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[Leisure and entertainment] It's cold time again, and what clothes are not suitable for riding an electric motorcycle to work

It's hard to get to work on an electric scooter when it's cold. Wear thick when you go to work hot, wear less cold on the road. It's not an exaggeration. It's not too much to wear a down jacket when you leave early. The above is better, wearing a thin coat outside, but this leg is not good to get ah, sad people ↓¤wind is ah! I put something on when I put it on in my scooter! Get off, take down and put in the car ↓¤My wind has been arranged, ↓¤Then buy a scooter car ↓¤Passing ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤car open ↓¤Wind is ↓ I am more afraid of riding a bike ↓¤This is let you change the rhythm ↓¤stormjacket ↓¤wear on the body, Than wind is safe ↓¤Taobao look at a variety of windproof warm, let you choose ↓¤Your boyfriend is not idle? Ask him to drive you, 1000 red envelopes are sent out of it ↓¤A windproof is not solved? ↓¤Wind shield, or the old long padded jacket, down jacket to work, other time put a small electric seat below ↓¤Buy a windproof 邶 ah, ha ha ha ↓ ↓ Spider-Man suit is the most suitable, there is no air leakage ↓¤Buy a lot of people with four wheels are using a windproof quilt, borrow a few people's try, suitable for themselves to buy a! ↓¤Get a wind shield, the effect is good many days cold, riding electric motorcycle people to work is really difficult. Wear thick when you go to work hot, wear less cold on the road. It's not an exaggeration. It's not too much to wear a down jacket when you leave early. The above is better, wearing a thin coat outside, but this leg is not good to get ah, sad people ↓¤wind is ah! I put something on when I put it on in my scooter! Get off, take down and put in the car ↓¤My wind has been arranged, ↓¤Then buy a scooter car ↓¤Passing ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤car open ↓¤Wind is ↓ I am more afraid of riding a bike ↓¤This is let you change the rhythm ↓¤stormjacket ↓¤wear on the body, Than wind is safe ↓¤Taobao look at a variety of windproof warm, let you choose ↓¤Your boyfriend is not idle? Ask him to drive you, 1000 red envelopes are sent out of it ↓¤A windproof is not solved? ↓ Wind shield, or the old long padded jacket, down jacket to work, other time put a small electric seat under the ↓¤Buy a windproof 邶 ah, ha ha ha ↓ Spider-Man suit is the most appropriate, there is no air leakage ↓¤Buy a four-wheeled

[Events Today in Shanghai] The top three runners of the Shanghai Marathon

Ethiopia's long-distance running kingdom… Guan Yousheng is a long-distance worker. My time is 2:02, hahaha, I run once, they can run twice. … First time, no experience, no two hours. … I don't like it. I have a lot of ambition. To make a show of oneself. … Are you from Shanghai? … The bonus is too little for 10,000 yuan, at least 100,000 yuan, which does not show the strength of Shanghai. It's impossible to think about it. … You can give… Not from Shanghai, but amateurs who run for a living. Participate in the marathon for a long time, the annual income of running this item, it is estimated that at least 30 more, but also can bring goods. The best thing about this guy is he's running a marathon this week, and he's doing it next week. People in the running circle call him a model worker. It was foreigners who took… You think these people just show up uninvited? The cost of the invitation is a big… Can you run 2.02 with no experience? … Guizhou's… It's petty to give away such a small bonus. Construction on both sides of the bridge from the end of last year to now, just 200 meters, to repair so long? And it's a mess… I don't understand… However, the main mobile phone should be changed? Cell phones can shoot stars now. … To change Huawei… Far ahead, still ahead, always ahead… That road could wreck my car! Speechless! Just a few hundred meters for a few years. That's ridiculous! … Slow work makes fine work… Dawdling… Do not repair which money Haifa city investment company is under construction in Hailing District, patiently waiting, the road is also convenient for everyone to travel in the future… North of Yingjiang Bridge, part of the lower bridge seems to be more than a year old. Including Yingjiang Bridge Bridge south, near the gas station, also more than a year. Shanghai side, building a road, are in the dawdling, can think, big place, can have how much development. … Hailing district has been read. Thank you for your valuable advice. … Who let in the north of the city, the father does not love the mother, if in the south of the city, the leader a word minutes thing… Hailing district may not even look up to their own north of the city here? Otherwise, the road construction in Hailing District would not be so slow, right? … Finally someone said this road, top top… It's been a year. When will it be… It is accurate to say that there is no year, it seems to be the end of last year, the road to the end of this year, only one year. After all, slow life in Watertown… Ha ha, lazy government… I have energy to ridicule this matter, I have Yingjiang Bridge road repair speechless, looking at other places, it is estimated that there is no such slow, completely but the people go out Ha ha, how do you not say that the city of Shanghai, don't you belong to Shanghai, the south of the city is not a person, the north of the city is not a person, Hailing District is more effective than the city to speak? … The city helps the Hailing District to build the city's main road, but the Hailing Road is responsible for the branch road by the Hailing District, the Hailing District does not give the city the right to build the city, how can the city participate? I also urgently hope that our west area of Hailing City has been taken over by the city, and the high-tech zone will continue to expand to the north, but it is not realistic. … You really cow force, also Hailing district does not delegate power, is Hailing District big or big municipal government big, is the district mayor or mayor secretary to say… I live in the north of the bridge, because the two sides of the bridge are really difficult to walk, I basically take a detour from the road in front of the station. … It feels like it's been years… Get paid for all your nonsense… Get paid every day! They want to fix it, dig it, dig it, fix it! … Hailing District Haifa City Investment Company hurry to reply to the serious concerns of the people of Hailing about your road construction work… I don't know if it's three, five, eight years

[People's life] Shanghai city can also find a prize 500 yuan dirtier than the underground garage of this community

Sanitary city with such a dirty underground garage… Song Du bar… 500. Get ready. I'll show you some… If you take Shanghai Yida Garden compared with this, you can only count as a child, do not believe yourself to see… Where is this… I've been to see IDA. It's cooler than this neighborhood… It's not… I think it's Garfung's… No, the neighborhood has a nice name, but it's just not what it is… I will take you to see a community five times dirtier than this, the name is very tall, please prepare your 500 yuan do not play on… Any two old neighborhoods would be dirtier… Overlooking the lake… The parking lot in the basement, you may not have made it to the location… It's already good. Go to the basement of Changzhou shopping mall. It's dirty and smelly. Mosquitoes fly around, garbage is not cleaned up, and feces are everywhere. This is Sunny Paris… Is that dirty? It's not normal to be a little gray. I thought you had trash lying around… Bay Bridge… The underground garage of our community is washed with water every month. … There is no dirtiest, only dirtier…. The question is, do you mean what you say? … Dare you bet big… The English mansion… Yanshan Meilin… West Side Garden? High-speed rail station lost ID card, please have a good Samaritan found… To help you… Are you sure you lost it at the high speed train station? Just go to the information desk and ask, wait 1-2 weeks, and then go to replace it if there is no one. … Oh, thank you, you went out today and saw two people wearing archaeological vests, asking about the discovery of an ancient kiln, which is not yet confirmed… From the looks of the picture, at least two violations. … If you don't wear a helmet and you turn left, you don't use your turn signal. 1. Not wearing a helmet 2. Carrying passengers 3. Driving in the wrong direction 4 Yellow card need to pay insurance Have a driver's license, I do not know if… Wearing a vest with traffic immunity. You got a problem with that? … I don't know whose grave we're digging up. … It's legal to wear a vest, huh… I know… Where exactly… Where did you see… Come on, this yellow card is for a battery car… Dig a little bit here. I drilled a few holes in the family's newly renovated house and I did a terrible job of finding my home, and I burned my switch, and now I'm not answering my phone. Don't look for trash like this when you're sewing your new house. Let's see what we can say about this job. … Now consumption everywhere is a pit, hide the first day, hide but fifteen, can only say that the market climate is falling… I'm going to do my own sewing. You must earn what you can earn… Have taken shelter… When you want to collect money, it is better to say than to sing, say that there is a problem to contact her, the result is paid, the phone either says that it is busy for a few days, and after a few days, you simply do not answer the phone, you can see the quality of their work, itself is introduced by a friend, this kind of mobile workers without physical stores, we should take as a warning, especially during the renovation period, the money can not be settled all at once. … If the project is not completed and accepted, the balance must not be settled… White is glass glue, not sealant… It's good… The United States seam is actually to pay (**) tax, three years after the full crack. … Or please people, rookies and old birds or there is a gap, but also a technical life… The whole house customization is the biggest pit, all the density board, the scene splicing, shaky, a mess. … Thank you, lightning… I know… Have avoided the pit Shanghai east beachhead behind the public river every day someone in the net fishing to ask this someone manage? … Is there anyone who will put it every day… … Do not catch fish in the land of rice? … Who cares. … Can't control… It's not the fish pond in your castle… Wild river fish, why not catch? … No one cares… Some people really have nothing to do with hanging up high, a mouth, a keyboard. Why is the Yangtze River closed to fishing? … As long as the water pollution is less, the fish can not catch the bus station next to the Changzhou high-speed railway station, when is the last bus to Shanghai? … The next bus butler… Last flight 6:20 PM… Thank you, everyone. It's 18:20 on 12306. … Will you go to Changzhou tomorrow

[People's life] The hospital of Traditional Chinese medicine a few years ago, the card has surplus money, can also be returned?

A few days ago, cleaning, find out a doctor's card of a hospital of traditional Chinese medicine, only to remember that the balance of one or two hundred yuan has not been used up, as if this kind of doctor's card has not been used up, can it be returned? … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … How do you know how much balance is in it? Shouldn't you be at the hospital? … It's expired. … Where can I deposit money on this card… Can be returned should, I am not used in Xi 'an to come back to return. … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … It's a smart thing to do, you know? Haha… I'm out of my depth… Haha, rabbit Shanghai Zhongguancun development is good ah, behind the city of happiness, there is also a fountain light show on the other side of the Canal Park, the light show is very beautiful, light and shadow changes, water dance flying, feeling that the effect of spending money is quite lively, there are a lot of people, just don't know if it is every night? Or just a few days a week? Does anyone know? It feels good to take a walk there at night and look at the light show. Where is the location? Every night? … The house could go up a bit… Pretty… Stop dreaming. It'll keep falling… The South River commercial complex has been planned on the east side of the North garden of Happiness City. … Friday to Sunday, north of the north garden of the Happy city… I heard that houses in the north of the city fell even more. … There are many exhaust gases in industrial parks, and the prices of second-hand houses and dismantled houses in industrial parks have fallen, and many of them have to rot in their hands. Well, I'll tell my friend not to take the house north of town. … If you bought it in the first half of the year, it's not a problem to lose 100,000… The river next to it stinks. It spoils the view… Fell 5500 a square meter 2 hand room… At this rate of population decline, at this rate of economic decline, the house price of 3,500 is not necessarily affordable… Long named happy city, so later more and more happy. … It's only $5,000 over there now… The green door by the fountain is a failure. The whole park is so beautiful. It's better to put something like a green ghost door than nothing at all… Houses are not for speculation, they are for living, and those who say that they have fallen and risen are not interesting. … The strength of the choice of Yanshan New District, it is said that the Yanshan New District school district is not so good, ordinary families, you can buy the transition of the happy city, marry a wife always buy a house, and then you can change to improve the type. There is no denying that Happiness City is currently the center of Zhongguancun, the east is attached to the South Normal University primary School, the west is attached to the South Normal University Middle School, both front and back are parks. The middle street is a busy street, nothing wrong with that. Up and down, you are not investing, there is no need to get too entangled. … Ask your friend to buy Yanshan New District, which is 2-3 million. … Light night landscape beautification floating bright! … Pay the loan… Could it?

People to middle age these three things do not do, otherwise bitter is their own

Middle age is a turning point in one's life stage, and it is also a stage where wisdom and maturity coexist. At this stage, people should reflect on their past, sum up experience and plan for the future. There are three things, after middle age, we should be careful to avoid self-inflicted consequences. First, do not overreach, feet firmly hidden in the heart. Middle-aged people should be well aware of their own abilities and limitations, and not blindly pursue illusory goals while neglecting the immediate work and responsibilities. Many middle-aged people are eager to make a breakthrough in their career, but neglect their family and physical health, which will be more than worth the loss, and eventually leave regrets. For example, Mr. Li pursued career success in middle age, worked overtime every day, and paid little attention to his family, resulting in estranged family relations and damaged physical health. This is a typical case of overreaching, so middle-aged people should know how to cherish everything in front of them, down to earth, and do not get lost in the illusory distance. When people reach middle age, they must find their own rhythm and continue to live well in accordance with their own rhythm in order to go further. Second, give up the good teacher, hollow as grain practice in the line. In middle age, many people have more or less achievements, at this time, we should maintain a humble attitude, do not be self-righteous, do not blindly give people advice, but should constantly improve their own cultivation and quality in humility. For example, when Ms. Zhang became a senior executive in her middle age, she often decided the direction of the company based on her own experience and opinions, ignoring the advice of others in her team. Such behavior is likely to lead to a decline in team morale, so that individuals in the company can not play their own advantages, and ultimately will inevitably weaken the cohesion of the entire team. Middle-aged people should give up this kind of attitude of being good to others and be vain, which can not only increase their own wisdom, but also improve the effectiveness and cohesion of the team. In middle age, one of the most valuable qualities is to understand that there is something to be done and something to be done. There are things that need to be done as a team, don't be individual heroism. When you need a team effort and you need to listen to the opinions of individuals in the team, don't act arbitrarily, or you may be isolated. Third, do not be "soft hearted" and help the poor with edges and corners. Middle-aged people tend to be kind and kind, but sometimes being too kind can lead to problems. When facing difficulties and crises, middle-aged people should remain resolute and firm, and not be blinded by their own kindness. For example, in middle age, Mr. Wang encountered difficulties in borrowing money from a relative. Although he knew that the relative was not a person he could trust, he lent it to him out of kindness, which eventually led to financial losses and the breakdown of interpersonal relationships. This is the negative impact of "gentleness of heart", middle-aged people in the face of difficulties and crises, should know how to maintain a certain degree of rationality and calm, rather than being affected by their own kindness. Middle age is a very important stage in life, we should bear in mind the three advice of aiming high, giving up good advice to teachers, and not "soft hearted". Only by staying grounded and confident, while remaining resolute and firm, can we live a more leisurely and happy life after middle age. If you have the three problems mentioned above, often do those three things intentionally or unintentionally, I hope you can quit after middle age, otherwise the pain is yourself.

When consumers are commoditized

Like Kafka, Freud has become part of our thought - our common property, so to speak. We are familiar with concepts such as the unconscious, id, ego and superego. George Herbert Mead, the philosopher, sociologist, and psychologist who contributed so much to our thinking about identity, did not use these terms, but ultimately he had the same thing in mind when he spoke of the "Lord and I" and the "guest and I." The "Lord I" is the result of my thinking, the thing that I really am, the real thing. But I am divided, because in addition to this internal "Lord me," there is an external "guest me," that is, the beliefs of the people around me about me, about me, about what I really am. Our life is a struggle for peaceful coexistence between "the Lord" and "the guest". Mead says that an individual's identity is determined through interaction with other individuals. There are many different "guest selves," and the task of the "Lord's self" is to synthesize them into a coherent self-image. In "fluid" or "transient" modernity, identity in its current form is related to such interactions, but more complex. Nowadays, each person has not only multiple "guest selves", but also multiple "Lord selves". You are particularly concerned about this phenomenon. Today, identity is a matter of negotiation. It does flow. We are not born with an established identity that will never change. Plus, we can be multiple people at the same time. When chatting on social networking platforms, you can choose a specific identity in the conversation, and then choose another identity in the next conversation. You can change your identity at any time, and different identities come and go. The interaction between the "I" and the "superego," or the "Lord" and the "guest" is part of our daily work. Freud laid the foundation for our understanding of this interaction. In the context of criticizing today's rampant consumerism, you've discussed the idea of identity as a fashion accessory. You say that the consumer society makes it difficult to be happy because it depends on our unhappiness. In this context, the word "unhappy" is too big. But every marketing manager will insist that his product will satisfy consumers. If that were true, we wouldn't have a consumer economy. If the need is really met, there is no reason to iterate on the product. The left in 1968 called this the "horror of consumerism." What is the difference between consumption and consumerism? Consumption is a characteristic of the individual; consumerism is a characteristic of society. In a consumerist society, the ability to want, desire, and desire something is removed from the individual. It is materialized, which means that it becomes a force outside the individual. It is difficult, or almost impossible, to resist this force, because everyone is subject to it. The desire to satisfy all the needs created by business becomes an addiction that binds society together as a whole. To understand this, one needs to look at history. At the end of the 19th century, many artisans lost their workshops and fell into poverty. But the new factory owners, whose actions had led to the development, again found it difficult to find enough workers. As long as there is bread to eat every day, they will not be willing to submit to the discipline demanded by the factory. The pioneers of the modern market economy feared craftsmen. The bogeyman feared in today's consumer economy is the traditional consumer, because the traditional consumer is satisfied with the product she/he buys. Rather, in contrast to previous forms of consumption, consumerism associated happiness with an increase in the number of desires rather than the satisfaction of needs. This growth requires the constant and rapid use of new things to satisfy these desires. Although the consumerist society claims that satisfying the consumer is its goal, in fact the satisfied consumer is its greatest threat, because it can only continue to thrive if its members are not satisfied. The main goal of marketing is not to create new goods, but to create new demand. That's why products that were the latest in style and advertised as objects of desire a moment ago can suddenly be derided as "obsolete." Children as young as five years old are trained by the consumer society to be "dissatisfied consumers." On Sundays, they will go shopping with their parents in a world full of interesting, exciting and tempting goods. When they get tired of it, they throw it away. Markets include not only goods, but also consumers. As you say, they are also commodified, which brings us back to the question of identity. Consumerist culture is characterized by the pressure to be someone else, to acquire traits that are in demand in the marketplace. Today, you have to market yourself, you have to think of yourself as a commodity, as a product that attracts customers. Members of a mature consumerist society are themselves consumer goods. Paradoxically, this compulsion - which forces you to emulate the "deserving" lifestyle being peddled by current market sellers and thus modify your own identity - is not perceived as external pressure, but as an expression of personal freedom. Today, many young people only want to become famous by Posting videos on social networking platforms or any other means. As for what else they could do, they had no specific idea. What does that mean? For them, being famous means being in the headlines of thousands of newspapers, or appearing on millions of screens, being talked about, being noticed, being wanted - like the bags and shoes and gadgets in glossy magazines that they want for themselves. Turning yourself into a desired, marketable commodity increases one's chances of getting the most attention, fame, and wealth out of the competition. This is what today's dreams and fairy tales are made of. According to French sociologist Francois de Sangli, identity is no longer a question of roots. Instead, he used the metaphor of an anchor. Unlike pulling out one's roots and freeing oneself from the guardianship of society, pulling an anchor is neither irreversible nor a decisive event. You don't like that. Why? We can only become someone else if we cease to be what we are now, so we must abandon our former selves forever. Because of the endless stream of new options, it won't be long before we see our current selves as outdated, unsatisfactory, and uncomfortable. Doesn't the ability to change what we are also contain the power of liberation? Whether in the United States or New Zealand, then or now, this is the motto of the people: Reinvent yourself! Of course, this strategy is not new: When things get tough, turn around and run. People try to do that all the time. What's new, though, is escaping your own desires by choosing a new self from the catalog. What began as confident steps toward a new horizon soon became an obsessive routine. The liberating "you can be someone else" becomes the compulsive "you must be someone else." This sense of obligation is not like the freedom people seek, and many people rebel against it.

Exploring the culture deep in my memory: walking into Chaoshan villages

"A star at the zenith opens a study underground." -- "Good Praise Guangdong" online work collection competition "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity" kicked off with a Chaoshan folk song, focusing on various traditional cultural customs during the New Year in Chaoshan, the creator Chen Qiang visited various parts of Chaoshan, the shooting lasted nearly two months. Ying song and dance, "Ying Master", Chaozhou opera, burning fire dragon, jumping fire, fireworks… Fireworks, colorful dazzling, Chen Qiang in the picture many times clever use of night and fireworks light and shade contrast, to create a harmonious romantic atmosphere, there is Xin Qiji's "east wind night flowers thousands of trees." More blow down, stars like rain "" Feng Xiao sound moving, jade pot light turn, night fish dragon dance" scene. The music combines the music of the Chaoshan opera, with the smart camera switch and the moving mirror, and the rhythm is full, showing the vitality of the New Year and the youth of the Chaoshan traditional culture in the new era. "Nowadays, more and more young people are interested in local culture and traditional folk customs." Chen Qiang said that through the short video new media platform, as long as the content is interesting and meets the tastes of young people, netizens at home and abroad are willing to "like" and exchange, which is a great radiation. With an audience, there are correspondingly more creators. In addition, Chen Qiang also has some friends around him, who are not only interested in the shooting of traditional folk customs, but also continue to collect information and practice to spread and promote. The more he came into contact with Chaoshan traditional culture, the stronger Chen Qiang's preference for it, including those traditional cultures he was not willing to contact before. "Chaozhou opera has not received much attention among young people of my generation. Its tone and performance mode are not very attractive to young people." At the beginning of this year, Chen Qiang rushed around the small villages of Chaoshan, into the Chaozhou opera performance stage, the Chaozhou opera's clothing, makeup, front and back of the stage are all recorded in the camera, and he felt how the actors carefully prepared for the play. "Once I got to know them and filmed them, it was fun to sit in the audience and watch them perform." Chen Qiang has never felt this way before. The seats around him were dominated by people in their 50s, with few young people. At this moment, he thought of his parents. "In the past, there was no TV to watch, and everyone gathered in front of the ancestral hall at night, simply pulling up the curtain was a weekly Chaozhou opera screening." In the days before television, they learned about the plot of Journey to the West and some allusions to Chaoshan through Chaoshan dramas." Chaozhou opera, carrying the joy and joy of the young people of that era, has also become a memory that they can not erase. Traditional culture and customs are a treasure buried deep in the memory of everyone. The small changes of folk activities reflect the changes of rural life. For example, the very lively "Ying Master" activity in "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity", as a very representative folk ritual cultural activity in Chaoshan area, has also had a lot of new changes in Chen Qiang's eyes. "In the past, the road for 'Ying master' was very difficult to walk, but now there is a large venue for such events, the road surface is more spacious and the environment is much better." Chen Qiang recalled that in the past, there were more old houses, and weeds and paper scraps everywhere were easy to cause fires. Now the "Ying master" is equipped with better safety measures, such as the fire dragon, which has a relatively perfect fire emergency plan.

Pastoral IP, a cyberhealing place for urbanites

"After the eaves of elm willows, in front of the peaches and plums. Like-like to the remote village 墟里 smoke." Those idyllic poems engraved in memory are the concentration and echo of ancient farming civilization. But it's only been a year or two since the idyllic drama began to emerge. Following the phenomenon of the pastoral healing drama "To the windy place" starring Liu Yifei at the beginning of the year triggered the longing of the whole network of social animals, iQiyi's new drama "Field Cultivation" continued to sing pastoral songs, with the novel setting of "holographic game + farming" to attract attention, the market share of Yunhe was as high as 16.7%, the total number of plays of the series has broken 500 million, leading the October network drama market. Netizens called "farming text into reality, addictive." Golden fields of rice and wheat, white clouds and birds, trees and trees, the house is simple, the countryside as a utopia of urban people's hearts, as if a tried-and-tested medicine. But how long will this wind last? Can "Pastoral Healing" really be a new genre? In the 1980s and 1990s, most of the rural dramas were based on heavy literary works, with a strong reality background, and the characters and protagonists were deeply portrayed, such as "Fence · Woman and Dog", "Snowstorm Tonight", "Peasant" and "Foreign Sister", etc., focusing on the differences between urban and rural areas. After entering the 21st century, the country drama also has a new look, "rural love" and "Liu Laogen" such light comedy began to be born. In recent years, the main theme of rural revitalization plays are many, such as "Mountain and sea situation", "Flower mountain Township" and "Daughter of mountains", writing various stories between grassroots cadres and native villagers for the construction of the countryside, the focus is on the collision of ideas of different groups, where the countryside is revitalized with survival resilience. In the past, the audience group of local dramas has always been relatively fixed, mainly audiences with rural life experience or curiosity about rural life, overlapping types of audiences such as comedies, period dramas, etc., or original fans, on the whole, are circular, which is somewhat inconsistent with the current young market. After all these years of rapid urbanization, the "discourse" of the countryside is somewhat diminished. Today, the classic IP "Rural love" has been broadcast to the 15th, and the parents are still short and scattered, and the Northeast rural fireworks are unconsciously affecting the audience's cognition of the countryside. For example, Chen Xiao and Li Qin's "The Road to Life", although Lu Yao's "Life" as the base, but also because of the black and thin Liu Qiaozhen, the image of rural people is too rigid, and urban dramas often used to sharpen the conflict of rural people "clown", are with subjective bias of art processing. But the appearance of "pastoral healing drama", whether from the audience or the interpretation of the countryside, has made people have a new look. There is a strange phenomenon in the drama market: when you see a more mature blockbuster, there are probably some similar works before it, which is a kind of undercurrent like momentum. Before the emergence of the circle level work "Go to the Place with wind", in 2022, Youku's "Small Forest of Two people" and iQiyi's "He Jiajia's Peach Blossom Source" are all taking the route of pastoral healing dramas, but "Small Forest" takes the male and female main love as the main line, and is more inclined to sweet pet dramas. The "He Jiajia" starring is a small transparent show business, although the quality of the series is not bad, in Douban can get 7.9 high scores, but there is not much water when broadcast. "To the place with wind" can be said to be beyond the shortcomings of the previous pastoral drama - starring Liu Yifei, Li now has its own flow discussion degree, but also jumped out of the main man and woman "to fall in love in another place" plot limitations. The group picture depicts success, integrates the propositions of young people returning home to start a business and survive, and truly explores the value and significance of pastoral utopia. For the young people who are rushing around the city grid at present, the emotional resonance and value of "Wind" are undoubtedly incomparable.

The way of loyalty and forgiveness, the Dharma of Kongmen's practice

Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live? The way of loyalty and forgiveness, the Dharma of Kongmen's practice Almost all of us have this kind of person: high school is extremely good, to the university but nothing to do, he is really not interested in the major, and do not know what he really like, so he began to skip classes, play games all night, and finally drop out. Why is this? Our education is too much just pay attention to the development of intelligence, and now some parents are even more so, wish that their children don't do anything, as long as they focus on reading, resulting in some children although the grades are very good, but there is a great lack in moral, moral, personality and other aspects. If Confucius had seen the modern parenting style, his jaw would have dropped. We mentioned earlier that Confucius said, "If you have the power to do, you can learn literature", that is, before learning culture, there is a lot of preparation. What are they? Confucius said, "Disciples, when they enter, they are filial, when they leave, they are fraternical, they are sincere, they love the people, and they love benevolence." If you have the power to do something, you can learn it." You must first learn to honor your parents at home, respect your brothers outside, be prudent and trustworthy, be friendly with everyone extensively, and be close to virtuous people. In this way, I still have the spare power to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry. In the view of Confucius, before learning, we must first repair our moral character and establish a good foundation for being a man. Confucianism stresses the importance of self-cultivation, family governance and world peace, and self-cultivation is a necessary condition for family harmony, state governance and world peace. The core concept of Confucius' theory is benevolence. What is benevolence? Confucius to the most proud disciple Yan Hui explained: to restore the ritual is benevolence. That is to restrain oneself, so that words and deeds can meet the requirements of etiquette, which is benevolence. He also detailed the specific practices, "do not see, do not hear, do not speak, do not move," that is, do not see, do not listen, do not say, do not do things that do not conform to the rules. Confucius also gave a relatively low understanding of the student Fan Chi explained what is benevolence, the answer is very simple, benevolence love. So how do we do that? "Be respectful at home, respectful at deacons, and loyal to others," that is to say, be respectful at home, be careful and prudent in handling affairs, and be faithful and sincere to others. It's still a bit much. Is there a simpler rule? Disciple Zi Gong asked, "Who has a word and can practice it all his life?" Confucius replied, "I forgive you! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Confucius believed that forgiveness is a lifelong principle of self-cultivation. However, it should be noted that the forgiveness here is not forgiveness, but comparing heart to heart, using one's own heart to infer the heart of others, the basic principle is "do not do to others what you do not want", and do not impose what you do not want on others. As the saying goes, "To err is human." How to deal with mistakes is the key to self-improvement. Confucius warned his disciples to "see the wise and think alike, see the bad and introspection also", see the wise, they should want to look up to him; If you see a person who is not virtuous, you should reflect on yourself. But there are not many people who can really do it, so Confucius said with emotion, "It is almost done, I have not seen anyone who can see their own mistakes and blame themselves from the heart." Disciple Zeng Zi was very touched by the teacher's words, and he should do "three times a day I examine my body" and reflect on it many times a day. Confucius himself was very good at self-reflection and corrected his mistakes. Someone once asked Confucius, Did Duke Zhao of Lu know the rites? Confucius, taking into account the status and position of Duke Zhao of Lu, replied that he knew the rites. People later said to his disciples: A gentleman should not be partial to others. Duke Zhao of Lu violated the etiquette of "no marriage with the same surname" and married a Wu woman with the same surname Ji, and called her "Wu Mengzi" in order to hide her ugliness. If he knows etiquette, who doesn't? The disciple told this to Confucius, and Confucius did not get angry because he had made a fool of himself in front of his disciples, but said very sincerely: "Qiu is lucky, if there is a mistake, people will know about it." It can be seen that Confucius values self-cultivation very much. However, cultivation is important, work is more important. It is not enough to be a moral gentleman, a gentleman must also learn to make a living. So, how did Sage Kong live?

Third, the struggle: Equality and capital

For the communicator, social relations seem to be nothing more than a free, optional and changeable interpersonal interaction, so that the "reality" as it is understood is nothing more than a collection of external phenomena and information perceived by the individual. In this sense, the "blending of virtuality and reality" is nothing more than the "similarity" of fleeting appearances and their replicas, neither of which is the real reality. On the contrary, Marxist social relations are reality itself. To criticize this aspect is to grasp the essence of the meta-universe to a large extent. There are two approaches to such criticism: one is to actively maintain the meta-universe and the powerful productive forces it represents, and to be vigilant and transform the hierarchical relationships in it; The other is to completely return to the technical level and production relations of the metauniverse, to return to Marx's critique of capital, to reveal that the essence of the metauniverse is nothing but the condensation of capital under the production of new technologies. For the former approach, some scholars have used Marx's "phantom metaphor" and pointed out quite perceptively that the real effect of the "meta-cosmic structure" is that "the relations between people acquire the nature of a virtual body, and thus acquire a 'ghostly object', which masks its basic essence with its strict, seemingly perfect and reasonable autonomy." That is, all traces of the relationship between people ", "the meta-universe is not a romantic illusion that has got rid of the real social relations", it is precisely based on the "real social relations", is "a new landscape, a reshaping of social relations presented under virtual and digital technology". Such social relations are, of course, hierarchical and involve material interests, for which the meta-universe becomes a disguised instrument. However, in his view, we do not have to "destroy the technological foundations of the meta-universe," but to explore "how to use the space of the meta-universe to shape shared and equal social relations." In this regard, removing the centralization of the media platform itself seems to be one of the measures to equalize the meta-universe. This vision of equality is also positively and critically conceived in the latest work of F. Richard Yu: "Like our real-world universe, the meta-universe has developed special socio-economic structures in an orderly manner." It enables the rapid flow of matter, energy, information, and intelligence, effectively reducing the imbalance of matter, energy, information, and intelligence, thereby promoting the stability of the meta-universe and the real-world universe." He argued that metaverse evolution follows the laws of the real universe (such as Maslow's hierarchy of needs), but is faster and creates elements that are not present in the real world. Obviously, for the "equality" that is difficult to achieve in the real universe, we can only hope that the meta-universe, although it is still unequal at present (because it must conform to the laws of the real world first). Compared with the relatively moderate position above, the representative of the latter approach seems to be more austere. In this view, since the development of technology and intelligence is nothing more than "the infinite desire of capital for surplus value", then the sudden emergence of the meta-universe assumption is actually "another wonderful exercise of capital and technology collusion", "but the internal need of financial capital to explore new investment growth points for itself"; Since the meta-universe relies on the "technological base", it must be "a manifestation of technological radicalization promoted by the logic of capital in the big industrial age", in the world of the meta-universe, "people will have to live more and more dependent on the development of network technology", "financial capital will be more and more dependent on the sale of new concepts to sustain its life". When the shelter is removed and the capital is exposed, the relationship between "virtual" and "real" is not the same/different and continuation/rupture in the ideal sense. Whether virtual and reality are parallel or integrated, they are either fierce struggle, or hidden. The metaverse can be a revolutionary opportunity to overturn inequality, but won't it also be a substitute for illusory compensation? In the sense of the above phantom metaphor, will the meta-universe also become an Althusserian picture of an "ideological machine," another kind of spiritual opium? This illusion itself has led many scholars to overlook the capital game at play. The meta-universe is only a new battlefield (or "mental battlefield") of real struggle and compromise. Thus, another meta-problem arises, or an ancient conundrum: how to conceive of a space that is both intrinsically combative and harmonious? Iv. Ontology and the Anthropocene For the previous meta problem, we can also ask, how can we conceive of a more "original" meta

I graduated 4 years ago, changed 4 jobs, 2 months of hard work to achieve a magnificent identity turn

After graduation and working for four years, I realized a magnificent turn of identity within a month and finally became a university teacher. Like many graduates, when I first graduated, I had no worries and wanted to go out and earn more money. As a result, I have changed four jobs in four years, and my salary has also changed from 4,000 to 6,000 to 10,000 before, and then to 6,000 now. In general, although I can't earn as much as my classmates in first-tier cities in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, I can cope with my daily expenses, and I can also have 25w more and a lot of savings. But as the girlfriend became a wife, and her job became stable in the local area. In addition, there is a wife, a house is the place is home, do not want to live most of the time is divided between two places, only through the year through vacation or leave to be together. Therefore, in June this year, I decisively gave up the opportunity of high salary outside and chose a job in the same city with my wife. Although in the same city, but the home and work are not close to each other, it takes an hour or two to travel back and forth, my wife is still on the Internet to help me pay attention to the right opportunities. Just in August, my wife saw a university recruitment career management teacher announcement, and this university is only a road away from our community. When I saw this announcement, I was also moved, because my ideal life is to walk home within ten minutes after work! In order to successfully enter the school work, you must go through a written test and a structured interview. As a result, I began to actively prepare for the preliminary exam, that is, the written test, as required. Because the written test does not specify the textbook, I can only according to what they say on the Internet to search for textbooks to buy review. Because I am reviewing while working, compared with those fresh graduates who are very tight on time, I squeeze time to read it after work, and I record what I have learned and need to remember into audio, and listen to it repeatedly on the way to work every day by riding a tram, and finally I can tell almost every important knowledge point. However, sometimes fate is always joking with you, in the review of more than half a month, into the examination room, when the paper was issued down when I knew that the original review content and the knowledge to be tested is very different, with their own accumulation I am serious really done, until the last moment to hand in the paper, feel that this will be finished, the content of the review did not test, see the knowledge is white. I didn't expect to make it to the interview (nearly 300 people took the initial audition, and only 30 more made it), so I was ready to continue my good work. I was afraid to go to the school bulletin, afraid of not seeing my name, afraid of being disappointed, afraid of being hit. On the third day after the exam, I was in the workshop to follow up the production progress, suddenly heard the wechat ring, open a look, is the wife sent a message. It turned out that I entered the second interview, although it was the identity of the last risk, but at least there is a chance to participate in the second interview. The good thing is, I was only four points away from the first place. Now that God has given me another chance, I must seize it all the more. The second interview is divided into two parts: lecture + answer questions. Because I had not been on the platform before and had no experience, I thought about it a little bit, first I thoroughly understood what I wanted to talk about, and then tried to talk about it again and again. However, I had no idea of the effect of the trial, so I asked my wife and her aunt and uncle to watch it and give comments; In addition, I made a video of my trial lecture and sent it to my sister in other places, because she is a teacher, and asked her to give some remote guidance. In this way, I practiced over and over again, from the beginning of the speech stutter, physical tension to the end of the natural speech, the performance of the natural, and able to communicate with the "unreal student" naturally. I feel very satisfied with the final result, so I am very confident. On the day of the second interview, I saw that many people were holding lesson plans, and the school also required handwritten lesson plans, which needed to be handed in at the end. Although I have written it, I am not going to take it during the lecture because all the knowledge I need for the whole class is in my head. The trial process was good on the whole, but there were two aspects I was not satisfied with: the content was not finished in the prescribed time; I made a mistake in the process of writing on the board. Knowledge "gain" has a delay, and it will really bring you unexpected happiness at some point, so don't think that some things I have learned in vain, and I have not used them at all, and maybe one day these so-called unused knowledge has become something that changes your fate. The final results came out, I took the test 90.69, and at that time the first test of our professional (when we signed up, he forgot to copy information, I rode a trolley with him to copy, so we met). With only 80 points, it looks like all I have to do is beat second place. After the interview, the announcement was made the next afternoon, and I was the only teacher hired in my major. Therefore, you must not give up until the end, even if you may not be satisfactory at the beginning for some reason, but you have to do your best to do the best in the back, then you may become a counter-attacker. Next is the normal political review, physical examination, training process… I will also change from a wage earner to an educator. I believe that this job should not only be a job, but also my lifelong career. I also believe that my family life is in the future!

Answer: Because the soul and the body do not match

It is reflected in several aspects: 1, influenced by various literature, film and television works, people with a little level think of themselves very high, and feel that their soul is still interesting, so the soft requirements for the other side are relatively high. 2, but in a society with a hierarchical system of resources, in fact, the combination is more to look at the resources behind, so in the end, it is necessary to look at the background, look at the origin, look at the conditions, so those who say interesting souls in the mouth, when introducing themselves is these copper smelly goods, they will compare their prices.For example, "excellent", as if it is very aspirant and pursued, is actually a ranking under some standard, suggesting some kind of pride in this bovine force and other slag. A child once used excellent to a foreigner was scolded by me, what qualifications do you have to evaluate each other excellent, you are not his mentor, you can only say amazing, interesting and other equal subjective opinions. So on, the so-called spiritual label, seemingly unique pride, is actually the inferiority of hierarchical thinking. 3, so the final combination is actually mostly people who meet the material conditions, and the proportion of spiritual satisfaction is very small. If you do not realize that you are actually a material person, the other person's spirit is not satisfied, the soul is not interesting enough, and you can not accept it for a while, then leave. Or spiritual fit, and the material conditions can not meet the so-called spiritual pursuit, or can not bear, leave. Therefore, often those who do not regard themselves as high and the spiritual pursuit is not high can live on. 4, and then the successful lesson of these people who live a "happy" life is, don't think too much, don't ask too much, just about. Finally, people who "sublimate" in advance of the spirit are not willing to hang on the wall haha. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but this is not something to be proud of, whether you are a man or a woman, material or detached, under a certain level, just labor dividends, is a reproductive donkey, is the fuel of economic development, this is a matter that needs to fight together, rather than complacent victory. So, in the first place, there was no need to communicate.

Late night a little regret and feel worth it

Because I stayed up late last night, my eyebrows shook quickly to my forehead this morning, and because I got up late, I didn't have time to correct it, and I drew the same on the other side, no matter how big the matter is, I still need to pay attention to symmetry and beauty. Last night inadvertently brushed the "lurking" fragment, evoked the memory of the past. That was 14 or 15 years ago, when Yan Ni and Yao Chen were more popular because of My Own Swordsman, which happened to be led by Yao Chen. As for how they started watching the series at that time, the only thing we can be sure of now is that it was not at least because of the appearance level of the male lead (haha). In addition to the cruelty of war, there is also more hope and faith, and it also explains that people with common beliefs can love each other regardless of knowledge, the premise is to get along. Yu Zecheng in the play is a collection of wisdom, courage, courage, kindness, erudite equal to one, in line with all my standards for the soul, and must only appear in the script of the ideal man. And Cui Ping is the representative of ordinary working women, brave and upright, hard work, dare to love and hate, she does not know a big word, think what to say what, there is more than teach her how to fall in love, she can only think of the moon in the corn field, she will not use romantic words to describe the inner feelings, but can very accurately express their own mind, action can prove everything. And one of the things that she does have a lot of charm about is her confidence when she shoots. Later, when they were separated, a sacrifice made by many in those days, she did not cry. So love is not like what is written, it is a kind of inner embrace and watch. Because I stayed up too long, I was groggy today, a little regretful, but I felt it was worth it.

To a confused young friend

Writing this article is a bit of a cliche, but I think it should be written. The reason is that a small fellow of mine, I went to college that year, he was born, the generation is also younger than me, today wechat chat with me a few words, said that I want to talk with me all night long, very earnest, has been looking at me as a role model, which makes me very ashamed, but as his elder, I also want to talk with him. He said he was confused and had no direction and didn't know what to do. I talked with him for a few words, and later told him that I would write an article, not only him, but also my children: nephews, nephews, sons and children of relatives and friends can see that it is not good to walk during the epidemic, and if you can listen to it, you may be able to take less detours, if you can do so, it is best. I talked to him about the solidification of class and the inheritance of genes, which is also reasonable. The environment of growth is different, people have family design growth routes and life planning. As a child from the countryside, there is no planning, but there are still some feelings. The rural origin is a kind of wealth for me, and I have a strong ability to fight against the fight when I grow up, but it may also be a hindering to some extent - the innate lack of vision and height. Because of my rural background, I cultivated a simple character, but I was also very late in my education. At that time, the only thing I did when I went to school was to fight hogweed and play with a group of children. I spent a carefree childhood, without desire or desire, without worry or fear, without fear or constraint. The family does not expect you to be able to test out, my childhood ideal is to be a worker, because the parents' vision and the surrounding environment is so, when a worker is very fascinating! Cousin was admitted to the secondary school, became the glory of the village, relatives and friends one by one please eat, because this account will be transferred out. I often say that I can read a doctor, completely by mistake, never thought about it, never tree ambition, as a model to encourage later learning is very far-fetched, because there is no concept, no one at home to guide, but no one will give you a plan for life, the highest education is my old lady, junior high school graduation, she saw me at that time to read a doctor is very difficult, while working at school, Also told me that we can't do it, don't read crazy, she was afraid that I could not bear the pressure crazy. Now many farmers go to work in the city, even buy a house in the city, marry a wife and children, but the circle of life is still these people, contact with these farmers, the hoe was originally placed in the yard, now it is carried to the upstairs, the vision and realm is difficult to have a big improvement, affect the next generation, it is difficult to have a big breakthrough, because I am also a farmer, so it may also be on the cap. But there's nothing wrong with what I said. One of my old leaders, in his early thirties to the department level, once told me that the height of people's thinking is not enough experience and experience is difficult to have a big promotion, by reading thinking is not useless, but will not be of great use, I think it is very reasonable. When I was in college, children from the countryside wanted to go to the city after graduation, children from the city wanted to go to the big city after graduation, children from the big city wanted to go to the provincial capital, children from the provincial capital wanted to go to Beijing, and children from Beijing wanted to go abroad. Another example is dreaming, you never dream of things you have not seen, the ideal is the same, jump to reach more realistic. Having said all this, what I want to express is the importance of enlightenment. I graduated from college into the factory, and then laid off, and then a series of postgraduate entrance examination, employment, resignation, doctoral examination, employment, resignation, employment, temporary post, resignation, employment, enterprises have done, career has done, private enterprises have done, central enterprises have done, every step is almost not premeditated, basically because of helplessness by the progress of the majority. Imagine, I graduated from the undergraduate into the factory did not lay off, the unit barely maintained 20 years did not close down, up to now the probability that I may be just a laid-off worker! Running around for a living! Because of these experiences, there may also be more communication with the younger generation, how to take detours. What I say is not necessarily true, it varies from person to person, from time to time, from event to event, from place to place. First of all, it's hard to be lonely. School is a hard job, the first time I entered the university campus, full of excitement, after a period of time full of anger, several times in and out, and now back to the university campus, full of envy, mentality has changed. Young people, take this time to read as much as possible, miscellaneous books, professional books can be, as long as you want to read, but don't play games. When I was a child, there was no book to read at home, the university had a book and time did not cherish, read a lot of miscellaneous books: Chinese medicine, painting, Go to see a lot, later also useful, we did not have a computer network mobile phone, TV every Friday and six nights to open, usually do not have to see, now looking back on it is just good, our generation is very solid basic skills, because you in addition to reading is not too good place, even we did not get a diploma, now are technical authorities, That's the foundation, plus the hard work after graduation. Now science and technology is developed, especially the application of computers, which is also not good, the good is very efficient, commercial software calculation is very convenient, you do not need to understand the meaning of the equations can also calculate the number! The bad thing is that the concept is generally not clear, the sci article written a bunch of formulas, they do not understand, it is just a form, because the real calculation is handed over to commercial software! At that time, we had to program our own calculations, test several levels of partial differential equations, and answer the physical meaning of each item, and now it is difficult for young people to answer it, and what I want to say is the importance of basic skills, and the basis for analogy is this. Reading to go to school as far as possible on the head, read a doctor, postdoctoral, don't ask me why, as long as I believe that I will not harm you on it, because I go to school off and on, eat very thanks. In the system, to develop, age is also a barrier, this is not to say more, you really can survive the future will be grateful to me. What is the purpose of reading? I don't know! Everyone is different, but I want to at least learn to distinguish ability, analytical ability, which requires a professional but also to learn logic, whether it is liberal arts or science, to understand logic, do not understand logic is unclear, easy to believe, as for technical skills are relatively studious, college graduation time is in the early 1980s, when there are warlocks said can change water into oil, I said nonsense, Hydrogen and oxygen are burned to produce water, the hydroelectricity process hydrogen and oxygen, it takes a huge amount of energy to open the hydrogen and oxygen bond, water can burn, produce what? Where does the energy to break the hydrogen - oxygen bond come from? This is the basic logic, reasonable is reasonable, reasonable is legal, most of them. To set up long-term and near-term goals, this is not imaginary, only come to realize that you will be in the future. For example, if you choose the North Star at night, you will not lose your way, if you want to choose a very close light, walk may be confused, but you can not always overreach, recent goals must also have - find yourself, casually, as long as it can help you, such as writing an article, watching a movie with friends, you can, because the recent goals continue to produce a sense of accomplishment, which is also needed. This society is cruel! This is what you must realize, you only have the value of being used, you will be valuable, that is, you have to be useful! No one will pity you, no one will actively consider your interests! Unless you're valuable. Don't always think about the leader, one stage you are the leader of the person - because this time he needs you; Another stage may not be - his needs change! The world's martial arts only fast not broken, the world's talent is only capable, in any unit do not be dispensable people, dispensable the final result is nothing! And, very important, how to deal with the tasks sent by the leader at work! A task, which no one has done before, is given to you, and you will choose between two emotions, for sure! The first is resentment, who will not do, let me do, leadership is really not something, see my black eyes, so you will certainly do well, and will not grow. The other is to seize the opportunity, who will not do, the leader gave me, is an opportunity, it is equivalent to the unit to open your salary to let you learn things, do well, you master the technology that others will not, you won the opportunity, even if you did not do well, you also learn things, salary bonus did not affect - mentality is very important! Write here is already midnight, scattered, later think of in finishing it, hope to be useful to young people, do not want to rely on the old - because I have not been old, just like encouraging you to study hard, I am like this!

Be a reader of idle books

Since childhood, many people have asked me questions about "reading" on various occasions, which can be summarized as follows:What kind of books do you like to read?You read so many books, what's the use?You read so many books, can you remember?However, a scene that impressed me deeply was that I went to interview the legal affairs of an airline company when I graduated from graduate school. During the on-site structured interview, one of the leaders read my resume and asked, "Look at your resume and you like reading books, what books have you been reading recently?"I replied, "The Right Bank of the Erguna River by Chi Zijian."And then, there was no then…I think it is probably because this book is too small for them, there is no control of people, there is no management, and there is no promotion and wealth…When there are many roads, we get lost because we don't know where to go."However, I think there is a kind of utilitarian orientation behind these problems, that is, reading is to obtain certain "benefits" that are best materialized and measurable, and to achieve "usefulness".Indeed, reading has many benefits, as the old saying goes :" In the book there is a golden house, in the book there is a jade." Both ancient and modern people know that reading is of great benefit. In a nutshell, it allows people to acquire all kinds of knowledge that make our lives better, to see things without leaving the house, and to become a happier person. Especially if you read a novel, after reading a book, you will seem to follow the protagonist through his life, which is not very wonderful life experience.However, if something becomes utilitarian, task and force to get positive benefits from it, then things will change qualitatively in the "bad direction", and you will feel boring, limited and greatly burdened.I still remember when I read the Harry Potter series in the fourth grade of primary school, I could read one book a day without eating or sleeping. My mother shouted that I would not eat, so that she angrily gave an ultimatum: if I do not go to eat, I will burn my book. Only then did I close the book sulkily.But since then I have thoroughly liked reading, here I want to thank my elder sister, she was in college, every summer vacation and winter vacation, will bring me a variety of books. From this experience, it shouldn't be hard to get a child to love reading, the key is to find a suitable set of books for entry level, hahaha. After I went to middle school and high school, every summer vacation and winter vacation, I would pour out a bag of books at home, and then choose what I want to see, such as Gone with the Wind, I read it many times, so that I think my personality is a little like the heroine; For example, "Sophie's World", every time I watch it, I wonder if one day my world will appear a mysterious person who writes to me or a magical rabbit; And "Harry Potter" series, in fact, I don't like the halo of the protagonist Harry Potter, I like the elf Dobby…After I went to college, I was more free, I could read hundreds of books every year, and slowly formed my own reading style and preferences.Wait for work, ahem… My reading state will return to the stage of pre-school-age children. I want to read, but I can't settle down. It's not that I don't have time, but I just can't settle down. ?Duan said that reading should return to the original heart, relaxed and enjoyable.I deeply believe that the most natural state of life is to go along with it, don't force yourself to do anything, don't work against yourself, otherwise the life is too twisted. For a long time, I lived to challenge myself, like to run half a horse. Then because the amount of exercise is too big, headache for a week, the old doctor of the school hospital said: Are you in the physical education department? Did your parents send you here so you could run? Do you see athletes living a long life? Look at that turtle. Do you know Nan Huaijin? I thought, Grandpa know so much, see a disease even turtle ah, Nan Huaijin old man ah are pulled on. But no nonsense, since then I have figured out: people do not challenge themselves, do not work against themselves, to take care of their bodies.Similarly, reading is the same, the recent period of time do not want to see, there is always want to see time; Which book can make you feel happy at this stage, then read it, there is no need to read the "book" in the eyes of successful people, as long as it is happy to read, whether it is a novel or popular science or children's picture books or management books, you can read it; On the contrary, now many best-selling covers will write XX star recommendations, sales XX million copies, but really not suitable for you.Anyway, don't follow the crowd in anything.For example, before going to college, I really liked to watch the world novel classics, those famous I have read many, the four classics have also read. But after going to college, it seems that my "novel nerve" was completely closed, and I could not read it anyway, so I turned to philosophy, economics and prose. After work, I like to read some more esoteric and obscure books, such as management, research on human thinking patterns, behavior patterns and so on.In general, it seems to be a stage of development from the outside to the inside.Read different books at different stages of life.In short, if you want to avoid hating reading, you have to follow your own taste; If you want to like reading, you have to read non-professional, non-work related, so that you can not burden, aimless easy reading.But in the end, there will also be unexpected blessings, such as being able to sit and lie down during the epidemic…

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