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[People's life] The hospital of Traditional Chinese medicine a few years ago, the card has surplus money, can also be returned?

A few days ago, cleaning, find out a doctor's card of a hospital of traditional Chinese medicine, only to remember that the balance of one or two hundred yuan has not been used up, as if this kind of doctor's card has not been used up, can it be returned? … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … How do you know how much balance is in it? Shouldn't you be at the hospital? … It's expired. … Where can I deposit money on this card… Can be returned should, I am not used in Xi 'an to come back to return. … Netizen: Hello! Please bring your ID card and medical card to the charging window on the first floor of our outpatient clinic to check for refund procedures. If you encounter special circumstances, please go to the first floor service desk for consultation, our staff will help you. … It's a smart thing to do, you know? Haha… I'm out of my depth… Haha, rabbit Shanghai Zhongguancun development is good ah, behind the city of happiness, there is also a fountain light show on the other side of the Canal Park, the light show is very beautiful, light and shadow changes, water dance flying, feeling that the effect of spending money is quite lively, there are a lot of people, just don't know if it is every night? Or just a few days a week? Does anyone know? It feels good to take a walk there at night and look at the light show. Where is the location? Every night? … The house could go up a bit… Pretty… Stop dreaming. It'll keep falling… The South River commercial complex has been planned on the east side of the North garden of Happiness City. … Friday to Sunday, north of the north garden of the Happy city… I heard that houses in the north of the city fell even more. … There are many exhaust gases in industrial parks, and the prices of second-hand houses and dismantled houses in industrial parks have fallen, and many of them have to rot in their hands. Well, I'll tell my friend not to take the house north of town. … If you bought it in the first half of the year, it's not a problem to lose 100,000… The river next to it stinks. It spoils the view… Fell 5500 a square meter 2 hand room… At this rate of population decline, at this rate of economic decline, the house price of 3,500 is not necessarily affordable… Long named happy city, so later more and more happy. … It's only $5,000 over there now… The green door by the fountain is a failure. The whole park is so beautiful. It's better to put something like a green ghost door than nothing at all… Houses are not for speculation, they are for living, and those who say that they have fallen and risen are not interesting. … The strength of the choice of Yanshan New District, it is said that the Yanshan New District school district is not so good, ordinary families, you can buy the transition of the happy city, marry a wife always buy a house, and then you can change to improve the type. There is no denying that Happiness City is currently the center of Zhongguancun, the east is attached to the South Normal University primary School, the west is attached to the South Normal University Middle School, both front and back are parks. The middle street is a busy street, nothing wrong with that. Up and down, you are not investing, there is no need to get too entangled. … Ask your friend to buy Yanshan New District, which is 2-3 million. … Light night landscape beautification floating bright! … Pay the loan… Could it?

Exploring the culture deep in my memory: walking into Chaoshan villages

"A star at the zenith opens a study underground." -- "Good Praise Guangdong" online work collection competition "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity" kicked off with a Chaoshan folk song, focusing on various traditional cultural customs during the New Year in Chaoshan, the creator Chen Qiang visited various parts of Chaoshan, the shooting lasted nearly two months. Ying song and dance, "Ying Master", Chaozhou opera, burning fire dragon, jumping fire, fireworks… Fireworks, colorful dazzling, Chen Qiang in the picture many times clever use of night and fireworks light and shade contrast, to create a harmonious romantic atmosphere, there is Xin Qiji's "east wind night flowers thousands of trees." More blow down, stars like rain "" Feng Xiao sound moving, jade pot light turn, night fish dragon dance" scene. The music combines the music of the Chaoshan opera, with the smart camera switch and the moving mirror, and the rhythm is full, showing the vitality of the New Year and the youth of the Chaoshan traditional culture in the new era. "Nowadays, more and more young people are interested in local culture and traditional folk customs." Chen Qiang said that through the short video new media platform, as long as the content is interesting and meets the tastes of young people, netizens at home and abroad are willing to "like" and exchange, which is a great radiation. With an audience, there are correspondingly more creators. In addition, Chen Qiang also has some friends around him, who are not only interested in the shooting of traditional folk customs, but also continue to collect information and practice to spread and promote. The more he came into contact with Chaoshan traditional culture, the stronger Chen Qiang's preference for it, including those traditional cultures he was not willing to contact before. "Chaozhou opera has not received much attention among young people of my generation. Its tone and performance mode are not very attractive to young people." At the beginning of this year, Chen Qiang rushed around the small villages of Chaoshan, into the Chaozhou opera performance stage, the Chaozhou opera's clothing, makeup, front and back of the stage are all recorded in the camera, and he felt how the actors carefully prepared for the play. "Once I got to know them and filmed them, it was fun to sit in the audience and watch them perform." Chen Qiang has never felt this way before. The seats around him were dominated by people in their 50s, with few young people. At this moment, he thought of his parents. "In the past, there was no TV to watch, and everyone gathered in front of the ancestral hall at night, simply pulling up the curtain was a weekly Chaozhou opera screening." In the days before television, they learned about the plot of Journey to the West and some allusions to Chaoshan through Chaoshan dramas." Chaozhou opera, carrying the joy and joy of the young people of that era, has also become a memory that they can not erase. Traditional culture and customs are a treasure buried deep in the memory of everyone. The small changes of folk activities reflect the changes of rural life. For example, the very lively "Ying Master" activity in "Chaoshan Year - Peace and Prosperity", as a very representative folk ritual cultural activity in Chaoshan area, has also had a lot of new changes in Chen Qiang's eyes. "In the past, the road for 'Ying master' was very difficult to walk, but now there is a large venue for such events, the road surface is more spacious and the environment is much better." Chen Qiang recalled that in the past, there were more old houses, and weeds and paper scraps everywhere were easy to cause fires. Now the "Ying master" is equipped with better safety measures, such as the fire dragon, which has a relatively perfect fire emergency plan.

New voice: "Generation Z" set off the pear garden trend

At the foot of the Yellow Crane Tower, along the river into the bustling old streets of Wuchang, where there is an ancient theater hidden. Every weekend, the gongs and drums are clanging, the play is even on the stage, and the audience is not only stumbling old fans, but also college students from surrounding schools, and tourists who come to the nearby Tanhualin scenic spots. "The Yongfang Ancient Theater used to be an old 'theater den' in Wuchang, but it has been dormant for years due to disrepair, and sometimes there are more actors on stage than there are audiences off stage." What impressed Guo Guowei, head of the Chu Troupe of Hubei Provincial Opera Art Theater, was that after the Spring Festival this year, the renovated ancient theater was opened to the public again, and this time, it seemed to "come alive". Watching the seats of 200 people were slowly filled, and even the scene was full, Guo Guowei felt that the theater was "reborn", and the spring of the opera was coming again! At the scene, the reporter saw the figure of the familiar young actors, and also got a glimpse of the ancient theater "popular" password. Compared with the tension before a performance at a local opera and art festival, the actors here are significantly relaxed, and the backstage laughter is constantly. "I have performed a lot of times, at the beginning there will be pressure, gradually more comfortable, confident, especially after every performance to hear the audience's warm applause, is my happiest time." Said Li Yang, a Huangmei Opera actor born in 2003. Yongfang Ancient Theater has become a position for young actors to accumulate stage experience. "Young actors need a platform to show their performances, and traditional opera also needs the relay and vitality of the new generation." Mei Pengcheng, general manager of Hubei Opera Art Theater, said that regular performances by the orientation class students who just graduated from Hubei Vocational College of Art not only gave young people the opportunity to exercise, but also attracted many young fans and literary and artistic youth, and the old theater became a new "Internet red" place, and it was an instant red on social media. National Vocational College Skills Competition Opera Performance Award, Chinese Children's Opera Little Plum Blossom Festival, the ninth China Peking Opera Art Festival… From the small theater to the big stage, this batch of skilled and excellent character of the new drama has been in a number of provincial and national important performances and awards. In April this year, Beijing Meilanfang Grand Theater, nearly a thousand audience watched the fourth "Lihua Cup" national youth drama education and teaching achievements exhibition activity, the Han opera "Sizhou City" and the Chu opera "Three Dozen Golden Branches" instrumental performance performed by young actors trained by Hubei Vocational College of Art won the "Excellent exhibition work" and "Music Exhibition" awards, which were highly praised by the industry. In addition to the rapid growth of a number of "post-00" rookies, "post-90" and "post-80" new stars have also shone on the stage. Not long ago, the 14th Hubei Drama Peony Awards were presented in Wuhan. More than 10 young opera performers from Hubei, including Sun Shuaikang and Yi Weizi, took the stage to accept the awards. Their operas covered Peking Opera, Han Opera, Chu Opera, Hubei Yue Tune and Flower Drum Opera. A blossoming "peony flowers" blooming stage, for the budding "plum blossom" ready to go. That night, the Huimin performance attracted fans from the three towns of Wuhan to compete to go to the Jingyun stage was full. Sun Shuaikang, 25, won acclaim for his performance in the Hubei Yue tune "Small Dinner". "We learned from the performance characteristics of Jin opera, with feathers to show Lu Bu's mood." Sun Shuaikang explained, "When I went to Changzhi, Shanxi Province to learn from the teacher, it was snowing that day, the teacher said, you are the fourth to come to me to learn, the people in front of you finally gave up, you are sure you can endure hardship?" This bitter Sun Shuaikang ate. The head is extremely tight, with the neck force, control the two feathers on the head dancing, two hundred circles in the morning and two hundred circles in the afternoon every day, he practiced for a whole year, "after practicing, after vomiting, continue." "Hubei Yue Tune is a non-heritage drama, condensing the efforts of the elders, although the middle was once asleep and on the verge of extinction, but now that we have entered this group, we must shoulder the responsibility of inheritance." At the same time, we will learn from big operas and add innovative elements such as coloratura, so that the road of Hubei Yue Tune will become wider and wider." Sun Shuaikang said. Wang Xinmin, the old head of the troupe, is pleased that compared with the old facilities and morale of the troupe ten years ago, there are now a large number of talents. In 2014, a new play "Looking at Sun Sun" saved the old Hekou Yu Opera Company at that time. Later, the company changed its focus from Henan opera to revitalizing Hubei Yuetao, and changed its name to Laohekou Hubei Yuetao Xianren Flower Drum Opera Art Protection and Inheritance Center. Since 2016, the company has recruited nearly 30 new young people, and the average age of actors is now 23, with the youngest being 16. When the reporter came to the waiting area of the Peony Award performance, not only the actors, but also the musicians, makeup artists and logistics teams of the troupe were all young faces, and the breath of youth came to their faces. They are active in front of the stage and behind the scenes, and are determined to become the leading actors and top talents of various kinds of dramas and drama groups in Hubei Province. In 1989, He Jingzhi, a famous poet and playwright, made a special trip from Beijing to Wuhan and gladly wrote an inscription for the newly established "Hubei Drama Peony Award" - "The leader has an early spring, competing for peony flowers". Time flies, Hubei Drama Peony Flower Award has gone through 34 years. Among the 32 winners of the "Plum Blossom Award" in Hubei Province, 28 of them went from the "Peony Flower Award" to the podium of the "Plum Blossom Award" and "Erdu Plum" of the Chinese Dramatists Association, becoming the leader of today's drama stage. Yang Jun, chairman of Hubei Provincial Federation of Literature and Arts and a famous Huangmei Opera artist, encouraged the young actors at the award ceremony: "This honor confirms your hard work and persistent efforts to pursue your dream stage, and represents your love and sincere feelings for the art profession and drama career."

When people are old, these three things are best rotten in the belly and do not tell their children

First, it's about the past. "We learn wisdom from adversity, and virtue from pain." This saying tells us that most people will experience hardships or make mistakes in some things in their life, but we should believe that it is these experiences that temper our strong mind and optimistic attitude. When we look back, many things are not worth mentioning, which is also a reflection of wisdom. Therefore, when people are old, there is no need to easily tell their children about the "ugly things" even if they are rotten in the belly. On the one hand, these things are not honorable, if let our children know, it may damage their image of us, and even set a bad example. For example, many older people may have drunk too much alcohol or made ugly mistakes when they were younger, and these things are not worth mentioning. Second, it is about complaining that their children are not promising. "In this world, some people do not necessarily have money to get love; Having money does not necessarily make you happy; Happiness does not necessarily lead to health; Having good health doesn't always work out." Everyone has their own path in life, and we can't help our children forever. When we are old, our children have reached a certain age and understand the truth of life. As parents, we should encourage them instead of complaining about their failure. No matter what happens, we should look at it with optimism, as the saying goes. As long as you and your children are in good health, this is already a great wealth. Finally, there is the distribution of property. "Only those who live in humble circumstances have the best chance to see the truth of society in all its forms." "Humble" here can be understood to mean that when we are in a weak position or do not have much earning power, we are better able to see the reality of people and social conditions around us. As the saying goes, "The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, but the poor have no one to ask in the busy city." Therefore, when people are old, even if the children are dutiful, do not easily disclose the distribution of property. After all, many elderly people need to be taken care of by their children in their later years, and if the distribution of property is disclosed too early, the children may feel that it is unfair, resulting in estrangement, affecting their relationship with each other and not conducive to their later life.

Pastoral IP, a cyberhealing place for urbanites

"After the eaves of elm willows, in front of the peaches and plums. Like-like to the remote village 墟里 smoke." Those idyllic poems engraved in memory are the concentration and echo of ancient farming civilization. But it's only been a year or two since the idyllic drama began to emerge. Following the phenomenon of the pastoral healing drama "To the windy place" starring Liu Yifei at the beginning of the year triggered the longing of the whole network of social animals, iQiyi's new drama "Field Cultivation" continued to sing pastoral songs, with the novel setting of "holographic game + farming" to attract attention, the market share of Yunhe was as high as 16.7%, the total number of plays of the series has broken 500 million, leading the October network drama market. Netizens called "farming text into reality, addictive." Golden fields of rice and wheat, white clouds and birds, trees and trees, the house is simple, the countryside as a utopia of urban people's hearts, as if a tried-and-tested medicine. But how long will this wind last? Can "Pastoral Healing" really be a new genre? In the 1980s and 1990s, most of the rural dramas were based on heavy literary works, with a strong reality background, and the characters and protagonists were deeply portrayed, such as "Fence · Woman and Dog", "Snowstorm Tonight", "Peasant" and "Foreign Sister", etc., focusing on the differences between urban and rural areas. After entering the 21st century, the country drama also has a new look, "rural love" and "Liu Laogen" such light comedy began to be born. In recent years, the main theme of rural revitalization plays are many, such as "Mountain and sea situation", "Flower mountain Township" and "Daughter of mountains", writing various stories between grassroots cadres and native villagers for the construction of the countryside, the focus is on the collision of ideas of different groups, where the countryside is revitalized with survival resilience. In the past, the audience group of local dramas has always been relatively fixed, mainly audiences with rural life experience or curiosity about rural life, overlapping types of audiences such as comedies, period dramas, etc., or original fans, on the whole, are circular, which is somewhat inconsistent with the current young market. After all these years of rapid urbanization, the "discourse" of the countryside is somewhat diminished. Today, the classic IP "Rural love" has been broadcast to the 15th, and the parents are still short and scattered, and the Northeast rural fireworks are unconsciously affecting the audience's cognition of the countryside. For example, Chen Xiao and Li Qin's "The Road to Life", although Lu Yao's "Life" as the base, but also because of the black and thin Liu Qiaozhen, the image of rural people is too rigid, and urban dramas often used to sharpen the conflict of rural people "clown", are with subjective bias of art processing. But the appearance of "pastoral healing drama", whether from the audience or the interpretation of the countryside, has made people have a new look. There is a strange phenomenon in the drama market: when you see a more mature blockbuster, there are probably some similar works before it, which is a kind of undercurrent like momentum. Before the emergence of the circle level work "Go to the Place with wind", in 2022, Youku's "Small Forest of Two people" and iQiyi's "He Jiajia's Peach Blossom Source" are all taking the route of pastoral healing dramas, but "Small Forest" takes the male and female main love as the main line, and is more inclined to sweet pet dramas. The "He Jiajia" starring is a small transparent show business, although the quality of the series is not bad, in Douban can get 7.9 high scores, but there is not much water when broadcast. "To the place with wind" can be said to be beyond the shortcomings of the previous pastoral drama - starring Liu Yifei, Li now has its own flow discussion degree, but also jumped out of the main man and woman "to fall in love in another place" plot limitations. The group picture depicts success, integrates the propositions of young people returning home to start a business and survive, and truly explores the value and significance of pastoral utopia. For the young people who are rushing around the city grid at present, the emotional resonance and value of "Wind" are undoubtedly incomparable.

Is Analects really so great?

Many people have heard of the book The Analects of Confucius. So, what kind of book is the Analects of Confucius? Simply put, the Analects of Confucius is a dialogue between the great sage Confucius and his disciples, which is the chat record of the sage. Of course, the saints talk, not parents, not star gossip, they talk about learning, talk about ideals, talk about self-improvement, talk about governance, talk about all the topics that gentlemen care about. It can be said that most of the essence of Confucius' thought and doctrine are concentrated in this book. Thoughtful students may find that the "theory" of the Analects is clearly the "theory" of discussion, but why not read the second sound and read the fourth sound? This should start from the origin of the book of the Analects. Although the Analects of Confucius mainly records the words of Confucius, it was not written by Confucius himself. According to the explanation of "Han Shu Yi Wen Zhi", the Analects of Confucius was edited by his disciples and his disciples after his death, and the so-called "Analects" means "the compilation of words", which is the "sayings of saints" edited by Confucius's disciples and grandchildren. Now the prevailing "Analects of Confucius" a total of 20, more than 11,000 words, each take the first two or three words as the title, that is, everyone sees "learning and" "for politics" "Gongyechang" and so on. Confucius is known as the "sage of the time", is the "master" among the saints, so he is also respected as "the most sage teacher", which is the reason why the main hall in the Confucius Temple is entitled "Hall of Great success". Confucius is the only one who can get the title of "Dacheng" in Chinese history. The Analects of Confucius, as a classical book recording the words of sages, has been valued since the Song Dynasty and is a compulsory subject in the ancient imperial examinations. The examiner often draws a sentence or a few words from it as the topic of the proposition essay. The ancients have a saying that "half the Analects rule the world". It is said that Zhao Pu, the prime minister of the Song Dynasty, was proud of his life, and as a successful person, he admitted when sharing his successful experience that he did not read other books, and all knowledge came from the Analects of Confucius. During the war, he used "half the Analects to rule the world"; In peacetime, he also used "half the Analects to govern peace". "Analects of Confucius" function is not big, look at the prime minister Zhao as the Song dynasty CEO, marry Bai Fumei, to the peak of life example is enough. However, if you have normal intelligence and the spirit of independent thinking, after reading through the Analects of Confucius, you will have doubts: can Confucius and his disciples really govern the country well with these fragments of words? Du Fu has a poem, "children's learning ends in the Analects of Confucius", which means that the Analects is a textbook for children's enlightenment. The truth always catches you off guard. What most people think of as the Confucian "Bible" turns out to be only entry-level reading. Of course, the primer does not mean that the Analects is not important. In fact, the Analects is concise and comprehensive, profound philosophy, many sentences have become deeply popular aphorisms, such as "do not do to others what you do not want to do", "think twice before you act", "haste makes waste" and so on. A close reading of the Analects of Confucius, although it can not "rule the world", has a good guiding effect on our understanding of traditional culture, especially on self-cultivation, learning and life.

Third, the struggle: Equality and capital

For the communicator, social relations seem to be nothing more than a free, optional and changeable interpersonal interaction, so that the "reality" as it is understood is nothing more than a collection of external phenomena and information perceived by the individual. In this sense, the "blending of virtuality and reality" is nothing more than the "similarity" of fleeting appearances and their replicas, neither of which is the real reality. On the contrary, Marxist social relations are reality itself. To criticize this aspect is to grasp the essence of the meta-universe to a large extent. There are two approaches to such criticism: one is to actively maintain the meta-universe and the powerful productive forces it represents, and to be vigilant and transform the hierarchical relationships in it; The other is to completely return to the technical level and production relations of the metauniverse, to return to Marx's critique of capital, to reveal that the essence of the metauniverse is nothing but the condensation of capital under the production of new technologies. For the former approach, some scholars have used Marx's "phantom metaphor" and pointed out quite perceptively that the real effect of the "meta-cosmic structure" is that "the relations between people acquire the nature of a virtual body, and thus acquire a 'ghostly object', which masks its basic essence with its strict, seemingly perfect and reasonable autonomy." That is, all traces of the relationship between people ", "the meta-universe is not a romantic illusion that has got rid of the real social relations", it is precisely based on the "real social relations", is "a new landscape, a reshaping of social relations presented under virtual and digital technology". Such social relations are, of course, hierarchical and involve material interests, for which the meta-universe becomes a disguised instrument. However, in his view, we do not have to "destroy the technological foundations of the meta-universe," but to explore "how to use the space of the meta-universe to shape shared and equal social relations." In this regard, removing the centralization of the media platform itself seems to be one of the measures to equalize the meta-universe. This vision of equality is also positively and critically conceived in the latest work of F. Richard Yu: "Like our real-world universe, the meta-universe has developed special socio-economic structures in an orderly manner." It enables the rapid flow of matter, energy, information, and intelligence, effectively reducing the imbalance of matter, energy, information, and intelligence, thereby promoting the stability of the meta-universe and the real-world universe." He argued that metaverse evolution follows the laws of the real universe (such as Maslow's hierarchy of needs), but is faster and creates elements that are not present in the real world. Obviously, for the "equality" that is difficult to achieve in the real universe, we can only hope that the meta-universe, although it is still unequal at present (because it must conform to the laws of the real world first). Compared with the relatively moderate position above, the representative of the latter approach seems to be more austere. In this view, since the development of technology and intelligence is nothing more than "the infinite desire of capital for surplus value", then the sudden emergence of the meta-universe assumption is actually "another wonderful exercise of capital and technology collusion", "but the internal need of financial capital to explore new investment growth points for itself"; Since the meta-universe relies on the "technological base", it must be "a manifestation of technological radicalization promoted by the logic of capital in the big industrial age", in the world of the meta-universe, "people will have to live more and more dependent on the development of network technology", "financial capital will be more and more dependent on the sale of new concepts to sustain its life". When the shelter is removed and the capital is exposed, the relationship between "virtual" and "real" is not the same/different and continuation/rupture in the ideal sense. Whether virtual and reality are parallel or integrated, they are either fierce struggle, or hidden. The metaverse can be a revolutionary opportunity to overturn inequality, but won't it also be a substitute for illusory compensation? In the sense of the above phantom metaphor, will the meta-universe also become an Althusserian picture of an "ideological machine," another kind of spiritual opium? This illusion itself has led many scholars to overlook the capital game at play. The meta-universe is only a new battlefield (or "mental battlefield") of real struggle and compromise. Thus, another meta-problem arises, or an ancient conundrum: how to conceive of a space that is both intrinsically combative and harmonious? Iv. Ontology and the Anthropocene For the previous meta problem, we can also ask, how can we conceive of a more "original" meta

Answer: Because the soul and the body do not match

It is reflected in several aspects: 1, influenced by various literature, film and television works, people with a little level think of themselves very high, and feel that their soul is still interesting, so the soft requirements for the other side are relatively high. 2, but in a society with a hierarchical system of resources, in fact, the combination is more to look at the resources behind, so in the end, it is necessary to look at the background, look at the origin, look at the conditions, so those who say interesting souls in the mouth, when introducing themselves is these copper smelly goods, they will compare their prices.For example, "excellent", as if it is very aspirant and pursued, is actually a ranking under some standard, suggesting some kind of pride in this bovine force and other slag. A child once used excellent to a foreigner was scolded by me, what qualifications do you have to evaluate each other excellent, you are not his mentor, you can only say amazing, interesting and other equal subjective opinions. So on, the so-called spiritual label, seemingly unique pride, is actually the inferiority of hierarchical thinking. 3, so the final combination is actually mostly people who meet the material conditions, and the proportion of spiritual satisfaction is very small. If you do not realize that you are actually a material person, the other person's spirit is not satisfied, the soul is not interesting enough, and you can not accept it for a while, then leave. Or spiritual fit, and the material conditions can not meet the so-called spiritual pursuit, or can not bear, leave. Therefore, often those who do not regard themselves as high and the spiritual pursuit is not high can live on. 4, and then the successful lesson of these people who live a "happy" life is, don't think too much, don't ask too much, just about. Finally, people who "sublimate" in advance of the spirit are not willing to hang on the wall haha. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but this is not something to be proud of, whether you are a man or a woman, material or detached, under a certain level, just labor dividends, is a reproductive donkey, is the fuel of economic development, this is a matter that needs to fight together, rather than complacent victory. So, in the first place, there was no need to communicate.

It's raining. I choose to go

During the day, the sun roasted the city like a little sheep, and in the evening, heaven and earth could not bear it, and there was an unexpected rain. Today did not take an umbrella, first went to the canteen to play scattered rice. There are people everywhere to take shelter from the rain, I chose to go, the wind is worse than the rain, the pedestrian's umbrella is blown over. I'm kind of glad I still have a leaky hat, because of thunderstorms, sometimes heavy, sometimes light. After the rain stopped, I was brushing a small video was interrupted by a phone call from an old classmate, she blamed me for not going out to exercise, lying to fatten up. Had to pick up and go out casually, the outside is cool, if not out, how to know the summer after the rain in the evening so comfortable? Chatting with her all the way, I soon came to my Alma mater, from the side door of the family home all the way to the campus. Through the bridge to another campus, some parts of the campus have changed, the logo of the building is still the same. The library in the sunset light shines brightly against the background of the departing clouds, and the benches by the pool in the campus are replaced with wide strips of wood, shining with their luster before the dark night. The small stone arch bridge on our dormitory college graduation time left a shadow, through the street lamp can see the pool of lotus clusters, they did not bloom. Next to the new school history hall, the iconic red paint and imitation wooden flower carving to pull themselves to see a lot of costume dramas, especially the sad palace drama, afraid of coming out of a very deep resentment of the empress. The young people in the basketball court show their youth and vitality. When riding back, I thought of my pomegranate wine, sweet with sour, nice pink, if you do a Hanfu of this color will be very beautiful. But at the moment I choose to drink it, with a nice wine to write a little feeling. When on campus, there is a feeling of crossing, a kind of unspeakable uncomfortable, is it still a little strange time too fast? Think of the folk song in "Red Xiangxi", and the sad love story. People are the most courageous when they are young, they dare to pursue what they want regardless of everything, perhaps in the eyes of the elderly is reckless, silly, and in a person's life, it is the most meaningful impulse.

"Love you, like love life" after reading

As a reader, although it is difficult to experience Mr. Wang Xiaobo's sincere feelings, but as a bystander, I would like to talk about my feelings of Wang Xiaobo's "Love you like Love Life" book. This book may seem small at first glance, but it is much thought-provoking when re-examined. Mr. Wang Xiaobo, his writing is also like his person, sharp and deep, unique style, is indeed rare. Just like his book "Love You like Love Life", although the time is short and the length is limited, but it contains philosophy, narrative is fierce, are still a wonderful chapter of modern literature. The book can be divided into three sections of the examination, the first cut, like the light flashed from the fog, at first glance, it makes people slightly confused, and then think it is hidden wisdom, profound connotation, and extraordinary insight and life perception; Second cut, the text is like a mirror, reflecting the various faces of real life, although sharp, but undoubtedly true; At the end, the emotion burns like a spark burning in the night, illuminating the softest and most sincere glimmer of the heart. In the book, he tells the story of his struggle with life, as well as his deep attachment to love and his soul mate. In Wang's writing, love is the hard bone in life, the strength to straighten the spine when weak, and even the courage to look at the world coldly. He used words to describe a vast and deep emotional landscape, where deep, is the love of life, and the care of the heart of the lover.If you want to interpret this book from Mr. Qian Zhongshu's point of view, perhaps it is that life is a lifetime, plants and trees in the autumn, love is like water, flowing. "Love you like love life" is actually warning us that people's life is short and limited, and we should cherish the people in front of us, cherish the life in front of us, and enjoy the sufferings, joys and sorrows of the world. The love for Ms. Bao Haoran is the main line of Wang Xiaobo, and the rare honesty makes every word full of emotional power. Under the guidance of such emotions, Wang's philosophical views on life become more and more profound, such as love, career, life and other things, all reveal a deep, direct and fearless love for life. The Condor lovers are deeply in love, and the love of the Mandarin ducks is eternal. Life is short, why not drink dew, raise your glass to invite the moon, enjoy the beauty of life? Life is like a big dream that comes and goes in a hurry, and all we can do is enjoy it to the fullest and show our deepest love and gratitude to those who can share it with us. In this way, Wang Xiaobo's "Love you like love life", so let me flash the light of reflection.

Love too deep, see each other's name feel warm

I used to think that with every passing day, the miss of the past will become lighter. Over time, it will not be remembered. However, when a song is finished, the past echoes back to the melody in its entirety. Scene by scene, clearly emerging. It's like, you know, never left. However, he can no longer participate. Dusk again beautiful, the end of the night. Just like youth, no matter how beautiful, it just belongs to the past. The horizon of the evening, draw a parting. Despite the passage of time and the weakening of my memory, I still remember deeply the goodbyes from those people, as firm as iron. And when it was ground into a embroidery needle by time, it fell to the ground, but how can I find it. Young once, experience is not deep, think of everything is very beautiful. Now look back, look at the thought, was so simple. All that thought was different from what was happening right now. When goodbye is said, it means that this life, all the meeting, can only be in a dream. When the back, gradually walk away. And the laughter, it was never heard again. Those faces, also slowly become blurred. If there is a day to remember, most of them are, have taken a class in a classroom, have worked together in a company, or have been under the same starry sky, counting the same meteor. Besides, if you don't look at the photo, you can't remember what each of you looks like. Always think, life where not meet. The reality is, it never will be. Always thought that the peach blossom pool is a thousand feet deep, less than Wang Lun sent me love. The reality is that falling flowers are intended to go with the water, and the water does not love falling flowers. Life is short, gathering and parting in a hurry. Flowers are better this year than last year. Unfortunately, next year's flowers will be better. Destined to meet, I turn around, you also turn back. However, we are still strangers to each other. Life, often encounter, but not every paragraph is moved. Flowers bloom, love is shallow. Shallow but, you stand on the other side of the wave, I only smile back. Love too deep, see each other's name, feel warm.

As a child, the sound of firecrackers can drive away the bad luck of the year

In my memory, there is no bad radish, stewed vegetables, and I feel that there is no taste of the New Year. There is no long several hanging whip, ear-shaking double cannon, and I feel that there is no New Year's weather, my father often said, "the sound of guns can drive away the bad luck of the year." On New Year's Eve that year, my mother prepared lunch: stewed vegetables and stir-fried radishes. Radish is bad, boiled meat soup, pour water fried radish slices, soak for a few days, radish will enter the meat flavor, which is what I said "New Year"; Stewed vegetables, cooked pork belly, cut into millimeter thick slices, hot pan fried rich fat, and cabbage, vermicelli stewed together, with boiled pork belly, cabbage and vermicelli are also into the "New Year flavor". It was a must-have for Chinese New Year when I was a kid. Mother cut the meat and said that father was not back. After days of heavy snow, the gray and black village was wrapped in a thick quilt, and the road leading from the village could only be discerned by the footprints and ruts of sparse Lala. Father went to the town early in the morning, and the town was not far away, let alone by bike. The mother wanted to go out to see, but suddenly, hearing the clanging bolt, she put down her knife and meat, went from the kitchen to the living room, pushed open the cotton curtain hanging in front of the house, and then a stream of hot air rushed out of the door, only to be forced back by the cold inside the courtyard, and the white fog formed during the struggle spread everywhere. It was my father who came back and saw him push the car to open the gate, the entrance was not far, and parked the car near the wall on the inside of the gate, and the big red bag hanging on the handlebars swayed back and forth. Mother hurriedly let go of the curtain, stepped through the "squeaky" snow in the yard, and came forward to untie the big red bag that shook. (If you like it, you can follow wechat public account shanhelulu.) It turned out that my father had gone to the market town to buy fish, and remembered on the way back that he had forgotten to pay, so he hurried back again, and there was a delay in the round trip. While speaking, my father had entered the room with my mother, and I secretly laughed at my father's immorality in my heart. The living room, directly opposite the door, attached to the back wall is a yellow face and black edge of the paint table, with a long time, the color has become dim. In the middle of the table is placed a gray black double hook ear incense burner, after the incense burner a purple paper pasted on the back wall, writing the name of recent generations of ancestors, line by line is the blood handed down from generation to generation. After lunch, the sky gradually dark down, mother began to make dumplings, father will prepare incense. Night hung down, hot dumplings out of the pot, according to the rules, the first bowl to worship ancestors, I took the bowl of chopsticks put behind the incense burner. Father cleaned up the old ashes in the furnace, lit incense, and inserted them in turn. My father used to say, "Incense is a messenger to the other world, a reminder of our ancestors." On the floor of the table, my father lit a paper fire, and the flashing fire jumped up enthusiastically, a warm rush to my chest, I looked at the smoke slowly rising, gradually, my mind emerged when my grandfather took me to the south of the village to play. It's time for the cannon. The father went to the middle of the courtyard, holding the cannon in his left hand and lighting the shinanzi with his right hand. Hearing the sound of "Bessie", I took a few steps to hide under the eaves. Looking at his father from a distance straightened his left arm, and in a flash, the cannon flew out of his father's hand, and with a bang, the flash of fire in the air illuminated the whole courtyard, and also illuminated his father. Father was of medium height, but so tall in the firelight. The night was already deep, and the family sat around the charcoal fire in the kitchen, listening to grandma tell them about their eventful years. The snow in the yard set off the light from the Windows and glistened on the huge bug tree in front of the house.

Late night a little regret and feel worth it

Because I stayed up late last night, my eyebrows shook quickly to my forehead this morning, and because I got up late, I didn't have time to correct it, and I drew the same on the other side, no matter how big the matter is, I still need to pay attention to symmetry and beauty. Last night inadvertently brushed the "lurking" fragment, evoked the memory of the past. That was 14 or 15 years ago, when Yan Ni and Yao Chen were more popular because of My Own Swordsman, which happened to be led by Yao Chen. As for how they started watching the series at that time, the only thing we can be sure of now is that it was not at least because of the appearance level of the male lead (haha). In addition to the cruelty of war, there is also more hope and faith, and it also explains that people with common beliefs can love each other regardless of knowledge, the premise is to get along. Yu Zecheng in the play is a collection of wisdom, courage, courage, kindness, erudite equal to one, in line with all my standards for the soul, and must only appear in the script of the ideal man. And Cui Ping is the representative of ordinary working women, brave and upright, hard work, dare to love and hate, she does not know a big word, think what to say what, there is more than teach her how to fall in love, she can only think of the moon in the corn field, she will not use romantic words to describe the inner feelings, but can very accurately express their own mind, action can prove everything. And one of the things that she does have a lot of charm about is her confidence when she shoots. Later, when they were separated, a sacrifice made by many in those days, she did not cry. So love is not like what is written, it is a kind of inner embrace and watch. Because I stayed up too long, I was groggy today, a little regretful, but I felt it was worth it.

About dream, I don't think I will give up

15 years is the closest year to my dream, but because of some reasons, I missed it and failed in the exam, I have been very unwilling. After that, I went to Shanghai to work. Due to work reasons, our industry is basically the bottom of the master's degree, and the doctor's degree is the norm. The people I come into contact with are all TOP people in their fields at home and abroad. At that time, I also knew that it was no longer meaningful to take the exam. Age is not small, has not yet started a family, the body is still burdened with mortgage, a month 5K mortgage, with a monthly salary when I feel OK, but if I do not work, my family is not able to give me any support, let alone read a PhD? Of course, if I want to buy a house and study for a doctorate, my mother will also support me, but in the face of the uncertainty of the future, forgive me for not having the courage. I envy my brother's luck. At first, he failed in the postgraduate entrance exam, but later he was lucky enough to go abroad for a master's degree and then a PhD because of a school project. I know he has suffered a lot in this process, but I envy his fate. And I am more tragic…Until now, 5 years later, I still do nothing, three people, from the bottom of my heart, I feel like a waste!At the end of last year, an opportunity to go out with friends to start a business, in fact, that node is really embarrassing, because we did not expect to encounter the epidemic.But I have been struggling, do not want to give up, entrepreneurship is also, I want to make money, money, mortgage is no longer a problem, studying abroad is not a problem. As for marriage, once looked forward to, but now more is calm, happy-go-lucky, everything goes with it!Recently, the business has also encountered some problems, the partners disagree, I think the other side has no business thinking, low efficiency, and the other side thinks I lack scientific research thinking (the other side is a prestigious doctorate, scientific research background). We have also been very unhappy with each other, but fortunately, although we are stubborn people, will quarrel very fierce, but as long as the cite enough reasons and evidence, we can also convince each other. I don't want to fail, and this venture may be my last struggle.Sometimes I hate who I used to be. I made the wrong choice at the key point in my life. I also hate why I didn't work hard enough to make my life so hard.Dream is like an insurmountable mountain, has been chasing, obviously these things are easy for others to get, it is very difficult to me, whether it is a happy family, or reading a PhD. In fact, I think I should be easy to get, why is it so difficult now, maybe I am more demandingAnd my entrepreneurial friends are also, once we are considered to be a high starting point of people, and then gradually disappear in the public, the only thing we have is that a unwilling heart, do not want to give up.Let's just hope we survive this outbreak!

To a confused young friend

Writing this article is a bit of a cliche, but I think it should be written. The reason is that a small fellow of mine, I went to college that year, he was born, the generation is also younger than me, today wechat chat with me a few words, said that I want to talk with me all night long, very earnest, has been looking at me as a role model, which makes me very ashamed, but as his elder, I also want to talk with him. He said he was confused and had no direction and didn't know what to do. I talked with him for a few words, and later told him that I would write an article, not only him, but also my children: nephews, nephews, sons and children of relatives and friends can see that it is not good to walk during the epidemic, and if you can listen to it, you may be able to take less detours, if you can do so, it is best. I talked to him about the solidification of class and the inheritance of genes, which is also reasonable. The environment of growth is different, people have family design growth routes and life planning. As a child from the countryside, there is no planning, but there are still some feelings. The rural origin is a kind of wealth for me, and I have a strong ability to fight against the fight when I grow up, but it may also be a hindering to some extent - the innate lack of vision and height. Because of my rural background, I cultivated a simple character, but I was also very late in my education. At that time, the only thing I did when I went to school was to fight hogweed and play with a group of children. I spent a carefree childhood, without desire or desire, without worry or fear, without fear or constraint. The family does not expect you to be able to test out, my childhood ideal is to be a worker, because the parents' vision and the surrounding environment is so, when a worker is very fascinating! Cousin was admitted to the secondary school, became the glory of the village, relatives and friends one by one please eat, because this account will be transferred out. I often say that I can read a doctor, completely by mistake, never thought about it, never tree ambition, as a model to encourage later learning is very far-fetched, because there is no concept, no one at home to guide, but no one will give you a plan for life, the highest education is my old lady, junior high school graduation, she saw me at that time to read a doctor is very difficult, while working at school, Also told me that we can't do it, don't read crazy, she was afraid that I could not bear the pressure crazy. Now many farmers go to work in the city, even buy a house in the city, marry a wife and children, but the circle of life is still these people, contact with these farmers, the hoe was originally placed in the yard, now it is carried to the upstairs, the vision and realm is difficult to have a big improvement, affect the next generation, it is difficult to have a big breakthrough, because I am also a farmer, so it may also be on the cap. But there's nothing wrong with what I said. One of my old leaders, in his early thirties to the department level, once told me that the height of people's thinking is not enough experience and experience is difficult to have a big promotion, by reading thinking is not useless, but will not be of great use, I think it is very reasonable. When I was in college, children from the countryside wanted to go to the city after graduation, children from the city wanted to go to the big city after graduation, children from the big city wanted to go to the provincial capital, children from the provincial capital wanted to go to Beijing, and children from Beijing wanted to go abroad. Another example is dreaming, you never dream of things you have not seen, the ideal is the same, jump to reach more realistic. Having said all this, what I want to express is the importance of enlightenment. I graduated from college into the factory, and then laid off, and then a series of postgraduate entrance examination, employment, resignation, doctoral examination, employment, resignation, employment, temporary post, resignation, employment, enterprises have done, career has done, private enterprises have done, central enterprises have done, every step is almost not premeditated, basically because of helplessness by the progress of the majority. Imagine, I graduated from the undergraduate into the factory did not lay off, the unit barely maintained 20 years did not close down, up to now the probability that I may be just a laid-off worker! Running around for a living! Because of these experiences, there may also be more communication with the younger generation, how to take detours. What I say is not necessarily true, it varies from person to person, from time to time, from event to event, from place to place. First of all, it's hard to be lonely. School is a hard job, the first time I entered the university campus, full of excitement, after a period of time full of anger, several times in and out, and now back to the university campus, full of envy, mentality has changed. Young people, take this time to read as much as possible, miscellaneous books, professional books can be, as long as you want to read, but don't play games. When I was a child, there was no book to read at home, the university had a book and time did not cherish, read a lot of miscellaneous books: Chinese medicine, painting, Go to see a lot, later also useful, we did not have a computer network mobile phone, TV every Friday and six nights to open, usually do not have to see, now looking back on it is just good, our generation is very solid basic skills, because you in addition to reading is not too good place, even we did not get a diploma, now are technical authorities, That's the foundation, plus the hard work after graduation. Now science and technology is developed, especially the application of computers, which is also not good, the good is very efficient, commercial software calculation is very convenient, you do not need to understand the meaning of the equations can also calculate the number! The bad thing is that the concept is generally not clear, the sci article written a bunch of formulas, they do not understand, it is just a form, because the real calculation is handed over to commercial software! At that time, we had to program our own calculations, test several levels of partial differential equations, and answer the physical meaning of each item, and now it is difficult for young people to answer it, and what I want to say is the importance of basic skills, and the basis for analogy is this. Reading to go to school as far as possible on the head, read a doctor, postdoctoral, don't ask me why, as long as I believe that I will not harm you on it, because I go to school off and on, eat very thanks. In the system, to develop, age is also a barrier, this is not to say more, you really can survive the future will be grateful to me. What is the purpose of reading? I don't know! Everyone is different, but I want to at least learn to distinguish ability, analytical ability, which requires a professional but also to learn logic, whether it is liberal arts or science, to understand logic, do not understand logic is unclear, easy to believe, as for technical skills are relatively studious, college graduation time is in the early 1980s, when there are warlocks said can change water into oil, I said nonsense, Hydrogen and oxygen are burned to produce water, the hydroelectricity process hydrogen and oxygen, it takes a huge amount of energy to open the hydrogen and oxygen bond, water can burn, produce what? Where does the energy to break the hydrogen - oxygen bond come from? This is the basic logic, reasonable is reasonable, reasonable is legal, most of them. To set up long-term and near-term goals, this is not imaginary, only come to realize that you will be in the future. For example, if you choose the North Star at night, you will not lose your way, if you want to choose a very close light, walk may be confused, but you can not always overreach, recent goals must also have - find yourself, casually, as long as it can help you, such as writing an article, watching a movie with friends, you can, because the recent goals continue to produce a sense of accomplishment, which is also needed. This society is cruel! This is what you must realize, you only have the value of being used, you will be valuable, that is, you have to be useful! No one will pity you, no one will actively consider your interests! Unless you're valuable. Don't always think about the leader, one stage you are the leader of the person - because this time he needs you; Another stage may not be - his needs change! The world's martial arts only fast not broken, the world's talent is only capable, in any unit do not be dispensable people, dispensable the final result is nothing! And, very important, how to deal with the tasks sent by the leader at work! A task, which no one has done before, is given to you, and you will choose between two emotions, for sure! The first is resentment, who will not do, let me do, leadership is really not something, see my black eyes, so you will certainly do well, and will not grow. The other is to seize the opportunity, who will not do, the leader gave me, is an opportunity, it is equivalent to the unit to open your salary to let you learn things, do well, you master the technology that others will not, you won the opportunity, even if you did not do well, you also learn things, salary bonus did not affect - mentality is very important! Write here is already midnight, scattered, later think of in finishing it, hope to be useful to young people, do not want to rely on the old - because I have not been old, just like encouraging you to study hard, I am like this!

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