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Do you think a double A-list grad student and an average junior high student will have a happy marriage?

Don't talk about specific people, just the marriage. It will be. One is devoted to scientific research, the other is devoted to logistics at home. High education does not mean a good character fish, shrimp, shrimp, eight turtle relatives. It's not like a family doesn't go into the same house. I have seen similar marriages, can only say from the human couple. How can it be, don't be naive? Marriage depends on the combination of the human soul and the communication between the heart and the heart. For example, do you guarantee that the perspective of graduate students will be consistent with the perspective of junior high school students? Or the other way around are Lu Xun and Zhu An happy? People with different views are difficult to get along with. There is a big difference between a graduate student and a junior high school student. The key to a happy marriage is emotional stability is not the academic degree this is very reasonable, there is such a pair around, female junior high school graduates can earn money and long white, male graduate students graduate from a university as a teacher, because the male is relatively idle so have time to educate the child very well, excellent student level of the Chinese Academy of Sciences many academicians' wife, very ordinary, Education is not high can not say that education is only one aspect of knowledge, values, pattern will affect it. Yang Chaoyue is also very difficult to graduate from junior high school, women look good, inner empty, a long time is also very boring shoes are not suitable only feet know for themselves is good I know a pair, male doctor, female junior high school mixed society. Do not know how they are mixed together, only know that after marriage, the woman to the child as a threat, all kinds of work, the man's family is holding the death. It's about a man and a woman, so much for a high degree in other things, maybe even lower EQ

[Recreation] Have mosquitoes evolved?

There was no such mosquito before, why do you feel so much now? ↓ In recent years, there are so many, I do not know what is going on ↓¤Asian tiger mosquito ↓¤This mosquito bites people badly. It's very toxic. ↓ Before the brown and black mosquitoes did not have this poison, and now this flower mosquito touches the bag, and it is very itchy ↓¤…… ↓¤It has been around for years, but this last year has been particularly many. ↓¤This mountain, high grass, forest inside more ↓¤Ha ha it seems not only I here more ↓¤This variety regardless of day and night all year round can be bloodsucking breeding ↓¤I drive in the Kowloon pool toll station will be ding it! ↓¤A few years ago have ah, this is not the flower mosquito? ↓¤Very toxic ↓¤↓¤Spend mosquitoes, this year at most ↓¤Have no sound when flying day and night! Bite for a few months still swollen small pieces from time to time also itch how this poison ↓¤is the evolution of ↓¤exotic species ↓¤Today is everywhere this kind of mosquito, afraid, across the pants to mark people ↓¤always have, once only on the mountain, generally do not live it! Three mines, hot places, now more than Shenzhen, that Shenzhen annual average temperature up, suitable for the survival of mosquitoes miss the old species of mosquitoes ↓ Sponge city of exotic species ↓ I only this year have seen this small flower mosquitoes walking the road can bite up ~ not afraid of people ah ↓ I sit at the gate in the daytime have been stung several times, day and night! ↓¤Two years ago it was only on the western side of the mountains. ↓¤A bag ↓¤Spend mosquitoes exist for many years ah ↓¤Used to be black mosquitoes, now not black mosquitoes. Home is full of mosquitoes, I am afraid this year was stung sixty or seventy needles, quite itchy ↓¤Touch is a bag ↓¤Fortunately did not meet, send a package without discussion! ↓ If it falls on the skin, you can pick up a bag ↓¤Our office is this kind of mosquito. Every day after work point mosquito incense ↓ This mosquito will chase people bite, after being bitten as long as not to catch, after an hour or two does not itch, if the catch may take a long time to good, more and more itching ↓ new ↓¤¤,,,,↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓¤¤¤¤This mosquito once you look at you on your side, you do not shoot it, it will suck before going ↓¤Evolution. No seasons, no calls, the sting is fast and ruthless. My wife got A type A bite that won't heal for months. It's toxic! ↓¤Spend mosquitoes, this year is particularly much ↓¤This mosquito 24-hour business, chasing people bite, walking will bite, just fell on the body has not been killed, feel it the kind of powder will be allergic ↓¤To pay attention to it, this flower mosquito may be dengue virus carrying ↓¤dengue ah, colleagues around a hospital, All the work falls on me. I'm tired. ↓¤Invasive species ↓¤Our company is a lot of ↓¤cool antibacterial oil effect is better ↓¤↓ ↓¤¤There are too many of them have been bitten itch is very toxic ↓¤Dengue fever mainly rely on it to spread ↓¤Japanese mosquitoes, polluted, can fly over the sea ↓¤Before the gray mosquitoes are more silly fly to stop can fight, Now the upgrade of the thief smart will hide the black place corner walk also do not fly away so blood sucking was found to fly when the spiral fly ↓¤Spend mosquitoes, we are here the most, especially in the gutter next to the small black insects are particularly many, there was no such mosquito, now why feel so much is so strong ↓¤In these years, especially many, Do not know what is going on ↓¤Asian tiger mosquito ↓¤This mosquito bites people badly. It's very toxic. ↓ Before the brown and black mosquitoes did not have this poison, and now this flower mosquito touches the bag, and it is very itchy ↓¤…… ↓¤It has been around for years, but this last year has been particularly many. ↓¤This mountain, high grass, forest inside more ↓¤Ha ha it seems not only I here more ↓¤This variety regardless of day and night all year round can be bloodsucking breeding ↓¤I drive in the Kowloon pool toll station will be ding it! ↓¤A few years ago have ah, this is not the flower mosquito? ↓¤Very toxic ↓¤↓¤Spend mosquitoes, this year at most ↓¤Have no sound when flying day and night! Bite for a few months still swollen small pieces from time to time also itch how this poison ↓¤is the evolution of ↓¤exotic species ↓¤Today is everywhere this kind of mosquito, afraid, across the pants to mark people ↓¤always have, once only on the mountain, generally do not live it! There are more three mines, more hot places, and now there are more in Shenzhen, indicating that the annual average temperature in Shenzhen is higher, which is suitable for flower mosquitoes to survive

Gao Hong Kong Government Offices Authority, the end of the year is coming again, please give the remaining money as early as possible according to the contract!

Gao Hong Kong Government Offices Authority, the end of the year is coming again, please pay the remaining money as early as possible according to the contract! Subject matter: District Gaogang Technical Room decoration Project Location: Gaogang District Completion Time: 2019.4.20 Settlement time: 2020.11.7 Payment method: 4:3:3 Contract balance payment time: 2021.4.20 It is supposed to pay the balance of 2021.4.20, but a year after a year, this project is still not made! What a rush to ruin the construction unit! In the course of several consultations with the leaders of the Bureau, the reply was that there was no financial provision, so we should go through the legal process directly. Do not know whether the delay of payment of project funds is illegal and disciplinary? Or is he praised for saving the country money? It's the Spring Festival again, and it's a pass! Enterprise unpaid wages is illegal, enterprise owes materials to be sued, enterprise owes taxes to be pursued, enterprise wants money to be civilized, enterprise litigation and offend! Aych! Business is too hard! Hopefully next year the company will be alive to ask for the project money? … It's hard to get money without some blood. You have to be honest. … Government agencies should take the lead in honesty and law-abiding, if so, it will affect the credibility of the government! … By "legal process," you mean a lawsuit… I have also done some small work, the project money is really difficult to obtain, only 40% after the completion of the project, and then the payment is delayed again and again, and the Government is also playing a lazy game. You also know that the New Year is coming, but the result is that you do not know how to do things. What do you let other people's leaders say about you? ! … The hotel is open today, but it's running a little late… The year is over, the shift is over, it's time to deal with things… There should be less financial pressure this year, and some expenses do not need to be paid.

[Brainstorming] We discuss, similar to the lake Yue Tianjing, the property fee price is high and the quality is poor, in Taizhou to buy second-hand housing need to avoid the pit of the community which several

Reminder: In the case of declining income, buy second-hand housing to pay special attention to the height of the annual property costs and the quality of the house. To avoid the pothole property company, to avoid the general property quality of the community, we discuss, in addition to the lake Yuetian outside, how many Tiankeng community? Lake Yue Tianjing community before buying boast 5 star service, property charges a word, expensive! The cost of housing is high and the quality of service is low. More than one hundred square meters, two years to about 10,000 yuan of property fees (including parking management fees and expensive public energy allocation), not only did not see someone door to collect garbage, Guanlan someone threw in the downstairs garbage bin was actually thrown back to the ten floors of the upstairs by the property company, surprised, out of anger! The public greening of the new community has been divided, each snatching its own grassland site, and the services are not up to five-star standards. The large electronic billboard in the community uses the owner's public share of electricity to do intermediary advertising, right? The fountain has no water to spray, the swimming pool has no water to swim, and this rainy day there is water everywhere. Seriously, I'm not even gonna get a 2-star placement. The door guard is a retiree. Do I protect him or does he protect me? The latex paint on the staircase walls is peeling, and the quality of the community is completely disproportionate to the high property charge ratio. Worst of all, the service is really bad, posing first! As a superficial article, the housekeeper often punched the card in the circle of friends! Propaganda has become the usual way to deceive people. This kind of community, the Wolf in sheep's clothing, the most terrible. While bragging about how good they are, while oppressing the owner of the house that bought it, you did not buy before it was a face, you bought its house, it is another face, its face changed quickly. It is recommended that you must polish your eyes before buying a second-hand house, you not only buy a property of general quality, but also buy a property service that can not be replaced, and the community with high property fees and low service can not be touched. There are a few Tiankeng property, lake Yue Tianjing number first? Brainstorm, we come to ridicule the high fees in Shanghai, poor service, low cost of property service companies there are a few? … For me, no illegal property is a good property! … Set up a owners' committee, fire them… Lake Yue Tianjing community inside the illegal buildings are also a lot, as long as the illegal construction does not affect others, the general people will not report… I can bear everything else, the most intolerable is the violation of the rules! … If the property company continues in this way, it will suffer losses sooner or later on the issue of collecting property fees. No payment… It's true that Country Garden's property management is very responsible. … I feel that I am right, from this person's point of view, you can see the real problem of Country Garden, which is the typical thinking of the melon eaters who are deceived by Country Garden's propaganda. … And the problem of Country Garden is that before you buy it is a face, after buying it is another face, when facing you is a face, behind the pit, it is another face, you bought the Country Garden house, you will be subject to its gas, this is the outside people can not understand, so the sea has such an idea is not strange. What you see is appearances. It's propaganda. This property has poor service, high fees, deceptive… Orange memory did not see this post… The industry committee was set up and the property chain, the owner is more trouble, after the establishment of the second phase of the industry committee did a big thing, cancel the original ground parking space in the community (free) so that the car is all parked underground garage (pay rent and management fees) to create wealth for the property company, change the so-called people and cars distribution, the original design is not people and cars distribution. What will be the result of checking whether the EIC has accepted any benefits from the property? … @Orange Memory… Country Garden property fee is not too expensive, the north property is very good, the south has not lived, do not comment… It's all broken… The beautiful name gives you a good property is actually put you clean… He's never lived in a Country Garden Estate. What the hell does he know… It's true that bragging about yourself is generally purposeful. Wouldn't it be nice to split people and cars? Now the new residential areas are all the main people and cars, compared to indiscriminate parking, people and cars are not fragrant? It doesn't make sense to spray it with this. … Country Garden will also use this owner's tone to create a false "word of mouth". The infamous Country Garden is known for its clever tricks. … People and vehicles shunt well, it brings high property costs, so much money to the property every year, all work for the property, or like the kind of low property costs of the community. … To find a reason to collect more money, to find a reason to collect money for you, some properties are directly flagrant electricity theft. … Shanghai property can only look good… You this matter, I say a few words, I guess you are not happy, after all, it involves your interests! 1. Free parking on public roads is unfair to owners without cars; 2, cancel the road public parking space, all into the underground garage. Objectively improve the environment of the community, of course, is beneficial to developers and properties! … When it comes to property, China Resources property is good. There are some drawbacks, but overall it's good. The last time we set up a trade committee, the owners were not active. … Owners do not actively participate in the establishment of the property committee, indicating that we do not feel the existence of property services, indicating that the property is silent and the service is in place. If everyone wants to set up a property committee, the property is too rubbish… From the beginning of the capital verification of the house, it has the illusion of buying a noble community, and the underground garage of the resettlement house does not have so much water! Lake Yue ground is too slippery, five star charge, a few star service? … Lake Yue Tianjing, a property company made into a resistance to the community, the community originally had a lot of free direct drinking water, and now the direct drinking water device downstairs is gone, the direct water was dismantled! South of the Country Garden property is very expensive, Lake Yue multi-storey 2 more than a square, even if a day is not living 2 more than a flat… Rob the money… Country Garden property knife is too fast, superimposed per square property fee of more than 2 pieces, equal to pay a rent every year, live in Country Garden Lake Yue Tianjing, about equal to rent in the urban old community… Every month, there are public electricity and water charges, and these costs seem to be how much the property itself is how much, it is said that the owner is shared, but who knows whether they that account is right. … And from what I've seen on TV, cancers like Wallwishers may have corrupted other units. Like using public power to intimidate disobedient property owners. … This cancer, it feels like it will be uprooted one day. So whoever was involved, consciously or not, was involved. Don't have a good time driving now. … Country Garden is out of money… These people are all working together… Community property committees all have the same interests… Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, it is that capital exploits you, buying a house pits your hard-earned money, property earns your living expenses for a lifetime) and I am the fish. Country Garden is closing down, what can he ask for? Overcome it… Country Garden's biggest pit, is the property, bought a house also long-term rent, north of how many country garden villa auction check is owed 80,000, there is a debt of more than 100,000… Property on both sides of the money, facade room electricity and street lighting fees are a fool's account… The property tax is not as good as renting, but also save the principal and eat interest… Is not the industry committee can re-select the property, Country Garden is the proud son of heaven alone… Country Garden property fee, I have not paid, learn from others, completely put rotten want to go to Hengdian World Studios to play, have been to the Baozi? To gain experience, it is best to see the actors who are filming, such as Ren Jialun… Search the Internet… Summer vacation. It was okay. Nice. It's big. Can't play all day… Hengdian has more than a dozen scenic spots composed of wechat small program medical insurance how not to pay… Good to pay for it. What's your tip? … No information yet… I have trouble with… I asked the health insurance bureau, said you can't pay in advance, only the current month's… It's just not good this month… 12345 said to check in a few days. System issues… You can check to see if it's all paid. In addition, it seems that it is not possible to pay in advance recently.

Exploring the culture deep in my memory: walking into Chaoshan villages

"A star at the zenith opens a study underground." -- "Good Praise Guangdong" online work collection competition "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity" kicked off with a Chaoshan folk song, focusing on various traditional cultural customs during the New Year in Chaoshan, the creator Chen Qiang visited various parts of Chaoshan, the shooting lasted nearly two months. Ying song and dance, "Ying Master", Chaozhou opera, burning fire dragon, jumping fire, fireworks… Fireworks, colorful dazzling, Chen Qiang in the picture many times clever use of night and fireworks light and shade contrast, to create a harmonious romantic atmosphere, there is Xin Qiji's "east wind night flowers thousands of trees." More blow down, stars like rain "" Feng Xiao sound moving, jade pot light turn, night fish dragon dance" scene. The music combines the music of the Chaoshan opera, with the smart camera switch and the moving mirror, and the rhythm is full, showing the vitality of the New Year and the youth of the Chaoshan traditional culture in the new era. "Nowadays, more and more young people are interested in local culture and traditional folk customs." Chen Qiang said that through the short video new media platform, as long as the content is interesting and meets the tastes of young people, netizens at home and abroad are willing to "like" and exchange, which is a great radiation. With an audience, there are correspondingly more creators. In addition, Chen Qiang also has some friends around him, who are not only interested in the shooting of traditional folk customs, but also continue to collect information and practice to spread and promote. The more he came into contact with Chaoshan traditional culture, the stronger Chen Qiang's preference for it, including those traditional cultures he was not willing to contact before. "Chaozhou opera has not received much attention among young people of my generation. Its tone and performance mode are not very attractive to young people." At the beginning of this year, Chen Qiang rushed around the small villages of Chaoshan, into the Chaozhou opera performance stage, the Chaozhou opera's clothing, makeup, front and back of the stage are all recorded in the camera, and he felt how the actors carefully prepared for the play. "Once I got to know them and filmed them, it was fun to sit in the audience and watch them perform." Chen Qiang has never felt this way before. The seats around him were dominated by people in their 50s, with few young people. At this moment, he thought of his parents. "In the past, there was no TV to watch, and everyone gathered in front of the ancestral hall at night, simply pulling up the curtain was a weekly Chaozhou opera screening." In the days before television, they learned about the plot of Journey to the West and some allusions to Chaoshan through Chaoshan dramas." Chaozhou opera, carrying the joy and joy of the young people of that era, has also become a memory that they can not erase. Traditional culture and customs are a treasure buried deep in the memory of everyone. The small changes of folk activities reflect the changes of rural life. For example, the very lively "Ying Master" activity in "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity", as a very representative folk ritual cultural activity in Chaoshan area, has also had a lot of new changes in Chen Qiang's eyes. "In the past, the road for 'Ying master' was very difficult to walk, but now there is a large venue for such events, the road surface is more spacious and the environment is much better." Chen Qiang recalled that in the past, there were more old houses, and weeds and paper scraps everywhere were easy to cause fires. Now the "Ying master" is equipped with better safety measures, such as the fire dragon, which has a relatively perfect fire emergency plan.

When people are old, these three things are best rotten in the belly and do not tell their children

First, it's about the past. "We learn wisdom from adversity, and virtue from pain." This saying tells us that most people will experience hardships or make mistakes in some things in their life, but we should believe that it is these experiences that temper our strong mind and optimistic attitude. When we look back, many things are not worth mentioning, which is also a reflection of wisdom. Therefore, when people are old, there is no need to easily tell their children about the "ugly things" even if they are rotten in the belly. On the one hand, these things are not honorable, if let our children know, it may damage their image of us, and even set a bad example. For example, many older people may have drunk too much alcohol or made ugly mistakes when they were younger, and these things are not worth mentioning. Second, it is about complaining that their children are not promising. "In this world, some people do not necessarily have money to get love; Having money does not necessarily make you happy; Happiness does not necessarily lead to health; Having good health doesn't always work out." Everyone has their own path in life, and we can't help our children forever. When we are old, our children have reached a certain age and understand the truth of life. As parents, we should encourage them instead of complaining about their failure. No matter what happens, we should look at it with optimism, as the saying goes. As long as you and your children are in good health, this is already a great wealth. Finally, there is the distribution of property. "Only those who live in humble circumstances have the best chance to see the truth of society in all its forms." "Humble" here can be understood to mean that when we are in a weak position or do not have much earning power, we are better able to see the reality of people and social conditions around us. As the saying goes, "The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, but the poor have no one to ask in the busy city." Therefore, when people are old, even if the children are dutiful, do not easily disclose the distribution of property. After all, many elderly people need to be taken care of by their children in their later years, and if the distribution of property is disclosed too early, the children may feel that it is unfair, resulting in estrangement, affecting their relationship with each other and not conducive to their later life.

Search for the root causes of nuclear disasters in six landmark nuclear accidents in history

Recently, Chang 'an Street Reading Club and Guangdong People's Publishing House jointly held the "Exploring the Future of Nuclear Energy in the Fukushima Crisis - Atom and Ashes" new book sharing meeting. Professor Zhou Tao, Vice Chairman of the China Nuclear Industry Education Society, Director of the Department of Nuclear Science and Technology of Southeast University, doctoral supervisor, full-time director of China General Nuclear Power Group, adjunct professor of Southern University of Science and Technology and Xiamen University, Professor Yin Xiong, researcher level senior engineer and Doctor, led the book. Two experts in the field of nuclear energy research and nuclear energy industry, through video link, from both academic and industrial aspects, on whether nuclear power plants are safe, why nuclear leakage accidents occur, what impact on our lives, China's nuclear technology development and other issues of common concern to the public, bring authoritative and detailed interpretation. Professor Yin Xiong believes that it is necessary to define the concept first, conventional nuclear power plants discharge nuclear wastewater, is treated and harmless to the environment, and the nuclear sewage discharged by Japan contains a large number of radioactive substances, which will cause great harm to the environment. The two concepts should not be confused, let alone questioned about the safety of nuclear power plants. He believes that the Japanese government has violated the three basic ethics of responsibility, technology and fraternity in this incident, which has had a psychological impact on the people of the Pacific coast region and caused great harm to the global environment and Marine life. The Chinese government is a responsible government. On the one hand, it will continue to exert pressure on the Japanese government, including politically, economically and diplomatically, to urge the Japanese government to comply with the call of the people of the world and stop the discharge of the remaining nuclear sewage. On the other hand, the relevant functional departments and enterprises of the Chinese government will strictly test the water quality, Marine life and seafood in the relevant waters, especially the Marine food that may be placed on the tables of the Chinese people, and will take corresponding measures even if there is a small problem. At the same time, he reminded the general public that buying iodized salt will not help prevent nuclear contamination and damage. Medical iodine tablets in nuclear power plants will only be used in the event of major radioactive material leakage accidents, and there is no need for ordinary people to take them. Regarding the safety of nuclear power plants, Professor Zhou Tao believes that the reason why nuclear power plant accidents are concerned by the public is related to the low risk rate and high risk characteristics of nuclear power itself. In fact, for more than 400 reactors in operation in the world, major nuclear accidents have only been in the single digit for decades, and the probability is not high, and the fatality rate of nuclear accidents is far less than traffic accidents. Or the energy industry other than nuclear power. However, the safety of nuclear power technology itself is sufficiently guaranteed, he took the Three Mile Island nuclear accident in the United States as an example, and the research results after many years showed that the cancer prevalence of local people did not increase after the smoking factor, which can be seen that its safety. The pressurized water reactor used in the Three Mile Island nuclear power plant is completely consistent with the technical route adopted by China. Most of China's current reactors are pressurized water reactors, which are designed with containment vessels and are safe enough to ensure safety. Nuclear safety is an important part of national security and people's security. As a person in the nuclear energy industry, it is still a long way to go to popularize the development of nuclear energy to the public. With public support and people's understanding, nuclear power can move forward better, faster and healthier. Nuclear power governance, nuclear safety governance, is an important part of the modernization, to ensure that nuclear power is foolproof, to eliminate the public because of the nuclear power technology is not familiar with the doubts, and then increase social support for nuclear power recognition, to create a good atmosphere for nuclear power. In the double background of energy crisis and environmental crisis, nuclear energy is a very good alternative energy, but the danger of nuclear radiation is self-evident, as Professor Proloki, the author of the book "Atom and Ashes", said: "When it is safe, nuclear energy is the cleanmost energy in the world; In the event of an accident, nuclear power is the dirtiest energy source in the world." So how do we deal with this contradiction when it comes to developing nuclear energy? How to develop nuclear power more safely? Professor Yin pointed out that nuclear power is comparable to other forms of new energy, including solar and wind, in terms of environmental benefits. As the known energy source with the highest energy density, it is also a low-carbon energy source, which is irreplaceable in strategy. The technology maturity of nuclear power, economy and general safety have been verified in the history of nuclear power development, large-scale use of atomic energy technology is completely feasible. Although nuclear radiation is a threat, mankind has mastered the basic methods to avoid this threat. Professor Zhou then introduced that China has made great progress in the research and development, application and autonomy of new reactors: reactor technology is gradually realizing the leap from the second generation to the third generation, research on nuclear fusion is also increasing, and private capital has also appeared in the nuclear energy field, and the entire industry is full of vitality. The two experts finally discussed the six nuclear accidents described in the book "Atoms and Ashes", and agreed that although several major nuclear accidents in human history have environmental factors, the most critical factor is the human factor, which is not mature technology, management defects, government supervision is lacking, and the safety awareness of practitioners is indifferent. In the context of the general environment, there are also reckless and reckless behaviors that ignore safety facilities and safety management for performance, and these problems are generally due to the lack of nuclear safety culture. Fortunately, these devastating nuclear accidents have also encouraged us to think about and improve nuclear safety measures, improve safety standards and enhance safety awareness, and there is every possibility that the nuclear industry can prevent problems before they occur.

Positive work, the philosophy of the saint

Kong Fuzi is not a moralist who speaks of benevolence and righteousness, and what he teaches his students is not an abstract theory. He does not encourage his students to be nerds in the ivory tower, but rather to show their skills in the real world. One of his disciples Zixia said: "Learning and being good makes a scholar, and being good makes a scholar, and studying and working as an official should complement each other." There are many life experiences in the Analects of Confucius that teach students how to behave in the world. Some people say: It is better not to read than not to know people. The first thing to do in life is to learn to read people. Confucius taught, "Look at his reasons, see his reasons, and see where he lives." How can a man hide? How can a man hide?" To understand a person, there are three points: the first is to look at his motivation; The second is to observe his means of doing things; The third is to examine what he is comfortable doing. If these three points are clear, what else can people hide? These three points look simple, but it is actually not easy to do. Even old Master Confucius had mistakes, and he once said bitterly: Take people with words, and give them when they lose. Zaiyu was an excellent disciple of Confucius, and his eloquence was excellent. At first, Confucius heard him speak very insightful and liked him very much, but later found that the boy was a little inconsistent. Once, Zaiyu sleep during the day, Confucius looked very angry, said: "rotten wood can not be carved, the wall of dirt can not be carved, rotten wood can not be carved, the long pile of dirt walls can not be painted." That's a pretty good comment. It's every word. Not to mention this, Confucius went on to say, "From the beginning, I listen to others and believe in their actions; Now I listen to what people say and watch what they do. "At first, when I hear what people say, I believe what they do. Today, when I hear his words, I examine his deeds. It can be seen that to know people, first learn to speak. Confucius said, "If you do not know what you are saying, you cannot know who you are." However, Confucius gives people the feeling that he does not love to talk, he teaches students "gentlemen want to be slow in speech and quick in action", but in fact, Confucius not only loves to talk, but also a master of talking, he hates is "rhetoric", rhetoric, is "off-guard", full of mouth running train, east parents, west family short and so on. And Confucius speech is very careful, pay attention to "therefore less than the tongue", that is, a gentleman's word, four words can not be recalled. So, how should a gentleman speak? Confucius said, "If you are with words but not with them, you lose people; Do not go with words and with words." Should not say, lose friends; You shouldn't be talking nonsense, wasting your breath. Confucius also taught how to talk with teachers, leaders, etc., "What is not enough is called mania, what is not enough is hidden, what is not seen color is called blind." You rush to speak before it is your turn, this is rash; It is your turn to say, but you do not say, this is deliberately concealed; He who speaks without looking at the faces of others is blind. This is Confucius's philosophy of speaking. Confucius also had his own ideas about making friends. As we know, friends are very important in life. How to make friends? Confucius said there are three kinds of good friends and three kinds of bad friends. Good friends are: friends straight, friends understanding, friends informed, that is, honest people, honest people, well-informed people, these three kinds of people are good friends. Bad friends are: friends will be open, friendly and gentle, friends will be sycophant, that is, the heart of the evil and not right people, good at flattery, used to talk people, these three kinds of people are bad friends. About making friends, Confucius also has a general principle: no friend is better than oneself. Don't make friends with people who are not as good as you, of course, this is not to make everyone snobbish, but to communicate with people who are stronger than you in virtue, knowledge, and ability. It's important to have a sense of proportion when dealing with friends. Confucius said: "The number of the king, shame; The number of friends is sparse." It means that if you give repeated advice to the leader, you will incur humiliation; Repeated advice to a friend will lead to estrangement. What to do? "Advice and good way, can not stop, do not humiliate yourself", that is, Confucius said the middle way, to be impartial, compromise, do everything, to grasp the degree, grasp the heat, neither can not meet the requirements, can not do too much, the so-called too much.

The meta-problem of the meta-universe: Mapping Critical reflection

Since the concept of "meta-universe" "landed" in the Chinese thought circle in 2021, it has become a new opportunity to trigger theoretical thinking. A variety of cutting-edge questions have been asked about this "event," focusing on the trendy terms and abbreviations repeatedly used in tech hardware; On the other hand, many questions focus on humanistic reflection and future assumptions, which are connected with metaphysics or ontology, ethics, philosophy of science and technology, law, political science, aesthetics, art, etc., and the investigation has two tendencies of optimism and pessimism. The urge to ask questions is natural, but there is also a lot of suspicion. On the first, much of the discourse is simply about rephrasing established things; The second, and much more involved, is the unstandardized "possible" question of scientific fact, to which one has all the answers, even if the answers are contradictory. We focus on the latter kind of problems because they are better reflected in the mental boundaries presented by imagining future prospects. Our approach is to attempt a philosophical "meta-question" mapping of these questions. In other words, it is to re-examine and evaluate the "ways or attitudes" in which the humanities and social sciences have raised various possible questions over the past year or so; At the ideological level, what theoretical structure leads them to believe that "a problem exists (or does not exist)" in the meta-universe phenomenon. The "drawing" method is a kind of "ideological geography" treatment, that is, the "problems" of different positions and field backgrounds have different "conceptual geography", which contains the plural "meta-problems" of different distribution. The reason why it is necessary to draw such an original problem is that the meta-universe is the "place to go" that has yet to be drawn. It has the potential to give us exactly what it has not yet given us, and that is why it is possible. Based on the various "meta-questions", we can see which are true questions and which are merely repetitions and branches of the original question. This paper attempts to start from five perspectives, which relate to five positions on the meta-universe, respectively, from the typical propositions put forward by some scholars in the past year or so: first, the converging free world of extended mediaism and its conception; Second, the fractured imagination based on postmodern difference theory; Third, the equal demand and capital criticism of the meta-universe; Fourth, the ultimate significance of the meta-universe to human beings from the perspective of existence; Fifth, the fantasy of the new person based on the virtualization of the body. In each case, we will generalize with one or more "meta-problems" that contain contradictions, thereby revealing the limits of how the mind can deal with the phenomena of the meta-universe. For such a new concept of the meta-universe, this may also be a new way to summarize and evaluate. The same Utopia: extension and suppression Since the space of the meta-universe is virtual, and information resides in matter and transmits the meaning understood by the mind, it is natural that the meta-universe should be equated with the information medium. This is why many communication scholars pay special attention to it, and their position can be named "extended mediaism". This theory is based on McLuhan's classic definition: the medium is an extension of man. They are trying to make the medium universal, to accommodate (and even replace, replace, and reconstruct) the entire real world, and the meta-universe is exactly what they need for this infinite medium. Their argument can be summarized as follows: First, media is the expression of human social relations, even the relationship itself; If relationships reach infinity, the medium is everywhere; Since the meta-universe is a cosmic medium, it (necessarily or possibly) gives the medium the greatest extension. Second, when this extension reaches infinity, since the connection between the medium and human thought and activity is at its strongest, then the meta-universe becomes an indispensable infinite medium for contact with reality; Because reality and the media are so closely related, reality itself is the only omnipresent medium. For example, some scholars confidently predicted the media vision represented by the meta-universe: "The future media will no longer be (or mainly not) a series of fixed 'entities', the new media form is a' network 'woven and weighted by algorithms, is a complex system", is "the highest form of' human relationship connection 'in the real world". So the future will be the "era of context," the era of "always on," where "almost everything you do offline is done online." Here the "intermediation" of the media itself is emphasized, although all the affairs are handled online, the difference between it and the offline is still obvious. However, he also argued that the iteration of media will evolve into an era of "everything is media", and media will shift from "a tool for conveying information" to "a link of relationships", even a cup of coffee is a medium for conveying information. Leaving aside the fact that coffee seems to convey information without the iteration of a medium, here he seems to extend the medium to all actual beings as long as they can serve as a contact medium for social relations. However, the contradiction lies in the fact that the medium is only the carrier and "online" system of the information of the existence (the existence), why has it become the existence itself? The answer seems to lie in the metaverse itself, which as an information medium or "open source platform" has been extended into the "form" of the universe itself, the objectified data model. In a sense, this is a modern "algorithmic" version of ancient Platonism. In the meta-universe, "the virtual and the real are highly interoperable." The meta-universe "through the upgrading of immersion, participation, sustainability and other characteristics", with the help of "many independent tools, platforms, infrastructure, and collaborative agreements between various subjects", the boundary between virtual and real is completely eliminated, and unified into an infinite, organic "ecological level complex system".

I've been having a lot on my mind lately

A few days ago, I had a strange dream, dreaming of participating in an activity, I saw the beginning of the activity far away, and then ran in that direction, and the result was suddenly seized by someone hard to the leg, can not walk. So he asked the guy, and the guy said, "Why did you run?" I answered the activity began, want to participate in the run ah! The man said he didn't see it! I said, don't you see you should be fixing your own eyes, not grabbing someone else's legs!Then, after a day to deal with things outside, was rogue cut in line, loudly questioned, rogue is ignored, a dead pig is not afraid of boiling water hot look, their own low quality country scold, also no effect!The next day, the greedy neighbor violated the interests, a big quarrel!And then deal with the lazy property, in order to repair a little cement, continue to negotiate, the property is still the same, the old tone: manpower shortage, have to queue, if you are in a hurry, you have to do it yourself, and so on… Really speechless, also do not want to wait, went to the next decoration of a family asked, all at once to solve, half a bucket of cement, and mud board, mud board, do it yourself, half an hour all done. Of course, also to the decoration of the master thanks!I wonder if any of this has anything to do with that weird dream?A good man is bullied, a good horse is ridden.Sometimes, can not blindly kind ah!Against the wicked, rogue, more complex, greedy, more able to protect their own interests ah!

Talk about Xi 'an -- the memory of Xi 'an N years ago

Xi 'an is an important city in our country, as a capital for a thousand years, Xi 'an has a long history and rich cultural deposits, and must go to Xi 'an to see, turn around and experience.This time, I will focus on the anecdotes related to Xi 'an. As the largest city in the five Northwest provinces (Shaanxi, Gansu, Qinghai, Ningxia Hui Autonomous Region, Xinjiang Uygur Autonomous Region), Xi 'an is the core of the entire Northwest five provinces. The five Northwest provinces cover a total area of 3.043 million square kilometers, accounting for 57.7 percent of the total area of the west and 31.7 percent of the country's total land area. The population is about 90 million, 7% of the country; And a lot of minorities. Almost all the people in the five northwest provinces who want to go to the big city, the first thing they think of is Xi 'an. Therefore, this also led to Xi 'an various people and miscellaneous, for a long time Xi 'an has been known as more thieves, more liars, more miscellaneous people.

Answer: Because the soul and the body do not match

It is reflected in several aspects: 1, influenced by various literature, film and television works, people with a little level think of themselves very high, and feel that their soul is still interesting, so the soft requirements for the other side are relatively high. 2, but in a society with a hierarchical system of resources, in fact, the combination is more to look at the resources behind, so in the end, it is necessary to look at the background, look at the origin, look at the conditions, so those who say interesting souls in the mouth, when introducing themselves is these copper smelly goods, they will compare their prices.For example, "excellent", as if it is very aspirant and pursued, is actually a ranking under some standard, suggesting some kind of pride in this bovine force and other slag. A child once used excellent to a foreigner was scolded by me, what qualifications do you have to evaluate each other excellent, you are not his mentor, you can only say amazing, interesting and other equal subjective opinions. So on, the so-called spiritual label, seemingly unique pride, is actually the inferiority of hierarchical thinking. 3, so the final combination is actually mostly people who meet the material conditions, and the proportion of spiritual satisfaction is very small. If you do not realize that you are actually a material person, the other person's spirit is not satisfied, the soul is not interesting enough, and you can not accept it for a while, then leave. Or spiritual fit, and the material conditions can not meet the so-called spiritual pursuit, or can not bear, leave. Therefore, often those who do not regard themselves as high and the spiritual pursuit is not high can live on. 4, and then the successful lesson of these people who live a "happy" life is, don't think too much, don't ask too much, just about. Finally, people who "sublimate" in advance of the spirit are not willing to hang on the wall haha. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but this is not something to be proud of, whether you are a man or a woman, material or detached, under a certain level, just labor dividends, is a reproductive donkey, is the fuel of economic development, this is a matter that needs to fight together, rather than complacent victory. So, in the first place, there was no need to communicate.

Love too deep, see each other's name feel warm

I used to think that with every passing day, the miss of the past will become lighter. Over time, it will not be remembered. However, when a song is finished, the past echoes back to the melody in its entirety. Scene by scene, clearly emerging. It's like, you know, never left. However, he can no longer participate. Dusk again beautiful, the end of the night. Just like youth, no matter how beautiful, it just belongs to the past. The horizon of the evening, draw a parting. Despite the passage of time and the weakening of my memory, I still remember deeply the goodbyes from those people, as firm as iron. And when it was ground into a embroidery needle by time, it fell to the ground, but how can I find it. Young once, experience is not deep, think of everything is very beautiful. Now look back, look at the thought, was so simple. All that thought was different from what was happening right now. When goodbye is said, it means that this life, all the meeting, can only be in a dream. When the back, gradually walk away. And the laughter, it was never heard again. Those faces, also slowly become blurred. If there is a day to remember, most of them are, have taken a class in a classroom, have worked together in a company, or have been under the same starry sky, counting the same meteor. Besides, if you don't look at the photo, you can't remember what each of you looks like. Always think, life where not meet. The reality is, it never will be. Always thought that the peach blossom pool is a thousand feet deep, less than Wang Lun sent me love. The reality is that falling flowers are intended to go with the water, and the water does not love falling flowers. Life is short, gathering and parting in a hurry. Flowers are better this year than last year. Unfortunately, next year's flowers will be better. Destined to meet, I turn around, you also turn back. However, we are still strangers to each other. Life, often encounter, but not every paragraph is moved. Flowers bloom, love is shallow. Shallow but, you stand on the other side of the wave, I only smile back. Love too deep, see each other's name, feel warm.

Memories of home

Yesterday, while the breeze was not dry, the sun was just right, I returned to the origin of the river flowing in my memory, that is, my hometown (a rural suburb of Wuhan) for 14 years.Set foot on the road home, the trees on both sides of the road, because of the spring, have not yet grown new leaves of them, are standing bare and straight, more like soldiers born to guard this road. Entering the village road, looking out, compared with when I was a child, "rice flowers say bumper years, listen to the sound of frogs", most of the fields are free-range desolate. It is true that living conditions are much better now than in the past. Grandpa's generation of people are getting old, hobbling pace, can provoke farm work is really less; Most of the fathers struggled outside, and basically did not inherit the ability to plow and farm; However, our generation is not to mention, even the number of times home, one hand can count over.Enter the cement path of the village, because at that time of life, the countryside is good face, deeply affected by it. I thought of The Times when I had left the country, and made up my mind not to come back until I looked like a man. However, after coming back, waiting for the envious eyes of the village to greet and welcome me, I don't know if you have left your hometown with such an idea! But, as I got used to being in the South, I gradually assimilated. At first, I was greeted by cattle and baby cows leisurely grazing in the distance. They seemed to tell me silently, don't worry, the epidemic will pass.Then I walked into the village and saw my grandmother's house, which I used to visit when I was a child, because of the problem of generation, I would call uncle aunt and grandpa to see anyone in the village. I called a xx grandma in the car, she looked at me and did not speak, I guess she also did not think of who I am, after all, left 12 years. Continue to go to their own home direction, one after another to see the elders, I saw a called a, basically are the previous appearance, on an uncle who does not know. He said if you don't go back with your parents, I don't know who you are. With the "young old man back to home, hometown voice without change hair decline" is really in the appropriate. At the same time, a man walked far away, I thought it was called grandpa, next to another uncle said, the grandpa has died, this is uncle. I was embarrassed to the extreme, mainly long too much like, black skin, and wearing a hat, temples a little white hair, like the grandpa of the year.To the door, in the face of the house, to see the old house that built the earliest building in the village, in those years, it is also boundless scenery, and now the house is unsupported, has not been angry, and it is ready to change another layer of tile, so that it can still persist longer. Standing in the doorway to the farmland in front of me, it seemed to take me back to the past. At that time, "flower path, play hide-and-seek, had provoked Xiao Xiao well Wu ye", his younger brother was naughty, although he grew up still so. At that time, he loved to play with firecrackers, isolation home younger than two years old boys like to run behind him, a younger brother ran to the field, firecrackers into cow dung, his younger brother lit firecrackers and ran, and shouted to let the child run faster, children are curious, he not only do not go, but also close to see, a firecracker, the child's face, body is cow dung things, I still remember it vividly. Because of this grandma and next door neighbor did a fight, now think of that covered with cow poop, I can not help laughing;After entering the door is the hall, think of "Tian home less idle month, May people times busy", although we are the provincial capital city, in fact, from childhood is also with grandparents farming children grew up, that will use wooden bolt door. When he was busy farming, Grandpa said, "You took the soda and cake, put the back of the small bench behind the door, tied the wooden bolt, and told me the story of Little Red Riding Hood, saying that when someone asked you to open the door, you must not open it." . Grandma said, "Don't give it to her." The countryside is more son than girl, I was afraid of grandma when I was a child. I nodded to grandpa, according to grandpa said. I ate bread and drink soda, eat tired also fell asleep. Grandpa and grandma came back at noon to cook, knock on the door for half a day did not respond, there should be more than half an hour, and then went to the next door to borrow the coal tongs, want to cut out the cork through the window, so that you can use a knife to move the door. As for how deep the sleep, I do not know, but after listening to grandparents talk about it, it does have some impression;On the right hand side is the master bedroom. When you step into it, your eyes are like a ruler. When you were a child, you thought the bedroom was big, because now it looks so small. The house is still the original house, but the original people have grown up. When I was a child, even though I had my own room, I liked to put a small bed in the main bedroom. With a nice TV in the master bedroom and sheer fear, as the countryside neared night, the land began to fall asleep, except for the gentle breeze and the occasional dog bark. Those years of theft is really a lot of thieves, think of my family once raised a Chinese country dog, called black, is the thief drugged to death. Especially when the New Year is more rampant. I remember a classmate's village there is a thief left words "stolen don't cry, not stolen don't rejoice, I have to steal until the end of the year."The master bedroom came out facing the kitchen, which had a well for its own draught, and every family in the country had a well for its own draught. The water does not forget the story of the man who dug the well, I studied in the textbook when I was a child, and I have never forgotten the truth. There is a cooking stove next to the well, there are two POTS in front and behind, the front pot is generally used for cooking, and the back pot is generally used for cooking or boiling water. In the winter, most of them are used to boil water, wash dishes with hot water, take a bath, and boil it and store it in a hot water bottle for drinking; But in the summer, it is mostly used for cooking, because the water from the well, in contrast to the hot summer, forms a clear contrast, just like the feeling of eating ice cream in summer, which is very cool and delicious. I remember one time, the family planted peanuts, generally the big ones are sold, the small ones are generally made salt water peanuts, or fried peanuts. That was grandpa fried peanuts, the stove is more difficult to control the heat, so the small flowers were all fried. Grandpa is more diligent and thrifty, so do not give up to throw away, in the era of scarcity of snacks, I will follow to eat, after eating because too thirsty. Then a sudden operation of raw water as fierce as a tiger, there was diarrhea to serious dehydration, lying down for 3 days before the bottle would be half dead, so that the peanuts in the future are resistant. It's only changed now.The kitchen came out, the right hand side is the terrace at the door, standing on the terrace is the big fish pond in front of the door, trance thought of the summer time, when the weather is hot, there is no farm work, grandma loved to play at home in the afternoon what Fu Lu Shou, what autumn has already been the card. I was just the opposite of that "the most favorite child rogue, the head of the stream lying stripping lotus seed", when I was very young, I listened to other children say that there are a lot of good fish in the fish pond, small shrimp. I went to see the fish pond at someone else's door, and once fell into the fish pond, I pulled the roots of the fish pond, but I pulled the roots in the water and fell asleep. Grandma after playing cards everywhere looking for children, can not find, grandma was said by grandpa can not. They were in a hurry. They looked for a long time. Later, it was late, and the water in the fish pond was a little cold, so I woke up and heard my grandparents calling me, so I said I was here. Later pulled me up, in order to prevent me from playing with water, I talked about the horror of some water monkeys eating children, plus the uncle boys in the village who were a few years older than me, they swam in the summer, naughty put me on the car tire on the fish pond in other places, regardless of me, directly walked, and then I was particularly afraid of water. For this reason, when I was a child, I often practiced holding my breath at home in the basin, in order to not swim and fall into the water again, and to fight for more rescue time. Fortunately, I have the foundation of breath-holding. Last year, when I was traveling in Vietnam, I learned to swim with my leader in 2 mornings and I learned to do simple breaststroke.Through the fish pond, you can see is my family's farmland, when I was a child to eat food rely on it, "spring planting a grain of millet, autumn harvest ten thousand sons", remember a time when grandpa in plowing, the grandfather of the smoking addict came, called me in the past, said to give you 2 dollars to buy a packet of red double happiness eyes, more than 3 cents you buy snacks to eat Ha (at that time 2 pieces of paper or green version), I take the money and go to the next village. It takes me 200 meters to get to the next village. Before going to the grocery store, I will pass a big rooster that will peck people, the big rooster is big and fierce, how big it is, and my height is not small at that time. May be because it was too afraid to virtual big, how fierce it is, anyway, it can chase you to run hundreds of meters, and the line pants worn in March can give you a peck. After I dumped the rooster, I forgot what I was going to do with the money, and I wanted to buy snacks to eat, and then 2 […]

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