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Famous flowers have the Lord plus QQ please indicate Yuyao friends finally meet the age to help a rong aunt under passing God, this society, children are on, it seems that we are really old a Rong very good brother help post 90 after… More and more young grass appeared in the forum… Manual topping… For my dear LZ sister to add in view of the picture has the truth interested people can add her photos in the QQ album what do I do alas, third degree disability, move over to the side you don't have it? Where did the 90's come to live in the east of the city? Ask so clear add QQ chat to dizzy. boringSimen single group: one thirty-three thirty-eight twenty-three is a, leave a footprint you are also Simen ah half four gatekeeper can send a couple is Simen Yuyao Ning statistics under the number of Simen I first report a number of what is half Simen praise a few, good performance can only count as half a well four doors posted next door Simen ning… Float over… Simen people are still more a report, I Simen! Si gate people four gate 03 ah ah a more than floor master set up a Si gate group everyone in Si gate good business ~~ I am not in Si gate make a face of Si group is better handsome boy I handsome thank you for playing soy sauce don't think I handsome also NC that number was not put out? Am I right? Now I don't have either. I'm not NC, I'm brain-dead. I'm not the same person as him. NC is also contagious ????? I don't want to follow it seems that the month month is also a brain mutilation ah or handsome head, the identification is completedWho said that about me? Who said that about me? Who said that about me? Who said that about me? Who said that about me? Who said that about me? Who said that about me? Who said that about me? Come out, Tianya is angry. Where's the old post? It's him, it's her, it's it… April post did not see ah what is vest ???????????

[Leisure and entertainment] It's cold time again, and what clothes are not suitable for riding an electric motorcycle to work

It's hard to get to work on an electric scooter when it's cold. Wear thick when you go to work hot, wear less cold on the road. It's not an exaggeration. It's not too much to wear a down jacket when you leave early. The above is better, wearing a thin coat outside, but this leg is not good to get ah, sad people ↓¤wind is ah! I put something on when I put it on in my scooter! Get off, take down and put in the car ↓¤My wind has been arranged, ↓¤Then buy a scooter car ↓¤Passing ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤car open ↓¤Wind is ↓ I am more afraid of riding a bike ↓¤This is let you change the rhythm ↓¤stormjacket ↓¤wear on the body, Than wind is safe ↓¤Taobao look at a variety of windproof warm, let you choose ↓¤Your boyfriend is not idle? Ask him to drive you, 1000 red envelopes are sent out of it ↓¤A windproof is not solved? ↓¤Wind shield, or the old long padded jacket, down jacket to work, other time put a small electric seat below ↓¤Buy a windproof 邶 ah, ha ha ha ↓ ↓ Spider-Man suit is the most suitable, there is no air leakage ↓¤Buy a lot of people with four wheels are using a windproof quilt, borrow a few people's try, suitable for themselves to buy a! ↓¤Get a wind shield, the effect is good many days cold, riding electric motorcycle people to work is really difficult. Wear thick when you go to work hot, wear less cold on the road. It's not an exaggeration. It's not too much to wear a down jacket when you leave early. The above is better, wearing a thin coat outside, but this leg is not good to get ah, sad people ↓¤wind is ah! I put something on when I put it on in my scooter! Get off, take down and put in the car ↓¤My wind has been arranged, ↓¤Then buy a scooter car ↓¤Passing ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤This weather, wear a year round ↓¤car open ↓¤Wind is ↓ I am more afraid of riding a bike ↓¤This is let you change the rhythm ↓¤stormjacket ↓¤wear on the body, Than wind is safe ↓¤Taobao look at a variety of windproof warm, let you choose ↓¤Your boyfriend is not idle? Ask him to drive you, 1000 red envelopes are sent out of it ↓¤A windproof is not solved? ↓ Wind shield, or the old long padded jacket, down jacket to work, other time put a small electric seat under the ↓¤Buy a windproof 邶 ah, ha ha ha ↓ Spider-Man suit is the most appropriate, there is no air leakage ↓¤Buy a four-wheeled

Guys!! How would you feel if you received birthday wishes at twelve o 'clock sharp?

I look at the clock and the date, and then I realize, Oh, it's my birthday. Ho ho^^ ~ ^^ ~ ^^ Ha ha ha usually remember before, usually forget then… Oh, I never remember my birthday. My mom never forgets my birthday. There is no such if. I've always been the only one who remembers celebrating birthdays for all my family, and no one has ever celebrated for me in my entire life. Belong to the neglected It's always been my birthday… Ha-ha… Learn from you. Give more and get more. Find a birthday party on SP. ^^The day before yesterday was my birthday, received the first blessing is a bank credit card center!Oh I am a wanderer, usually by myself.Those are set up to respond automatically.Married him, married herYou're the lucky one. The whole world is celebrating.Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-haThe bank sent it to you? There's money on your card. Ha ha ha…Sometimes you buy a cake/something you like, sometimes you play with your friends, and sometimes you just go through life as usual. Heheh. It depends on the mood.Well, that's good!Heheh. Double have double warmth, single have single free and easy. There is an object to love with the lover, no object to love themselves a little more. Heheh.Since the divorce, accompany and support me is always my dream and hope, especially women after divorce will face many you can not imagine the pressure, angry, talk, complain and so on can only drag themselves back to regret and remorse.But what can give you the greatest motivation is the dream and hope, which will guide and promote you to always maintain a good attitude and motivation, realize one dream after another, let you live a luxurious and valuable life, so that all aspects of you are developing in the best direction, when you look back, you will thank the plight and adversity to bring you a better future, you will feel the gift of God to you. Thank you for all the pain of the past.Six years after the divorce, the ex-husband and the children's unfeeling, I hardly see the children, and even when I see the children, the children do not understand, and the children who have gone to college do not accept their mother, which is such a failure and blow to me.The child's disrespect must be changed, the first good, filial piety first, can not let the child reincarnation my pain and guilt, many times to the child's school and communication with the child, many failures and return, I firmly believe and insist, after all, the child will return to my side, the miracle finally came last month, the child finally enlightened! The baby came back to me! Everyone is happy!In this wish sisters and brothers!Bumpy is the best gift God gives us, with a grateful heart to return and believe that everything good, miracles will come to you!Can't find the postThe child found the heart of the mother good, congratulations ~Lovely.With a grateful heart to return and believe that everything good, miracles will come to you! supportWhose fault was the divorce? Did the kid become a judgeThat's right, dreams and hopes are the engines of creating the future! Praise your wisdom and reason! Finally in the unremitting efforts to realize the dream, to achieve the desire, the positive thought like a magnet sent a magnetic wave, attracting the positive frequency, the recovery of nature is a good result, negative can be imagined, this is the law, the law of attraction, in the hands of successful people. Be willing to convey to the person who is complaining what you want, OK?Anna, you are great, life has given you experience, let you wise, summarize the direction of progress, give it to others, know that gratitude and return, wisdom is waiting for you, you will be very happy.

[People's life] The hospital of Traditional Chinese medicine a few years ago, the card has surplus money, can also be returned?

A few days ago, cleaning, find out a doctor's card of a hospital of traditional Chinese medicine, only to remember that the balance of one or two hundred yuan has not been used up, as if this kind of doctor's card has not been used up, can it be returned? … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … How do you know how much balance is in it? Shouldn't you be at the hospital? … It's expired. … Where can I deposit money on this card… Can be returned should, I am not used in Xi 'an to come back to return. … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … It's a smart thing to do, you know? Haha… I'm out of my depth… Haha, rabbit Shanghai Zhongguancun development is good ah, behind the city of happiness, there is also a fountain light show on the other side of the Canal Park, the light show is very beautiful, light and shadow changes, water dance flying, feeling that the effect of spending money is quite lively, there are a lot of people, just don't know if it is every night? Or just a few days a week? Does anyone know? It feels good to take a walk there at night and look at the light show. Where is the location? Every night? … The house could go up a bit… Pretty… Stop dreaming. It'll keep falling… The South River commercial complex has been planned on the east side of the North garden of Happiness City. … Friday to Sunday, north of the north garden of the Happy city… I heard that houses in the north of the city fell even more. … There are many exhaust gases in industrial parks, and the prices of second-hand houses and dismantled houses in industrial parks have fallen, and many of them have to rot in their hands. Well, I'll tell my friend not to take the house north of town. … If you bought it in the first half of the year, it's not a problem to lose 100,000… The river next to it stinks. It spoils the view… Fell 5500 a square meter 2 hand room… At this rate of population decline, at this rate of economic decline, the house price of 3,500 is not necessarily affordable… Long named happy city, so later more and more happy. … It's only $5,000 over there now… The green door by the fountain is a failure. The whole park is so beautiful. It's better to put something like a green ghost door than nothing at all… Houses are not for speculation, they are for living, and those who say that they have fallen and risen are not interesting. … The strength of the choice of Yanshan New District, it is said that the Yanshan New District school district is not so good, ordinary families, you can buy the transition of the happy city, marry a wife always buy a house, and then you can change to improve the type. There is no denying that Happiness City is currently the center of Zhongguancun, the east is attached to the South Normal University primary School, the west is attached to the South Normal University Middle School, both front and back are parks. The middle street is a busy street, nothing wrong with that. Up and down, you are not investing, there is no need to get too entangled. … Ask your friend to buy Yanshan New District, which is 2-3 million. … Light night landscape beautification floating bright! … Pay the loan… Could it?

People to middle age these three things do not do, otherwise bitter is their own

Middle age is a turning point in one's life stage, and it is also a stage where wisdom and maturity coexist. At this stage, people should reflect on their past, sum up experience and plan for the future. There are three things, after middle age, we should be careful to avoid self-inflicted consequences. First, do not overreach, feet firmly hidden in the heart. Middle-aged people should be well aware of their own abilities and limitations, and not blindly pursue illusory goals while neglecting the immediate work and responsibilities. Many middle-aged people are eager to make a breakthrough in their career, but neglect their family and physical health, which will be more than worth the loss, and eventually leave regrets. For example, Mr. Li pursued career success in middle age, worked overtime every day, and paid little attention to his family, resulting in estranged family relations and damaged physical health. This is a typical case of overreaching, so middle-aged people should know how to cherish everything in front of them, down to earth, and do not get lost in the illusory distance. When people reach middle age, they must find their own rhythm and continue to live well in accordance with their own rhythm in order to go further. Second, give up the good teacher, hollow as grain practice in the line. In middle age, many people have more or less achievements, at this time, we should maintain a humble attitude, do not be self-righteous, do not blindly give people advice, but should constantly improve their own cultivation and quality in humility. For example, when Ms. Zhang became a senior executive in her middle age, she often decided the direction of the company based on her own experience and opinions, ignoring the advice of others in her team. Such behavior is likely to lead to a decline in team morale, so that individuals in the company can not play their own advantages, and ultimately will inevitably weaken the cohesion of the entire team. Middle-aged people should give up this kind of attitude of being good to others and be vain, which can not only increase their own wisdom, but also improve the effectiveness and cohesion of the team. In middle age, one of the most valuable qualities is to understand that there is something to be done and something to be done. There are things that need to be done as a team, don't be individual heroism. When you need a team effort and you need to listen to the opinions of individuals in the team, don't act arbitrarily, or you may be isolated. Third, do not be "soft hearted" and help the poor with edges and corners. Middle-aged people tend to be kind and kind, but sometimes being too kind can lead to problems. When facing difficulties and crises, middle-aged people should remain resolute and firm, and not be blinded by their own kindness. For example, in middle age, Mr. Wang encountered difficulties in borrowing money from a relative. Although he knew that the relative was not a person he could trust, he lent it to him out of kindness, which eventually led to financial losses and the breakdown of interpersonal relationships. This is the negative impact of "gentleness of heart", middle-aged people in the face of difficulties and crises, should know how to maintain a certain degree of rationality and calm, rather than being affected by their own kindness. Middle age is a very important stage in life, we should bear in mind the three advice of aiming high, giving up good advice to teachers, and not "soft hearted". Only by staying grounded and confident, while remaining resolute and firm, can we live a more leisurely and happy life after middle age. If you have the three problems mentioned above, often do those three things intentionally or unintentionally, I hope you can quit after middle age, otherwise the pain is yourself.

Education exists for life Education expands the length, width and height of life

Human growth, or the meaning of education, is like building a pyramid, based on the length of natural life and the width of social life. The stronger the base, the larger the base, the higher the spiritual life, the more likely it is to be indestructible until it reaches the sky. In other words, whether life is ultimately happy and complete is determined by the three attributes of life. The length of natural life emphasizes the continuation of the existence of time, the breadth of social life emphasizes the enrichment of current experience, and the high of spiritual life pursues the quality of enduring. The three-dimensional construction of length, width and height constitutes the capacity of the "container" of life. This is a fundamental human question. Like the words "Know thyself" inscribed on the lintel of the Temple of Delphi, the question of "What is life?" refers directly to man's knowledge and understanding of himself. Human beings have never stopped exploring themselves, and their understanding of life has never been complete. There has never been a fixed answer to this question, and there has never been an accepted standard definition of "life". As far as the connotation of life is concerned, with the differentiation of disciplines, all disciplines involved in life try to define life from their own angles, forming different understandings and understandings of life. In the biological sense, life is an organism composed of polymeric nucleic acid proteome and other substances. In the sociological sense, life refers to the high unity of natural attributes and social attributes, and sociality is the essential attribute that distinguishes human life from other species. Life in the philosophical sense refers to an objective existence in nature, which is the product of the contradictory movement of nature. At the same time, life is also a subjective existence, which is the subject of cognition of the real world. From psychology, economics, literature, religion and other perspectives, people have many more definitions of life. All these definitions clearly define life from different angles, and enrich and improve human's understanding of life from different aspects. From the perspective of pedagogy, life is an organism capable of self-conscious growth, and education is an activity that actively promotes the self-conscious growth of individual life, so that people's lives are constantly enriched, improved and perfected. "There are no two identical leaves in the world." And no two lives are exactly alike. Different genetic genes, different social experiences, and different spiritual perceptions also make decisions that no two people in the world are exactly the same. The world is like a garden where beauty is in full bloom; Life is like a flower, beautiful in its own way. The uniqueness of life creates the diversity and richness of the world, which means that the ideal destination of every life is to grow into the best self. Each of us can only grow into the best you, I, he, and can not replace each other. The uniqueness of life also determines that every life is an irreplaceable existence, and the death of any life is an irreparable regret. To help a life grow a little, is to perfect the world a little; To extend a life a little is to extend the world a little. This is the value and significance of education. Each life has only one life, and it is unique and cannot be duplicated. At the same time, the growth of each life is also irreversible, can not be repeated, and time has the same vector dimension, which makes life particularly precious. Therefore, the best education should be the education that cherishes and respects all life, so that people can know life, understand life, cherish life, care for life, love life and achieve life, so that each life can live out its own life, live in dignity, live in integrity, live in happiness.

Exploring the culture deep in my memory: walking into Chaoshan villages

"A star at the zenith opens a study underground." -- "Good Praise Guangdong" online work collection competition "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity" kicked off with a Chaoshan folk song, focusing on various traditional cultural customs during the New Year in Chaoshan, the creator Chen Qiang visited various parts of Chaoshan, the shooting lasted nearly two months. Ying song and dance, "Ying Master", Chaozhou opera, burning fire dragon, jumping fire, fireworks… Fireworks, colorful dazzling, Chen Qiang in the picture many times clever use of night and fireworks light and shade contrast, to create a harmonious romantic atmosphere, there is Xin Qiji's "east wind night flowers thousands of trees." More blow down, stars like rain "" Feng Xiao sound moving, jade pot light turn, night fish dragon dance" scene. The music combines the music of the Chaoshan opera, with the smart camera switch and the moving mirror, and the rhythm is full, showing the vitality of the New Year and the youth of the Chaoshan traditional culture in the new era. "Nowadays, more and more young people are interested in local culture and traditional folk customs." Chen Qiang said that through the short video new media platform, as long as the content is interesting and meets the tastes of young people, netizens at home and abroad are willing to "like" and exchange, which is a great radiation. With an audience, there are correspondingly more creators. In addition, Chen Qiang also has some friends around him, who are not only interested in the shooting of traditional folk customs, but also continue to collect information and practice to spread and promote. The more he came into contact with Chaoshan traditional culture, the stronger Chen Qiang's preference for it, including those traditional cultures he was not willing to contact before. "Chaozhou opera has not received much attention among young people of my generation. Its tone and performance mode are not very attractive to young people." At the beginning of this year, Chen Qiang rushed around the small villages of Chaoshan, into the Chaozhou opera performance stage, the Chaozhou opera's clothing, makeup, front and back of the stage are all recorded in the camera, and he felt how the actors carefully prepared for the play. "Once I got to know them and filmed them, it was fun to sit in the audience and watch them perform." Chen Qiang has never felt this way before. The seats around him were dominated by people in their 50s, with few young people. At this moment, he thought of his parents. "In the past, there was no TV to watch, and everyone gathered in front of the ancestral hall at night, simply pulling up the curtain was a weekly Chaozhou opera screening." In the days before television, they learned about the plot of Journey to the West and some allusions to Chaoshan through Chaoshan dramas." Chaozhou opera, carrying the joy and joy of the young people of that era, has also become a memory that they can not erase. Traditional culture and customs are a treasure buried deep in the memory of everyone. The small changes of folk activities reflect the changes of rural life. For example, the very lively "Ying Master" activity in "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity", as a very representative folk ritual cultural activity in Chaoshan area, has also had a lot of new changes in Chen Qiang's eyes. "In the past, the road for 'Ying master' was very difficult to walk, but now there is a large venue for such events, the road surface is more spacious and the environment is much better." Chen Qiang recalled that in the past, there were more old houses, and weeds and paper scraps everywhere were easy to cause fires. Now the "Ying master" is equipped with better safety measures, such as the fire dragon, which has a relatively perfect fire emergency plan.

New voice: "Generation Z" set off the pear garden trend

At the foot of the Yellow Crane Tower, along the river into the bustling old streets of Wuchang, where there is an ancient theater hidden. Every weekend, the gongs and drums are clanging, the play is even on the stage, and the audience is not only stumbling old fans, but also college students from surrounding schools, and tourists who come to the nearby Tanhualin scenic spots. "The Yongfang Ancient Theater used to be an old 'theater den' in Wuchang, but it has been dormant for years due to disrepair, and sometimes there are more actors on stage than there are audiences off stage." What impressed Guo Guowei, head of the Chu Troupe of Hubei Provincial Opera Art Theater, was that after the Spring Festival this year, the renovated ancient theater was opened to the public again, and this time, it seemed to "come alive". Watching the seats of 200 people were slowly filled, and even the scene was full, Guo Guowei felt that the theater was "reborn", and the spring of the opera was coming again! At the scene, the reporter saw the figure of the familiar young actors, and also got a glimpse of the ancient theater "popular" password. Compared with the tension before a performance at a local opera and art festival, the actors here are significantly relaxed, and the backstage laughter is constantly. "I have performed a lot of times, at the beginning there will be pressure, gradually more comfortable, confident, especially after every performance to hear the audience's warm applause, is my happiest time." Said Li Yang, a Huangmei Opera actor born in 2003. Yongfang Ancient Theater has become a position for young actors to accumulate stage experience. "Young actors need a platform to show their performances, and traditional opera also needs the relay and vitality of the new generation." Mei Pengcheng, general manager of Hubei Opera Art Theater, said that regular performances by the orientation class students who just graduated from Hubei Vocational College of Art not only gave young people the opportunity to exercise, but also attracted many young fans and literary and artistic youth, and the old theater became a new "Internet red" place, and it was an instant red on social media. National Vocational College Skills Competition Opera Performance Award, Chinese Children's Opera Little Plum Blossom Festival, the ninth China Peking Opera Art Festival… From the small theater to the big stage, this batch of skilled and excellent character of the new drama has been in a number of provincial and national important performances and awards. In April this year, Beijing Meilanfang Grand Theater, nearly a thousand audience watched the fourth "Lihua Cup" national youth drama education and teaching achievements exhibition activity, the Han opera "Sizhou City" and the Chu opera "Three Dozen Golden Branches" instrumental performance performed by young actors trained by Hubei Vocational College of Art won the "Excellent exhibition work" and "Music Exhibition" awards, which were highly praised by the industry. In addition to the rapid growth of a number of "post-00" rookies, "post-90" and "post-80" new stars have also shone on the stage. Not long ago, the 14th Hubei Drama Peony Awards were presented in Wuhan. More than 10 young opera performers from Hubei, including Sun Shuaikang and Yi Weizi, took the stage to accept the awards. Their operas covered Peking Opera, Han Opera, Chu Opera, Hubei Yue Tune and Flower Drum Opera. A blossoming "peony flowers" blooming stage, for the budding "plum blossom" ready to go. That night, the Huimin performance attracted fans from the three towns of Wuhan to compete to go to the Jingyun stage was full. Sun Shuaikang, 25, won acclaim for his performance in the Hubei Yue tune "Small Dinner". "We learned from the performance characteristics of Jin opera, with feathers to show Lu Bu's mood." Sun Shuaikang explained, "When I went to Changzhi, Shanxi Province to learn from the teacher, it was snowing that day, the teacher said, you are the fourth to come to me to learn, the people in front of you finally gave up, you are sure you can endure hardship?" This bitter Sun Shuaikang ate. The head is extremely tight, with the neck force, control the two feathers on the head dancing, two hundred circles in the morning and two hundred circles in the afternoon every day, he practiced for a whole year, "after practicing, after vomiting, continue." "Hubei Yue Tune is a non-heritage drama, condensing the efforts of the elders, although the middle was once asleep and on the verge of extinction, but now that we have entered this group, we must shoulder the responsibility of inheritance." At the same time, we will learn from big operas and add innovative elements such as coloratura, so that the road of Hubei Yue Tune will become wider and wider." Sun Shuaikang said. Wang Xinmin, the old head of the troupe, is pleased that compared with the old facilities and morale of the troupe ten years ago, there are now a large number of talents. In 2014, a new play "Looking at Sun Sun" saved the old Hekou Yu Opera Company at that time. Later, the company changed its focus from Henan opera to revitalizing Hubei Yuetao, and changed its name to Laohekou Hubei Yuetao Xianren Flower Drum Opera Art Protection and Inheritance Center. Since 2016, the company has recruited nearly 30 new young people, and the average age of actors is now 23, with the youngest being 16. When the reporter came to the waiting area of the Peony Award performance, not only the actors, but also the musicians, makeup artists and logistics teams of the troupe were all young faces, and the breath of youth came to their faces. They are active in front of the stage and behind the scenes, and are determined to become the leading actors and top talents of various kinds of dramas and drama groups in Hubei Province. In 1989, He Jingzhi, a famous poet and playwright, made a special trip from Beijing to Wuhan and gladly wrote an inscription for the newly established "Hubei Drama Peony Award" - "The leader has an early spring, competing for peony flowers". Time flies, Hubei Drama Peony Flower Award has gone through 34 years. Among the 32 winners of the "Plum Blossom Award" in Hubei Province, 28 of them went from the "Peony Flower Award" to the podium of the "Plum Blossom Award" and "Erdu Plum" of the Chinese Dramatists Association, becoming the leader of today's drama stage. Yang Jun, chairman of Hubei Provincial Federation of Literature and Arts and a famous Huangmei Opera artist, encouraged the young actors at the award ceremony: "This honor confirms your hard work and persistent efforts to pursue your dream stage, and represents your love and sincere feelings for the art profession and drama career."

When people are old, these three things are best rotten in the belly and do not tell their children

First, it's about the past. "We learn wisdom from adversity, and virtue from pain." This saying tells us that most people will experience hardships or make mistakes in some things in their life, but we should believe that it is these experiences that temper our strong mind and optimistic attitude. When we look back, many things are not worth mentioning, which is also a reflection of wisdom. Therefore, when people are old, there is no need to easily tell their children about the "ugly things" even if they are rotten in the belly. On the one hand, these things are not honorable, if let our children know, it may damage their image of us, and even set a bad example. For example, many older people may have drunk too much alcohol or made ugly mistakes when they were younger, and these things are not worth mentioning. Second, it is about complaining that their children are not promising. "In this world, some people do not necessarily have money to get love; Having money does not necessarily make you happy; Happiness does not necessarily lead to health; Having good health doesn't always work out." Everyone has their own path in life, and we can't help our children forever. When we are old, our children have reached a certain age and understand the truth of life. As parents, we should encourage them instead of complaining about their failure. No matter what happens, we should look at it with optimism, as the saying goes. As long as you and your children are in good health, this is already a great wealth. Finally, there is the distribution of property. "Only those who live in humble circumstances have the best chance to see the truth of society in all its forms." "Humble" here can be understood to mean that when we are in a weak position or do not have much earning power, we are better able to see the reality of people and social conditions around us. As the saying goes, "The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, but the poor have no one to ask in the busy city." Therefore, when people are old, even if the children are dutiful, do not easily disclose the distribution of property. After all, many elderly people need to be taken care of by their children in their later years, and if the distribution of property is disclosed too early, the children may feel that it is unfair, resulting in estrangement, affecting their relationship with each other and not conducive to their later life.

I've been having a lot on my mind lately

A few days ago, I had a strange dream, dreaming of participating in an activity, I saw the beginning of the activity far away, and then ran in that direction, and the result was suddenly seized by someone hard to the leg, can not walk. So he asked the guy, and the guy said, "Why did you run?" I answered the activity began, want to participate in the run ah! The man said he didn't see it! I said, don't you see you should be fixing your own eyes, not grabbing someone else's legs!Then, after a day to deal with things outside, was rogue cut in line, loudly questioned, rogue is ignored, a dead pig is not afraid of boiling water hot look, their own low quality country scold, also no effect!The next day, the greedy neighbor violated the interests, a big quarrel!And then deal with the lazy property, in order to repair a little cement, continue to negotiate, the property is still the same, the old tone: manpower shortage, have to queue, if you are in a hurry, you have to do it yourself, and so on… Really speechless, also do not want to wait, went to the next decoration of a family asked, all at once to solve, half a bucket of cement, and mud board, mud board, do it yourself, half an hour all done. Of course, also to the decoration of the master thanks!I wonder if any of this has anything to do with that weird dream?A good man is bullied, a good horse is ridden.Sometimes, can not blindly kind ah!Against the wicked, rogue, more complex, greedy, more able to protect their own interests ah!

A dream sealed in ruins

It has been more than a year since I moved my home from childhood to adulthood. The main reason why I want to write something for it now is that I dare not rely on my memory to carry all the people and things worth remembering for me. I do not know which day the relatively clear picture existing in my mind will be gradually blurred by the consultation of life trifles. My childhood is so precious and worth a lifetime to recall ah, but when this period of time has no carrier to cling to, I am not sure whether it can firmly exist in my mind, so I must find a place to seal this time that can never go back, if the clue to open the memory has been erased, then I can only remember the results when it is forever entrusted to big data. The village where I live is quite large, both in terms of population and area. It is not rich, at least in my entire primary school, most of the families are farming to support the family, I like this life, the whole childhood lived a simple and happy. My home is in the east side of the village, the east side of the house and the southwest side of the river, the river is sometimes no water, and when I was young, the most dislike is that the river is full of water, after lunch to go to school by the south side of the Hutong river, a lot of boys swimming in the river, the chance of meeting their classmates is almost 100%. I still remember that it was very difficult to walk that distance of less than 500 meters, when the river suddenly came out of the classmates to call you a nickname that was simply to make you ashamed. In order to avoid this embarrassment, I often go around a lot of wrong roads, looking forward to the weather becoming cold, looking forward to the river becoming dry, and looking forward to growing up quickly… I hope I hope I get what I want. The ditches without water became battlefields for my brother's generation, who dug out all kinds of strange holes and piled up all kinds of "hills". That's definitely our paradise. The east side of the river used to be a good piece of forest, every summer evening, we will take a flashlight, carry a bottle to find the insects called Jincicada, adults and children the whole family out, the flashlight in the forest, and now it is difficult to see the lively at that time. Before I went to junior high school, I often went to the forest to herd sheep after school, I have always been timid, others drove the sheep past, after a while, I directly rushed home, and every time I was trying to make these sheep together, must always be in my line of sight, for fear of being stolen, there is always a team of sheep I keep gathering and scattering. At that time, I was actually very young, so small that I was not a sheep's opponent, and I would be dragged along by a rope, and I could not tell who was walking who. At that time, I didn't think too much about it, I felt that it was my own thing, adults were busy enough, what they did was more tired, but I thought that what I could do was already very easy. There are many college students in my hutong, and the neighborhood is quite harmonious. Before going to school, after dinner, I would follow my neighbor's brothers and sisters and friends of the same age to play hide-and-seek, corn stalk chopping, wheat stalk chopping, which strict to drill, which black to hide, while drilling into the seam while afraid of something inside. There are many children in the two big uncle's family in front of my home, and there are rubber bands, glass balls, hacky bags, and shuttlecock in his home. At that time, we earned enough envy. And there was a smell in his kitchen that was like burning a certain kind of wood, which I really liked to smell, but I don't even know what it was. After primary school began the morning reading class, every day at about six o 'clock, the hutong began to hear early people Shouting with their own class to go to school, the door banged, I still remember my mother recalled that at that time, I felt that the whole hutong was hopeful. I grew up is definitely a good girl in the village, after school to cook, take younger brother, sheep this is not arranged. But occasionally forget to bring the key, but do not know where the parents go to do farm work is the most testing me, I once answered on a paper "please use the basis of… Judge… "Such a question, answer: I judged the direction of the wheel print at the door of my mother to do farm work in which field. The first time I looked at the big Red Cross on the paper was not sad, because it made me more firmly believe that everyone did not know this way, even the teacher did not know. But it worked so well that at one point it gave me the illusion that I had the talent to be a detective. My primary school is in the Middle East of the village, in fact, it is closer to my home than my classmates in the west of the village, but my legs were too short at that time, and I always felt that the school was far away from home. I envy my classmates who live near the school, envy them to sleep for a long time, and I can go home next class. But grandpa's home is next to the school, will go to grandpa's home to drink water after class, go to grandpa's home to eat steamed bread after school, long body that time is always hungry, hungry after school can not insist on going back to their own home. The earliest school has several table tennis tables, of course, for us that is more like a "stage", we sing their childhood and ignorance on the stage, in the stage to grab a place on the stage, from the stomach up to the tiptoe can sit on, change more than height ah. We can step on a flower bed in the grass can not grow out, can pull the flower bed on both sides of the Longjava tree naked, but also the door on the new glass "accidentally" smashed. The more you don't let the close place the more curious, lying on the window peeking at the office, eavesdropping on the teachers under the door, secretly going to the teacher's toilet, curious about everything that can't be approached, and even feel that the teacher's toilet is fragrant! In the summer, we "sell water" in the classroom, you give me a notebook paper or a lead in an automatic pen, I let you drink a drink of water, good relationship can drink two. Their complete homework is not needed, but the various colors and types of homework paper earned by "selling water" are stapled into a small, rare, which is probably the so-called sense of achievement. In winter, one of us squatted in a dustpan and let another classmate pull the ski. Yesterday was fighting, today can be hard enough to let you drink more water friendship. To say long love, it has to mention the school gate to sell snacks, first at the school gate, then there is a commissary, and then her commissary became a supermarket, when I was in she, I left she is still in. She was a very powerful proprietress, with a loud voice, more than enough to handle us terrible children. The village is now in ruins, and everything that once existed there seems to have never existed. I still do not dare to look at the house I have lived for more than 20 years after it was pushed to the appearance, there are some things we must admit, that is change, everything is in constant motion, when a thing has completely lost its original appearance, you are used to seeing and accepting its later appearance, then who will care about the past, and why care about the past. So I don't want to see it, I think at least these years it is still the same as before. After all, there is a brick, a tile, a grass and a tree have made up the first 20 years of my life, and I even feel very sorry that I can not get married from that house, and how can I accept its broken and messy now.

Emotions in the Internet

Today's society, food, clothing, housing, everything has the involvement of science and technology, everything is inseparable from intelligence, I do not know when to start, even emotions need to be maintained by the network. We have to affirm that modern science and technology bring us too much convenience and provide a lot of help for our life. Parents who might once have seen each other for a year or even years can now be seen on video. Headquarters meetings that once took days to put together can now be done on video. What used to take a few pages to pour out is now just a wechat message that can be sent at any time. In this way, every one of us relies on the network, everyone believes in the network, with the extensive social contact, we have too many emotions that should not exist, become sensitive, irritable, imaginative, and even imitate all the hysteria, for the sake of things that will not be depressed, tears, corruption, and even suicide. I admit the existence of depression, but also believe that there are too many people under high pressure, unable to vent, people laugh before, people cry after, but do these have nothing to do with the negative copy we usually see? At work, the popularity of universities, the influence of finance, and the saturation of jobs have caused the accumulation of pressure. In life, this is the child we act as the role of parents, provoke the burden of life. In love, firewood, rice, oil and salt have polished the romance, but the heart is unwilling. Slowly feel that no one can understand, no one can do empathy, dating software, chat tools began to rise, all the backlog of the collapse, at that moment has been vented, people gradually from the cold text felt unprecedented warmth, that this is friends, this is love, although a little late, but it still came. In the network to get a bit of recognition, respect, and then live in the false, this is this sick society, sick of us.

Academic ambition profoundly influences, if not determines, achievement and happiness in life

Wukong tells us that the ambition to study, if not the decision, is also a profound impact on life achievement and happiness. And scientific research proves it. A study published in the European Economic Review by Warn N. Lekfuangfu of the Carlos III University of Madrid in Spain and Reto Odermatt of the University of Basel in Switzerland provides a comprehensive analysis of the decisive role of adolescents' educational and professional aspirations, exploring the relationship between aspirations and achievement. And how aspirations affect later life (after age 50). The authors used data from the Longitudinal National Child Development Study. Following more than 17,000 people born in the same week in 1958, the study completed 10 surveys since 1958 and collected data on socioeconomic background, including parental background and skills, teenage aspirations and life expectations, adult life achievements (including educational and career achievements) and life satisfaction. The early surveys also asked the subjects' parents about their expectations for their children, as well as teachers' predictions about their children's future achievements. Research has found that having high aspirations drives higher achievement later in life. While other factors also influence achievement, such as cognitive ability or parental education, individual and parental aspirations appear to be the biggest drivers. Quantitatively speaking, career achievement at age 50 is strongly correlated with aspirations during adolescence, and aspirations formed during adolescence determine career achievement almost as much as cognitive ability. The authors note that while ambition is partly influenced by socioeconomic background (children from poor families tend to have lower aspirations, for example), overall parental aspirations have a greater impact on children's aspirations than socioeconomic background, and these aspirations drive achievement further. Thus, parents encouraging their children to have greater aspirations, such as encouraging them to seek higher education or apply for positions they may have initially felt were impossible, can help them achieve more. Many economists have previously studied the effects of a student's intelligence, ambition, family background, and university reputation on future achievement (as measured by career status and income), and while the conclusions are inconsistent, one thing is certain: Who young people want to be when they are 18 (entering college) is a better predictor of their future achievements than the school they graduated from when they are 22 (graduating from college).

"Love you, like love life" after reading

As a reader, although it is difficult to experience Mr. Wang Xiaobo's sincere feelings, but as a bystander, I would like to talk about my feelings of Wang Xiaobo's "Love you like Love Life" book. This book may seem small at first glance, but it is much thought-provoking when re-examined. Mr. Wang Xiaobo, his writing is also like his person, sharp and deep, unique style, is indeed rare. Just like his book "Love You like Love Life", although the time is short and the length is limited, but it contains philosophy, narrative is fierce, are still a wonderful chapter of modern literature. The book can be divided into three sections of the examination, the first cut, like the light flashed from the fog, at first glance, it makes people slightly confused, and then think it is hidden wisdom, profound connotation, and extraordinary insight and life perception; Second cut, the text is like a mirror, reflecting the various faces of real life, although sharp, but undoubtedly true; At the end, the emotion burns like a spark burning in the night, illuminating the softest and most sincere glimmer of the heart. In the book, he tells the story of his struggle with life, as well as his deep attachment to love and his soul mate. In Wang's writing, love is the hard bone in life, the strength to straighten the spine when weak, and even the courage to look at the world coldly. He used words to describe a vast and deep emotional landscape, where deep, is the love of life, and the care of the heart of the lover.If you want to interpret this book from Mr. Qian Zhongshu's point of view, perhaps it is that life is a lifetime, plants and trees in the autumn, love is like water, flowing. "Love you like love life" is actually warning us that people's life is short and limited, and we should cherish the people in front of us, cherish the life in front of us, and enjoy the sufferings, joys and sorrows of the world. The love for Ms. Bao Haoran is the main line of Wang Xiaobo, and the rare honesty makes every word full of emotional power. Under the guidance of such emotions, Wang's philosophical views on life become more and more profound, such as love, career, life and other things, all reveal a deep, direct and fearless love for life. The Condor lovers are deeply in love, and the love of the Mandarin ducks is eternal. Life is short, why not drink dew, raise your glass to invite the moon, enjoy the beauty of life? Life is like a big dream that comes and goes in a hurry, and all we can do is enjoy it to the fullest and show our deepest love and gratitude to those who can share it with us. In this way, Wang Xiaobo's "Love you like love life", so let me flash the light of reflection.

The status and function of Chinese local Chronicles in historical records

On the origin of China's historical records, we should be the most ancient books and spring and Autumn. Zhang Xuecheng (1738-1801) said that the six classics are all history, that the ancients did not have a hard time to understand, and the six classics were all the rules of the previous king. Gong Zizhen (1792-1841) believed that the Six Classics were the grandsons of Zhou history. The I Ching is the history of divination, the Shujing is the history of recording speech, and the Spring and Autumn Annals is the history of recording events. The national style is the historian from the folk poetry and to pay the music, the elegant song is the historian from the scholar-official, the ritual is the law of the generation, all belong to the historian. In this way, it is related to history. Later, the works of the convention, general convention, and general examination of various special legal documents were also included in historical records, which adequately shows that when we want to study the comprehensive culture of society, we will naturally expand the scope of collection of historical materials. Otherwise, they can only be confined to the small circle of political history. In any case, according to the increasingly sophisticated view of today's book classification, Shang Shu and Spring and Autumn annals should always be precious historical records in ancient times. Since Sima Qian wrote historical records and Ban Gu and his son wrote Hanshu in the Han Dynasty, there has been a distinction between classics and history in the concept of ordinary people. During the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties, and the early Tang Dynasties, the private practice of history was flourishing, and there were more and more poems and essays, and more and more books collected. Originally according to the content of the book classification as seven slightly, to the Jin Dynasty and there are four divisions. The book of war, techniques, techniques into the sub-section, poetry and Fu into the collection, into the classics, history, Zi, collection four. The meaning of this classification seems to be that the book is the great origin of the nation, the history is the sign of social and cultural development, the son is the reason of individual exploration, and the set is the emotional expression of the spirit of individual freedom. The history of classics is high in the world, and the Oriental culture is somehow cast into the characteristics of academic spirit that pay attention to the general and comprehensive, only seek to accommodate each other, despise the abstract division and opposition, and skills are not respected in academia, so the scholars and scholars intertwine the history of classics, and even the history of literature can not be separated. Until the Qing Dynasty Qianlong opened the museum to reorganize the four libraries, the classification is still the same, the history Department listed 15 categories of subheadings, and only 150 kinds of local records. Although there are many historical records, later generations can not be organized into a complete and systematic Chinese general history and cultural history. In the 19th year of the Republic of China, Qu Pingzhi sighed in the preface to the draft of the local annals: "There is a reason why our people cannot understand our national nature, and there is no real historical reason." History does not know the trace of all social activity, and focuses only on the outstanding deeds of one or two persons, just as I know today that the thoughts and actions of those who circle around me are much the same, and that those who are a little further away from me are glued to hundreds of years ago and have changed little." Yu Shaosong also said in Preface 3 of the draft of the Local Annals: "In the field of national history today, there is no special department, and the genre of works should also be slightly changed. It is necessary to use the example of the general aspiration, covering the local social situation, and not focusing on the central politics, which is reasonable, of course, and also when the situation is inevitable, if it depends on the local aspiration. In recent times, although politics has changed repeatedly, we have not been able to harmonized with human rights. National affairs 臲卼 are the reason for this." From this point of view, the accumulation of historical materials in our country is indeed a lot, but it is a pity that the study of history needs to be reviewed again! Since Tang and Song dynasties, the compilation of historical records has evolved a lot, and the evolution of official cultivation has been the royal records in the form of Chronicles, the official history in the form of Chronicles, the Canon of etiquette, and the local records with emphasis on geography. There are also the formal history of the chronicle, the history of the other, the chronicle of the end of the matter as the main line, the general examination of the annals, the special history of the Canon, the genre and the content have improved. History also gave birth to two outstanding figures. One is Liu Zhiji (661-721) in the Tang Dynasty, he took the historical books made by the family, elucidates the examples, discusses the benefits of the disease, and has survived the history of the book, unique commentary. The other was Zhang Xuecheng (1738-1801), who had compiled records for Hezhou, Yongqing and Bozhou, and had worked as an aide to Bi Yuan, compiling the general records of Hubei. He was the first person to attach importance to local aspirations, experience the matter personally, and put forward specific suggestions. Both men are worthy historians. Since human beings have the concept of time, they no longer cut the chains of the past, present and future, which is the root of historical interest. With the concept of space, and thirst for geographical knowledge. The evolution of life has made the system of cultural relics increasingly complex. The discussion of history extends from geometric straight lines to horizontal stretches. China's land is large, the population is large, the mountain climate is different, the transportation in the past is far less convenient than in the recent days, and it is easier to form local characteristics. It is obvious that a national history compiled by only a few people cannot cover the whole social phenomenon in various places. With the development of The Times, local Chronicles were initiated in the Ming Dynasty and flourished in the Qing Dynasty, and have now become the important corner of historical records. This is why we want to introduce local records. Since the compilation of local records was advocated in the Ming Dynasty, the Qing Dynasty was prosperous. Under the cover of Chinese studies, the author first pays attention to the history of classics, and then adds the afterglow of the history of literature, and the local records collected in the library in the early years have a specific level. In fact, with the encouragement of the Government's general orders, all the historical materials collected by local masters are trustworthy and are not limited to the official collections. According to Zhu Shijia's statistics, there were 4,655 kinds of local Chronicles compiled in the Qing Dynasty, 1,286 in the Kangxi period and 1,024 in the Qianlong period. Zhili has the largest number of 403 species, while Sichuan, Jiangxi, Shandong, Henan, Shaanxi and Zhejiang each have more than 300 species. In 1930, he counted 4,912 local Chronicles in China. In 1935, the total number of species was 5,832, 93,237 volumes, 730 species were identified in 1938, and 700 more were identified in 1958. This brings the total to 7,262 species. Compared with the official history, the volumes are so numerous that no one can really read them all with the energy of his life. But we needn't have done that. As long as you know that this is a historically unexplored mountain forest, there are many treasures to be discovered. Now, according to Gu Jiegang's preface to the Chinese Local Chronicles, the main points of the general local Chronicles are as follows: Geography - evolution, territory, area, division; Politics - establishment, staffing, troop preparation, memorabilia; Economy - household registration, land taxes, goods, tariffs; Society - customs, dialects, temples, auspicious differences; Literature - people, art, stone, historical sites; It is clear that the annals are extensive in content and that the materials they draw from archives, letters and stone tablets are very credible. It is only true to say that "to correct history, the correct history shows its inadequacy". This means that local Chronicles have also become an important part of historical records in terms of quantity and content. In the 19th year of the Republic of China, Qu published an examination of the local Chronicles, including both the Chronicles of Jiangsu, Hebei, Shandong, Henan, Shanxi, Liaoning, Jilin and Heilongjiang provinces, listing the dates of compilation, the names of the authors, the history of the old Chronicles, and the number of volumes, as well as distinguishing styles and commenting on the achievements and losses, paying special attention to the special history, which was a document to guide the study of the local Chronicles. In addition, in the 20th year of the Republic of China, the local Chronicles collected by the Imperial Palace were catalogued and published, and in the 22nd year, after the merger of the Peking Library and Beihai Library, more than 3,800 local Chronicles were collected and catalogued. In 23 years, Zhu Shijia compiled a comprehensive catalogue of local Chronicles, listing more than 5,000 kinds. Zhu Shijia saw only three thousand kinds in Peiping, and later visited the provincial catalogs of Hanfenlou in Shanghai, the Xujiahui Catholic Church Collection, Jinling University, Nanyang Middle School, Sun Yat-sen University, and knew that Wang Shoushan had more than one th […]

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