Our group of old primary school students are more than 50 years ago in the peace Street primary school graduation, but our group of old students do not rare junior high school, high school, and even university classmate gatherings, only enthusiastic primary school gatherings, because most of us are "egg drag gray" neighbors, remember more than 60 years ago many people in the first grade are still wearing "open pants" it. Mid-Autumn Festival small holiday, we three car road trip to the old classmate surnamed Li in Tianmu Lake a quiet and beautiful small village, a big yard, three upstairs downstairs, eat and live naturally very convenient! In the old male and female students of our six male students are after all childhood hard life strange, very good at housework, except I opened a restaurant, the other five male students are very good at cooking, and Dai Hongcai (big eyes art troupe head), Jiang Jianping (Jiang Panfang son) cooking food should be better than us, because he is the eldest son, naturally will take on more housework. And female students may not cook better than us. Of course, arrange them to wash vegetables, fire the stove, wrap wontons, and do hygiene. The vegetables in the garden near the house were very fresh, and the pumpkins had been picked by the master long before we arrived, and were piled in the garden for us to take home to the city. We use the old stove for cooking or cooking, we burn the thatched wood picked up from the mountain, because cooking with the old stove not only has a sense of nostalgia, but also an unforgettable sense of memory, and a different kind of interest! This time it was the turn of Zhang Juncheng (the big boss of the game machine in Shanghai) to be the chef, Bao Gong (his father's old cadre from Shandong to the south) to cooperate, Wang Chunping (former Daxi hydrology station master) to inspect. We cooked 16 dishes at noon and 18 dishes in the evening, which was a full table, and everyone cooperated very well. Female students drink red wine, male students eat "national edge", everyone toasts during the dinner, you come to me, never refuse, how much you can drink. After all, I grew up as a neighbor, went to school as a classmate, went to the countryside as an informed worker, and returned to the city as a worker……. Murmur -- Good brother, the next class reunion or outdoor outing, bring my universal firewood stove, easy to disassemble, cooking barbecue, comprehensive integration, firewood stove I sponsor! … At this age, it is not easy for elementary school students to gather so many people… Is there one with big eyes… Big eyes art… Do it yourself, feed yourself. The sting lies in the human fireworks, not fighting for food day and night. … Big eyes from Changzhou Wow… What a long friendship… Jiang Panfang's son has changed little. … Look at the peers, women are generally more than ten years older than men… Yes, his wife Teacher Shi is from Changzhou… Envy envy hate! … That's so nice… No, the girls look so young to me… I don't know… Well said… You know each other… Dinner 18 dishes, a cover to eat the big belly Xing xing column. … Compared to the man in the photo, he looks older than the man, the man looks younger… How about you? How's it going? … Playing arcade, used to catch loose, now he's a casino guy… Looking forward to the old life… Envy, jealousy… Okay, okay… How can people do this all day? Nice, nice event… I am not immortal, certainly older than men of the same age, do not admit it is useless, this is an indisputable fact! Which do you think looks older, a 60-year-old man or a 60-year-old woman? … Old lady, man can still… I feel like you should be young… My husband is five years older than me, but we go out together, people think I am five years older than my husband, you think I am very young? It means you're not feeling good! … Ha-ha, you are too little moist wow, more moist moist, you two will be reversed… One brother does not forget the original intention, Zan-zan-Zan… Hey, hey, hey… Your name is well chosen, Grand Maester… I don't care, I think you're complimenting me… In the first photo, the one wearing a floral dress in the front row is teacher Shi Shouhua… Shanghai Kunlun Garden "conspicuous bag" warning sign, you are really garbage!!! Kunlun Garden turning junction, the most "there is no silver three hundred and two" is also surprising. Intimate tips, prohibit littering, as a result, by a lot of people's friendly care. A lot of people dropping their kids off at school just threw their hands under the No signs. One by one. I do not know how to deal with this, how is it so difficult 30 meters in front of it, can not walk over it. … Netizen Erguotou: Hello! We have been informed of the problem you have expressed. Receive the notice of the sanitation department, the temporary garbage can point of Kunlun Garden small area, and carry out the removal of barrels and point action. Our property company actively responded, and informed through various forms of publicity, there are still some owners do not cooperate, and the garbage is not correctly placed in the garbage kiosk! The site has been cleaned! Kunlun Property Company Kunlun Garden Management Office September 28, 2023… Maybe if you take the sign away, people won't lose it… Your good neighbor… Netizen Erguotou: Hello! We have been informed of the problem you have expressed. Receive the notice of the sanitation department, the temporary garbage can point of Kunlun Garden small area, and carry out the removal of barrels and point action. Our property company actively responded, and informed through various forms of publicity, there are still some owners do not cooperate, and the garbage is not correctly placed in the garbage kiosk! The site has been cleaned! Kunlun Property Company Kunlun Garden Management Office September 28, 2023… Is the surveillance exposed… How do you say this? Every neighborhood has those guys… Is it the one with the missing tail… Using the Chinese curse will definitely work. … Shouldn't… Is it convenient for residents to withdraw barrels and point them? Toss a yarn, the convenience of the people is the hard way! … In the setting of garbage points, the first thing to consider is the convenience of residents. Before there were garbage cans, there was never any litter in the community. Is it necessary to think about the rationality of the setting? … Just want to say put a trash can in there, and then look at the original response is to withdraw the bucket and point, well, the policy, maybe the reality can give the answer is reasonable or unreasonable.
Middle age is a turning point in one's life stage, and it is also a stage where wisdom and maturity coexist. At this stage, people should reflect on their past, sum up experience and plan for the future. There are three things, after middle age, we should be careful to avoid self-inflicted consequences. First, do not overreach, feet firmly hidden in the heart. Middle-aged people should be well aware of their own abilities and limitations, and not blindly pursue illusory goals while neglecting the immediate work and responsibilities. Many middle-aged people are eager to make a breakthrough in their career, but neglect their family and physical health, which will be more than worth the loss, and eventually leave regrets. For example, Mr. Li pursued career success in middle age, worked overtime every day, and paid little attention to his family, resulting in estranged family relations and damaged physical health. This is a typical case of overreaching, so middle-aged people should know how to cherish everything in front of them, down to earth, and do not get lost in the illusory distance. When people reach middle age, they must find their own rhythm and continue to live well in accordance with their own rhythm in order to go further. Second, give up the good teacher, hollow as grain practice in the line. In middle age, many people have more or less achievements, at this time, we should maintain a humble attitude, do not be self-righteous, do not blindly give people advice, but should constantly improve their own cultivation and quality in humility. For example, when Ms. Zhang became a senior executive in her middle age, she often decided the direction of the company based on her own experience and opinions, ignoring the advice of others in her team. Such behavior is likely to lead to a decline in team morale, so that individuals in the company can not play their own advantages, and ultimately will inevitably weaken the cohesion of the entire team. Middle-aged people should give up this kind of attitude of being good to others and be vain, which can not only increase their own wisdom, but also improve the effectiveness and cohesion of the team. In middle age, one of the most valuable qualities is to understand that there is something to be done and something to be done. There are things that need to be done as a team, don't be individual heroism. When you need a team effort and you need to listen to the opinions of individuals in the team, don't act arbitrarily, or you may be isolated. Third, do not be "soft hearted" and help the poor with edges and corners. Middle-aged people tend to be kind and kind, but sometimes being too kind can lead to problems. When facing difficulties and crises, middle-aged people should remain resolute and firm, and not be blinded by their own kindness. For example, in middle age, Mr. Wang encountered difficulties in borrowing money from a relative. Although he knew that the relative was not a person he could trust, he lent it to him out of kindness, which eventually led to financial losses and the breakdown of interpersonal relationships. This is the negative impact of "gentleness of heart", middle-aged people in the face of difficulties and crises, should know how to maintain a certain degree of rationality and calm, rather than being affected by their own kindness. Middle age is a very important stage in life, we should bear in mind the three advice of aiming high, giving up good advice to teachers, and not "soft hearted". Only by staying grounded and confident, while remaining resolute and firm, can we live a more leisurely and happy life after middle age. If you have the three problems mentioned above, often do those three things intentionally or unintentionally, I hope you can quit after middle age, otherwise the pain is yourself.
In life you may be misunderstood for no reason; To be unjustifiably injured; Being slandered and insulted for no reason. In fact, the people who slander and hurt you know very well what they are doing, and all they do is to achieve their own hidden purposes. When you see through the ugliness of the performer's human nature, your heart will be relieved, and your heart will laugh at the poor actor, and there is no audience for your hard work. People have virtues, such as water to clear, square is square, will not be wrong to change the shape. Never underestimate the evil of human nature. People with selfish, narrow and greedy hearts, they usually hide it, but when they distort and expand their hearts, if they involve hidden purposes such as money desires, they will nakedly show the evil side of greed, ugly behavior, and the evil of human nature is presented without reservation. Long-term inner dark distorted view of things will be filled with evil thoughts, and finally will give themselves a bad result, the world has a result, everything done today will be presented in the future with a result. Ancient Greek proverb: If God would destroy it, he must first make it mad. Life is a process of cultivation. To cultivate the mind is to fear nature, and to be in awe will learn humility. Some people live a wonderful life, some people live an ordinary life, and some people live a tragedy. Those who strive to keep moving forward will live brilliantly; Wife good son filial piety family harmony ordinary contains happiness; Some people are bossy and paranoid and turn their lives into tragedies. How much you realize in life is how much you gain, or the old saying goes well: both young and old should leave themselves a way out. When you go through a low point in your life, ask yourself, what do you want from your heart? What do you want with your life? What is most important to you? Learn to let go of everything, give up all the things that hinder you, and withdraw in time to stop your losses. Life is short, I hope to the end of life do not sigh so, what kind of results worthy of my displaced life. Master Hongyi said: Life is the desire and desire, the process of decreasing, we must learn to give up and return, give up all the impetuous noise, return to inner peace. Read a lot when you are at the bottom of your life, so that your mind can rise to nirvana. I have been in adversity to read the "Lu Xun Complete works", this complete work is published in 1981, 96 re-edition of the old book, the book has dust also like the soul shame. Take it out of the bookcase and gently wipe it, and the book I bought when I was young is remembered to read some yellow pages today. It can be seen how young is fickle, floating in the air, intoxicated with some of the surface of life glitz, experience some hardships, will understand that books are the magnet of spiritual precipitation. When I was young, I did not understand Lu Xun, but when I read Lu Xun in middle age, I realized that the world under Mr. Lu Xun's pen is bleak, and a sharp pen is like a scalpel to analyze social conditions. Mr. Lu Xun is a litterateur, a thinker, but also a soldier. Only by reading Lu Xun can we help people out of the predicament of life. Professor Qian Liqun commented on Lu Xun: "The combination of hard-bone spirit and toughness spirit." The "Bring Doctrine" in this "and Jieting Essay" wrote: But none of us according to the etiquette of "reciprocity", said: bring! Of course, it is not a bad thing to just send it out, one is rich, and the two are generous. … Although it is said that the coal dug up in the ground will be enough for the whole world for hundreds of years. But what about hundreds of years from now? After a few hundred years, of course, we become spirits, or go to heaven or hell, but our children and grandchildren are here, so we should also leave them a little gift. Mr. Lu Xun's views on society, analysis of human nature, the spur to human opinion is not out of date until today. Reading Mr. Wang Zengqi's prose, marvel at Mr. Wang's writing from the ordinary life to start simple and simple and refined, prose written loose and God narrative calm and peaceful, quoting the meaning of profound, "Dragon Boat Festival duck egg" "Garden" only personal experience will write such a real feeling. I once lamented why I could not write such a good prose, it is because Mr. Wang Zengqi has a profound cultural heritage, he was influenced by traditional culture and ancient cultural thoughts when he was young, he could write such a brilliant article, practice the "sword" perfectly, and write the prose to a higher realm. Mr. Wang Zengqi wrote well, painted a good hand of Chinese painting, virtue and art Shuangxin was known as the last scholar-official. Mr. Wang Zengqi wrote in "Self-reported family" : "I like Song Confucianism's poem: all things are complacent, four times and people with good." To put it more literally: suddenly feel the business is full, know that there are many suffering people in the world. I think Confucians love people, so I call myself a "Chinese humanitarian." "Time does not live, time flows, only the inner spiritual and cultural beauty, is eternal." See Mr. Ye Jiaying said this sentence to understand what is eternal in life. Mr. Ye Jiaying has been displaced all her life, experienced the hardships of life when she was young, experienced the misunderstanding of her husband's domestic violence, and lost her daughter in middle age. In the face of hardships, her original heart has not changed, and she has selflessly dedicated her life to ancient poetry. Mr. Ye Jiaying sighed: Ancient poetry supported me through troubles, ancient poetry saved me. Elderly people donate their savings to encourage poetry creators. She once said, "The greatest function of poetry is to make you have an immortal and unrigid mind." Mr. Mu Xin once said: "You want me to destroy, I don't, I can't live up to the upbringing that art has given me!" Mr. Mu Xin was in prison, and in the 650,000 words of his manuscript, there was no blood indignation, no tearful complaints, but only aesthetic and philosophical thinking. What do you do when you're down in life? To raise the head straight waist to see the sky, calm and calm, do not argue, do not argue, clear from the clear, turbid from the turbid. Read quietly, think quietly, do your own thing quietly, deep reading accumulation precipitation thinking output. The function of literature is to make your heart stronger, help you out of suffering, beyond the self, literature is like a beam of light to lead you out of the darkness of life. Mr. Mu Xin said: "Usually only know that art makes people feel tender like water, and when a catastrophe is coming, I know that art also makes people have the heart of diamond." It was art that got me through the hardest times."
Originally wanted to stay up late, a little pressure, good state at night, code word fastOn second thought, it's too old to make chiliTo think again, the two children in the brush learning machine, after a pair of beautiful big eyes as I have to wasteLet's just clean up and finish the story and get up earlyAhh…New Year's Eve summoned great courage, basking in a family happinessSister's, sure enough, show love, die fastThe next day, the first day of the New Year, my handsome boy to chat with me, said to two placesSuddenly tears in my eyes, though it's nothingI eat and drink are easy to say, the key baby I bring bad how to doHow am I supposed to be responsible for a kid with a familyAhh…I promised that someone would take care of the baby and I would take care of the code wordI began a happy day with the baby, playing ah, with the baby to play ah, happyThe point is I don't want to move forwardBut there is a daily reading and writing work self-demanding progress of the peopleAlready in early overtime modeI'm stressed out and I'm constantly criticizing myselfI thought I'd read a book first, sleepyCode word, it's been half a daySister's, one to 10 o 'clock is super good, clear mind, code words, like I am a geniusAnd then no and then, sleepEarly to bed and early to rise makes you healthy
Wukong tells us that the ambition to study, if not the decision, is also a profound impact on life achievement and happiness. And scientific research proves it. A study published in the European Economic Review by Warn N. Lekfuangfu of the Carlos III University of Madrid in Spain and Reto Odermatt of the University of Basel in Switzerland provides a comprehensive analysis of the decisive role of adolescents' educational and professional aspirations, exploring the relationship between aspirations and achievement. And how aspirations affect later life (after age 50). The authors used data from the Longitudinal National Child Development Study. Following more than 17,000 people born in the same week in 1958, the study completed 10 surveys since 1958 and collected data on socioeconomic background, including parental background and skills, teenage aspirations and life expectations, adult life achievements (including educational and career achievements) and life satisfaction. The early surveys also asked the subjects' parents about their expectations for their children, as well as teachers' predictions about their children's future achievements. Research has found that having high aspirations drives higher achievement later in life. While other factors also influence achievement, such as cognitive ability or parental education, individual and parental aspirations appear to be the biggest drivers. Quantitatively speaking, career achievement at age 50 is strongly correlated with aspirations during adolescence, and aspirations formed during adolescence determine career achievement almost as much as cognitive ability. The authors note that while ambition is partly influenced by socioeconomic background (children from poor families tend to have lower aspirations, for example), overall parental aspirations have a greater impact on children's aspirations than socioeconomic background, and these aspirations drive achievement further. Thus, parents encouraging their children to have greater aspirations, such as encouraging them to seek higher education or apply for positions they may have initially felt were impossible, can help them achieve more. Many economists have previously studied the effects of a student's intelligence, ambition, family background, and university reputation on future achievement (as measured by career status and income), and while the conclusions are inconsistent, one thing is certain: Who young people want to be when they are 18 (entering college) is a better predictor of their future achievements than the school they graduated from when they are 22 (graduating from college).