserving" lifestyle being peddled by current market sellers and thus modify your own identity - is not perceived as external pressure, but as an expression of personal freedom. Today, many young people only want to become famous by Posting videos on social networking platforms or any other means. As for what else they could do, they had no specific idea. What does that mean? For them, being famous means being in the headlines of thousands of newspapers, or appearing on millions of screens, being talked about, being noticed, being wanted - like the bags and shoes and gadgets in glossy magazines that they want for themselves. Turning yourself into a desired, marketable commodity increases one's chances of getting the most attention, fame, and wealth out of the competition. This is what today's dreams and fairy tales are made of. According to French sociologist Francois de Sangli, identity is no longer a question of roots. Instead, he used the metaphor of an anchor. Unlike pulling out one's roots and freeing oneself from the guardianship of society, pulling an anchor is neither irreversible nor a decisive event. You don't like that. Why? We can only become someone else if we cease to be what we are now, so we must abandon our former selves forever. Because of the endless stream of new options, it won't be long before we see our current selves as outdated, unsatisfactory, and uncomfortable. Doesn't the ability to change what we are also contain the power of liberation? Whether in the United States or New Zealand, then or now, this is the motto of the people: Reinvent yourself! Of course, this strategy is not new: When things get tough, turn around and run. People try to do that all the time. What's new, though, is escaping your own desires by choosing a new self from the catalog. What began as confident steps toward a new horizon soon became an obsessive routine. The liberating "you can be someone else" becomes the compulsive "you must be someone else." This sense of obligation is not like the freedom people seek, and many people rebel against it.

When people are old, these three things are best rotten in the belly and do not tell their children

First, it's about the past. "We learn wisdom from adversity, and virtue from pain." This saying tells us that most people will experience hardships or make mistakes in some things in their life, but we should believe that it is these experiences that temper our strong mind and optimistic attitude. When we look back, many things are not worth mentioning, which is also a reflection of wisdom. Therefore, when people are old, there is no need to easily tell their children about the "ugly things" even if they are rotten in the belly. On the one hand, these things are not honorable, if let our children know, it may damage their image of us, and even set a bad example. For example, many older people may have drunk too much alcohol or made ugly mistakes when they were younger, and these things are not worth mentioning. Second, it is about complaining that their children are not promising. "In this world, some people do not necessarily have money to get love; Having money does not necessarily make you happy; Happiness does not necessarily lead to health; Having good health doesn't always work out." Everyone has their own path in life, and we can't help our children forever. When we are old, our children have reached a certain age and understand the truth of life. As parents, we should encourage them instead of complaining about their failure. No matter what happens, we should look at it with optimism, as the saying goes. As long as you and your children are in good health, this is already a great wealth. Finally, there is the distribution of property. "Only those who live in humble circumstances have the best chance to see the truth of society in all its forms." "Humble" here can be understood to mean that when we are in a weak position or do not have much earning power, we are better able to see the reality of people and social conditions around us. As the saying goes, "The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, but the poor have no one to ask in the busy city." Therefore, when people are old, even if the children are dutiful, do not easily disclose the distribution of property. After all, many elderly people need to be taken care of by their children in their later years, and if the distribution of property is disclosed too early, the children may feel that it is unfair, resulting in estrangement, affecting their relationship with each other and not conducive to their later life.

The way of loyalty and forgiveness, the Dharma of Kongmen's practice

Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live? The way of loyalty and forgiveness, the Dharma of Kongmen's practice Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live?

Interaction effect analysis in multiple logistic regression

Research content:Data on hand-washing patterns in four different stages of COVID-19 were collected, and multiple logistic regression was used to study the effects of gender and stage of COVID-19 on hand-washing patterns.Dependent variable: hand washing methodIndependent variable 1: Gender identity;Independent variable 2: Outbreak, Vaccines, Variants and Post have been set as dummy variables, with Outbreak as the reference. The main research question was the effect of gender on hand washing patterns, and that's done. Question: Further analysis of the interaction effects of gender and the stage of epidemic development on hand-washing patterns (i.e., whether hand-washing patterns between men and women at different stages constitute significant differences). Is it possible to use multiple logistic regression for interaction effect analysis? If so, how to select factors (including dummy variables) for interaction effect analysis operations? The forced fusion of medium and being is a technological ideal that is difficult to explain. But in addition, behind this ideal, there is also a social ideal, that is, media extendivism wants to maximize individual freedom through the meta-universe. The logical basis of this maximization is that since the meta-cosmic level of media is everywhere, then everyone is in the "private" "definition" and use of the media, they can freely enter the virtual space, freely choose relations and identities; Moreover, because of the fusion of the virtual and the real, the virtual freedom acquires the real meaning. However, in the "freedom" brought about by the infinite extension of media, the definer of media seems not so simple. Of course, since everything is a medium, all people involved in relationships are definers in this sense. However, even the media extensionists cannot refute the fact that meta-cosmic media necessarily rely on vast algorithms and their material carriers (i.e., the platforms, facilities and protocols mentioned above), and thus cannot be separated from institutional entities, producers and managers, as well as the administrators and legislators who govern at the highest level of the community and represent the community as a whole. These people's definitions have real authority; The users define only the information and scene content, and they themselves are only the definition objects of the media authority. Thus, since not everyone is a definer, there is no possibility that users and mediators can define together. In addition, the definition of managers and managers is not entirely transparent to users, or even necessary; Users are often passive, just as we are suddenly forced to face the "meta-universe" propagated by some institution. However, in the ideal of infinite media extension and infinite human freedom, institutions, institutions, societies, and realities seem to perish in the future vision; The individual is the new intermediary "alien," and society is subject to the new relationships of these individuals. If the boundary between the virtual and the real, between the individual and society (represented by those in power), is smoothed out in such a vision, and some kind of universal world is constructed, then a new boundary of reason seems to emerge. The underlying "meta-problem" with three links is: how to imagine a world that is both "virtual" and "real" at time t, whose essence is defined by both "private" and "public", which is both "free" and "not free"?

I graduated 4 years ago, changed 4 jobs, 2 months of hard work to achieve a magnificent identity turn

After graduation and working for four years, I realized a magnificent turn of identity within a month and finally became a university teacher. Like many graduates, when I first graduated, I had no worries and wanted to go out and earn more money. As a result, I have changed four jobs in four years, and my salary has also changed from 4,000 to 6,000 to 10,000 before, and then to 6,000 now. In general, although I can't earn as much as my classmates in first-tier cities in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, I can cope with my daily expenses, and I can also have 25w more and a lot of savings. But as the girlfriend became a wife, and her job became stable in the local area. In addition, there is a wife, a house is the place is home, do not want to live most of the time is divided between two places, only through the year through vacation or leave to be together. Therefore, in June this year, I decisively gave up the opportunity of high salary outside and chose a job in the same city with my wife. Although in the same city, but the home and work are not close to each other, it takes an hour or two to travel back and forth, my wife is still on the Internet to help me pay attention to the right opportunities. Just in August, my wife saw a university recruitment career management teacher announcement, and this university is only a road away from our community. When I saw this announcement, I was also moved, because my ideal life is to walk home within ten minutes after work! In order to successfully enter the school work, you must go through a written test and a structured interview. As a result, I began to actively prepare for the preliminary exam, that is, the written test, as required. Because the written test does not specify the textbook, I can only according to what they say on the Internet to search for textbooks to buy review. Because I am reviewing while working, compared with those fresh graduates who are very tight on time, I squeeze time to read it after work, and I record what I have learned and need to remember into audio, and listen to it repeatedly on the way to work every day by riding a tram, and finally I can tell almost every important knowledge point. However, sometimes fate is always joking with you, in the review of more than half a month, into the examination room, when the paper was issued down when I knew that the original review content and the knowledge to be tested is very different, with their own accumulation I am serious really done, until the last moment to hand in the paper, feel that this will be finished, the content of the review did not test, see the knowledge is white. I didn't expect to make it to the interview (nearly 300 people took the initial audition, and only 30 more made it), so I was ready to continue my good work. I was afraid to go to the school bulletin, afraid of not seeing my name, afraid of being disappointed, afraid of being hit. On the third day after the exam, I was in the workshop to follow up the production progress, suddenly heard the wechat ring, open a look, is the wife sent a message. It turned out that I entered the second interview, although it was the identity of the last risk, but at least there is a chance to participate in the second interview. The good thing is, I was only four points away from the first place. Now that God has given me another chance, I must seize it all the more. The second interview is divided into two parts: lecture + answer questions. Because I had not been on the platform before and had no experience, I thought about it a little bit, first I thoroughly understood what I wanted to talk about, and then tried to talk about it again and again. However, I had no idea of the effect of the trial, so I asked my wife and her aunt and uncle to watch it and give comments; In addition, I made a video of my trial lecture and sent it to my sister in other places, because she is a teacher, and asked her to give some remote guidance. In this way, I practiced over and over again, from the beginning of the speech stutter, physical tension to the end of the natural speech, the performance of the natural, and able to communicate with the "unreal student" naturally. I feel very satisfied with the final result, so I am very confident. On the day of the second interview, I saw that many people were holding lesson plans, and the school also required handwritten lesson plans, which needed to be handed in at the end. Although I have written it, I am not going to take it during the lecture because all the knowledge I need for the whole class is in my head. The trial process was good on the whole, but there were two aspects I was not satisfied with: the content was not finished in the prescribed time; I made a mistake in the process of writing on the board. Knowledge "gain" has a delay, and it will really bring you unexpected happiness at some point, so don't think that some things I have learned in vain, and I have not used them at all, and maybe one day these so-called unused knowledge has become something that changes your fate. The final results came out, I took the test 90.69, and at that time the first test of our professional (when we signed up, he forgot to copy information, I rode a trolley with him to copy, so we met). With only 80 points, it looks like all I have to do is beat second place. After the interview, the announcement was made the next afternoon, and I was the only teacher hired in my major. Therefore, you must not give up until the end, even if you may not be satisfactory at the beginning for some reason, but you have to do your best to do the best in the back, then you may become a counter-attacker. Next is the normal political review, physical examination, training process… I will also change from a wage earner to an educator. I believe that this job should not only be a job, but also my lifelong career. I also believe that my family life is in the future!

It's raining. I choose to go

During the day, the sun roasted the city like a little sheep, and in the evening, heaven and earth could not bear it, and there was an unexpected rain. Today did not take an umbrella, first went to the canteen to play scattered rice. There are people everywhere to take shelter from the rain, I chose to go, the wind is worse than the rain, the pedestrian's umbrella is blown over. I'm kind of glad I still have a leaky hat, because of thunderstorms, sometimes heavy, sometimes light. After the rain stopped, I was brushing a small video was interrupted by a phone call from an old classmate, she blamed me for not going out to exercise, lying to fatten up. Had to pick up and go out casually, the outside is cool, if not out, how to know the summer after the rain in the evening so comfortable? Chatting with her all the way, I soon came to my Alma mater, from the side door of the family home all the way to the campus. Through the bridge to another campus, some parts of the campus have changed, the logo of the building is still the same. The library in the sunset light shines brightly against the background of the departing clouds, and the benches by the pool in the campus are replaced with wide strips of wood, shining with their luster before the dark night. The small stone arch bridge on our dormitory college graduation time left a shadow, through the street lamp can see the pool of lotus clusters, they did not bloom. Next to the new school history hall, the iconic red paint and imitation wooden flower carving to pull themselves to see a lot of costume dramas, especially the sad palace drama, afraid of coming out of a very deep resentment of the empress. The young people in the basketball court show their youth and vitality. When riding back, I thought of my pomegranate wine, sweet with sour, nice pink, if you do a Hanfu of this color will be very beautiful. But at the moment I choose to drink it, with a nice wine to write a little feeling. When on campus, there is a feeling of crossing, a kind of unspeakable uncomfortable, is it still a little strange time too fast? Think of the folk song in "Red Xiangxi", and the sad love story. People are the most courageous when they are young, they dare to pursue what they want regardless of everything, perhaps in the eyes of the elderly is reckless, silly, and in a person's life, it is the most meaningful impulse.

Be a reader of idle books

Since childhood, many people have asked me questions about "reading" on various occasions, which can be summarized as follows:What kind of books do you like to read?You read so many books, what's the use?You read so many books, can you remember?However, a scene that impressed me deeply was that I went to interview the legal affairs of an airline company when I graduated from graduate school. During the on-site structured interview, one of the leaders read my resume and asked, "Look at your resume and you like reading books, what books have you been reading recently?"I replied, "The Right Bank of the Erguna River by Chi Zijian."And then, there was no then…I think it is probably because this book is too small for them, there is no control of people, there is no management, and there is no promotion and wealth…When there are many roads, we get lost because we don't know where to go."However, I think there is a kind of utilitarian orientation behind these problems, that is, reading is to obtain certain "benefits" that are best materialized and measurable, and to achieve "usefulness".Indeed, reading has many benefits, as the old saying goes :" In the book there is a golden house, in the book there is a jade." Both ancient and modern people know that reading is of great benefit. In a nutshell, it allows people to acquire all kinds of knowledge that make our lives better, to see things without leaving the house, and to become a happier person. Especially if you read a novel, after reading a book, you will seem to follow the protagonist through his life, which is not very wonderful life experience.However, if something becomes utilitarian, task and force to get positive benefits from it, then things will change qualitatively in the "bad direction", and you will feel boring, limited and greatly burdened.I still remember when I read the Harry Potter series in the fourth grade of primary school, I could read one book a day without eating or sleeping. My mother shouted that I would not eat, so that she angrily gave an ultimatum: if I do not go to eat, I will burn my book. Only then did I close the book sulkily.But since then I have thoroughly liked reading, here I want to thank my elder sister, she was in college, every summer vacation and winter vacation, will bring me a variety of books. From this experience, it shouldn't be hard to get a child to love reading, the key is to find a suitable set of books for entry level, hahaha. After I went to middle school and high school, every summer vacation and winter vacation, I would pour out a bag of books at home, and then choose what I want to see, such as Gone with the Wind, I read it many times, so that I think my personality is a little like the heroine; For example, "Sophie's World", every time I watch it, I wonder if one day my world will appear a mysterious person who writes to me or a magical rabbit; And "Harry Potter" series, in fact, I don't like the halo of the protagonist Harry Potter, I like the elf Dobby…After I went to college, I was more free, I could read hundreds of books every year, and slowly formed my own reading style and preferences.Wait for work, ahem… My reading state will return to the stage of pre-school-age children. I want to read, but I can't settle down. It's not that I don't have time, but I just can't settle down. ?Duan said that reading should return to the original heart, relaxed and enjoyable.I deeply believe that the most natural state of life is to go along with it, don't force yourself to do anything, don't work against yourself, otherwise the life is too twisted. For a long time, I lived to challenge myself, like to run half a horse. Then because the amount of exercise is too big, headache for a week, the old doctor of the school hospital said: Are you in the physical education department? Did your parents send you here so you could run? Do you see athletes living a long life? Look at that turtle. Do you know Nan Huaijin? I thought, Grandpa know so much, see a disease even turtle ah, Nan Huaijin old man ah are pulled on. But no nonsense, since then I have figured out: people do not challenge themselves, do not work against themselves, to take care of their bodies.Similarly, reading is the same, the recent period of time do not want to see, there is always want to see time; Which book can make you feel happy at this stage, then read it, there is no need to read the "book" in the eyes of successful people, as long as it is happy to read, whether it is a novel or popular science or children's picture books or management books, you can read it; On the contrary, now many best-selling covers will write XX star recommendations, sales XX million copies, but really not suitable for you.Anyway, don't follow the crowd in anything.For example, before going to college, I really liked to watch the world novel classics, those famous I have read many, the four classics have also read. But after going to college, it seems that my "novel nerve" was completely closed, and I could not read it anyway, so I turned to philosophy, economics and prose. After work, I like to read some more esoteric and obscure books, such as management, research on human thinking patterns, behavior patterns and so on.In general, it seems to be a stage of development from the outside to the inside.Read different books at different stages of life.In short, if you want to avoid hating reading, you have to follow your own taste; If you want to like reading, you have to read non-professional, non-work related, so that you can not burden, aimless easy reading.But in the end, there will also be unexpected blessings, such as being able to sit and lie down during the epidemic…

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